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United States, Oregon, Ashland

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About Me

Everyone here is looking for someone who acts normal and masculine; that's a given. It's just that everyone here thinks that's what they are. You seriously can't be half naked in a picture blowing a kiss toward the camera and think that you're going to be able to talk to me. Just move on.Anyway, about me, what you see is what you get. I'm 28 and about to finish my contract with the Navy. I plan to study to be an English teacher with a minor in Spanish. In my spare time, I workout and study. I'm very sociable and approachable; I've been told I have a warm personality. I like to take care of myself and I'm very independent.What I'm looking for is a normal and chill guy. You need to have some level of confidence in order to keep up with me. I need someone as independent as I am; meaning I'm not looking to get married after the first date; take your time and see where things go. As a side note: I'm a bottom. I hate putting my preference out there, but I figure it's a shortcut to the guessing game that would go on otherwise.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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