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Huet, 30
United States, Oregon, Ashland

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About Me

*updated Oct 4, ***I am a nice guy. I am really friendly and I've been told I'm pretty easy to get along with. I can be a little introspective and quiet when you first are getting to know me, because I have always been a little shy with new people, but I open up pretty quickly once I have gotten to know someone. I really try to see the best in everyone, and I make the effort to really make things work. But I'm also not someone who will put up with a lot of B.S.. I am honest, brutally so if need be, and I will address things head on if they bother me, or are causing problems. Most people appreciate that about me because I don't let stuff just be a problem that is never fixed and ruins a relationship, I also don't give up on people easy. I am also determined. I set my goals, and I get what I want, and I don't give up easily. If something is important to me, I will accomplish it. And I will also help other people get what is important to them, because I like helping people and don't think that my happiness should ever come at the cost of someone else's. I am a pretty smart guy too (but not a know it all, I know when to admit I am wrong or don't know something). My education is very important to me, I had to take some time off from getting my degrees after high school to work full time because of some personal/family issues so I am still working on my masters in clinical social work. But I am working on it so that I can work in the area I have a passion for (mental health and counseling, especially with LGBTQ adolescents and young adults).I am also a very creative person and I appreciate other creative people. I love street fairs, cultural festivals, art shows, parks, the theater and museums. I love creating new things, and solving problems in new creative ways. I love it when other people share their work with me too. When I have down time and the energy to do it (grad school is not for the weak) I love to draw, paint, and write myself, and someday I would love to publish some of my work.When I just need to unwind from a week of volunteering, internship, and studying I love to hang out with friends, try new things, have new experiences, and have great conversations. I like to go out, and have fun, and be around lots of people and actually enjoy going out dancing with the right people (or all by myself if I just need to burn off some steam). But while the clubs can be fun I would rather be somewhere I can actually hear the person/people I'm with. I'm not really one for sitting in a movie theater, even with the big special effect movies I would rather wait for DVD and watch it with friends or cuddled up with someone special on the couch then sit in the movie theater. If I am staying in (which is really nice too... everyone needs their down time) I love to read or play video games. I'm partial to MMO's because I like playing with friends. And while I enjoy gaming, I am definitely a "real world comes first" person, so no in game even is ever going to come before actually spending time with real people.What am I looking forI am looking for a nice guy who shares interests with me. I really am looking for someone who can be a friend first. I know that sounds cheesy, but I really mean it. I want someone who shares my interest, who wants to talk and go do things that are fun together, who I can hang out with, rely on, and share things with. I want someone who will love me for the hopeless romantic and total nerd that I can be. I tend to fall for people in my head first (I'm more attracted to people then bodies), of course the physical aspects are important too, but I would much rather find a new friend that I enjoy being around that may have no relationship potential, then find someone I'm greatly attracted to but am bored by or cannot stand to be around.What I am looking to avoidI am not looking for someone just to hook up with. It happens, but I'm really looking for something more meaningful and long term. I am not looking for a project either. Have your head on your shoulders, have goals, know what you want to do with your life and be working towards it. You don't have to be there yet, but have an idea of where you are going. I'm not looking for someone who needs me to hold their hand and tell them what to do and how to do it, or someone who needs to be in constant contact to reassured that I am still with them and love them. Be sure of yourself, and be secure in your relationships. If I have spent the time to be with you and maintain a relationship with you, I am with you, I am honest with you, and I am loyal to you. And I expect the same. I like strong personalities and independent people. I don't need someone who needs me, I want someone who wants me and loves me.***Books: The Vampire Chronicles, The Dune Series, Farenheit 451, The Hunger Games TrilogyMovies: What Dreams May Come, Children of Men, V for Vendetta, Star Wars, Ten Inch Hero, The Fifth Element, Dogma, Cashback, Murder by Numbers, Mean Girls, Fight ClubLive Action Shows: Misfits, Being Human, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Charmed, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, Farscape, Dr. Let's keep it simple.We can go get coffee or a drink and just get to know each other. If it goes well then we can go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Italian Mexican South American Action Adventure Comedy Fantasy History
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