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Lysander, 27
United States, Alabama, Hayden

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About Me

I have no problems entertaining myself, so I do fine with being alone in the general sense. In relationship terms (romantic or friendships or whatever) I'm the open & attentive sort. I invest. If you like distant & unconcerned, take it or leave it types, I'm probably not the one for you.I would like to have real conversations about things that really matter & things that make no difference at all. Most of what follows is probably a bit silly & basic and maybe you'll think it's entertaining, but it's not all of me. Words without interaction can't ever be that. So we should probably just talk.I am:-INFJ if that means anything to you.-Vegetarian (But it's fine if you're not).-Non-Drinker (But it's fine if you are).-A total word fetishist.-A person who will absolutely wait until you take a drink to say something funny.-Brit-centric.-All-Pro Hugger.-Maker of cakes (But not an eater of them).-The world's greatest uncle.-A professional maker of mix-tapes.-Left-handed.-Sure to be dissatisfied with how this profile makes me seem.-An unashamed dork/nerd/modifier of your preference.-Obsessed with music of all varieties.-Flexible.-Likely to enjoy anything zombie related.-A former runner of a thrift store.-Never one to be at a loss of words.-Intensely focused, but...-Easily distracted.I like:-Hand claps & Whoa-Oh choruses.-Three part harmonies.-Books that challenge me.-People that challenge me.-Singing all the time.-Sriracha.-Writing lists.-Writing in general.-Dancing like Elvis Costello.-Glasses.-Cinnamon tea.-Spicy Hot V8.-Used book stores.-Used record stores.-Used anything stores.-Interesting socks.-Cover songs.-Hi-Fives.-Low Fives.-The old notes and highlights people leave in books.-Camping.-Chocolate covered cherries.-Ukuleles.-Questions. Both asking and being asked.-Alliteration.-Those little single use flosser thingies.-Hypotheticals.-Libraries.-Librarians.-Stand up comedy.-Hoodies with zippers.-Movie games.-Being the one people come to.-Conversations about anything.-Conversations about nothing.-The occasional video game.-Shirts with buttons.-Holding hands.-Walking around my home town at night taking pictures of random things.-Randomness in general.-Diversity in everything.--Pickles.-Feelings of community.-Driving with my stereo far too loud and singing equally so.-Secret handshakes.-Ellipses...-Crossword puzzles.-NetFlix.-Smoothies.-The fact that no two people ever see the characters in a story the same way.-Quirkiness.-Building pillow forts.-The feeling when a song you love comes on the radio unexpectedly.I dislike...-Tomatoes. Seriously. (And yet, vegetarian. I'm complicated and mysterious or some junk.)-Artificial light.-People who can't live outside their "scene".--Coffee.-Reality TV.-Hoodies without zippers.--Bobby Flay..-Shaving.-Crocs.-People who don't use their turn signals.So... there's that.***At the moment I'm working as a Pharmacy Technician and studying for my PTCB so I can choose which hospital to work for.I'm really good at:Picking the right songs for a road trip.Making people smile.Taking care of people.Making mix-tapes.Giving massages.Being not at all what you originally expected. Books, Movies, TV, and Music:Books:Everything is Illuminated.;..;, Margot and The Nuclear So & So's, Weezer, Old Crow Medicine Show, Against Me!;, Death Cab For Cutie, The Decemberists, The Distillers, The Vaccines, The Hush Sound, Elvis Costello, Reggie & The Full Effect, Tegan &... I'm just going to stop now for both our sakes...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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