Total users: 62,992,203 Online users: 227,072
Lysander, 27

Offline, last seen Wed, 27 May 2026 05:38:47

About Me

I have no problems entertaining myself, so I do fine with being alone in the general sense. In relationship terms (romantic or friendships or whatever) I'm the open & attentive sort. I invest. If you like distant & unconcerned, take it or leave it types, I'm probably not the one for you.I would like to have real conversations about things that really matter & things that make no difference at all. Most of what follows is probably a bit silly & basic and maybe you'll think it's entertaining, but it's not all of me. Words without interaction can't ever be that. So we should probably just talk.I am:-INFJ if that means anything to you.-Vegetarian (But it's fine if you're not).-Non-Drinker (But it's fine if you are).-A total word fetishist.-A person who will absolutely wait until you take a drink to say something funny.-Brit-centric.-All-Pro Hugger.-Maker of cakes (But not an eater of them).-The world's greatest uncle.-A professional maker of mix-tapes.-Left-handed.-Sure to be dissatisfied with how this profile makes me seem.-An unashamed dork/nerd/modifier of your preference.-Obsessed with music of all varieties.-Flexible.-Likely to enjoy anything zombie related.-A former runner of a thrift store.-Never one to be at a loss of words.-Intensely focused, but...-Easily distracted.I like:-Hand claps & Whoa-Oh choruses.-Three part harmonies.-Books that challenge me.-People that challenge me.-Singing all the time.-Sriracha.-Writing lists.-Writing in general.-Dancing like Elvis Costello.-Glasses.-Cinnamon tea.-Spicy Hot V8.-Used book stores.-Used record stores.-Used anything stores.-Interesting socks.-Cover songs.-Hi-Fives.-Low Fives.-The old notes and highlights people leave in books.-Camping.-Chocolate covered cherries.-Ukuleles.-Questions. Both asking and being asked.-Alliteration.-Those little single use flosser thingies.-Hypotheticals.-Libraries.-Librarians.-Stand up comedy.-Hoodies with zippers.-Movie games.-Being the one people come to.-Conversations about anything.-Conversations about nothing.-The occasional video game.-Shirts with buttons.-Holding hands.-Walking around my home town at night taking pictures of random things.-Randomness in general.-Diversity in everything.--Pickles.-Feelings of community.-Driving with my stereo far too loud and singing equally so.-Secret handshakes.-Ellipses...-Crossword puzzles.-NetFlix.-Smoothies.-The fact that no two people ever see the characters in a story the same way.-Quirkiness.-Building pillow forts.-The feeling when a song you love comes on the radio unexpectedly.I dislike...-Tomatoes. Seriously. (And yet, vegetarian. I'm complicated and mysterious or some junk.)-Artificial light.-People who can't live outside their "scene".--Coffee.-Reality TV.-Hoodies without zippers.--Bobby Flay..-Shaving.-Crocs.-People who don't use their turn signals.So... there's that.***At the moment I'm working as a Pharmacy Technician and studying for my PTCB so I can choose which hospital to work for.I'm really good at:Picking the right songs for a road trip.Making people smile.Taking care of people.Making mix-tapes.Giving massages.Being not at all what you originally expected. Books, Movies, TV, and Music:Books:Everything is Illuminated.;..;, Margot and The Nuclear So & So's, Weezer, Old Crow Medicine Show, Against Me!;, Death Cab For Cutie, The Decemberists, The Distillers, The Vaccines, The Hush Sound, Elvis Costello, Reggie & The Full Effect, Tegan &... I'm just going to stop now for both our sakes...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Darnell

    Offline

    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 25-35

    Hello I'm Justin, I'm 28 yrs old, I am a Volunteer firefighter/emt-b , I work full time for local government. Looking for a relationship. I dont want to play games, Looking for honesty here. I value honesty and integrity above all things. I'm very easy going and love to laugh and joke. I have my life together., and a good job where I have been for the last 9 years, so stability is here with me. I am to that point in life where I wanna know how a real relationship feels that's not full of lies,drama , and games. Please feel free to message me, just because I didnt mesage you first doesnt mean im not interested. Thanks and I look forward to hearing from everyone-Justin I like to get to know someone on the first date, something laid back maybe going out for dinner or a nice quite walk in a park, something simple yet relaxing to ease the mood a bit.

  • Ste

    Offline

    Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 27-37

    I enjoy a bit of banter and laughing at myself but mainly at others - (i just put the bit about laughing at myself so i don't look mean).I'm 6'-6''...if you can tell me a "tall person" joke I haven't heard, I'll buy you a drink (after groaning with indifference).I love sarcasm, perhaps too much.I love whiskey (and whiskey).I can make the best homemade old fashioned in townI work as a Structural Engineer, which i love!I religiously attend Giants spring training in AZ every year.I have a love/hate relationship with running regularly.I always move to the back on Muni.I think there's some psychology thing (or maybe it's just 3rd grade English class) that says you shouldn't start every sentence with "I".

  • Deonne

    Offline

    Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 24-34

    You've come to the right place."No one is listening until you fart." ~Author Unknown

Follow Us: