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Shawn
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Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 24-34
I'm trying this again, I know that sounds cliche but here we go. My hobbies: Im a gamer when it comes to PS3 games, I love racing and first person shooter games. Granted I don't play everyday but when I do I find myself playing for a while. Another one, actually my favorite, is photography. Anytime I'm out and about I take pics of things I find unusually awesome and upload to *** and I'm sometimes addicted to ***, not all the time though :)When I first meet people most think I'm really shy and quiet, which is true. But for the most part it's just I'm evaluating the situation and the people around me to see how they are. I'm always afraid I'm going to do or say something that'll come out wrong and it'll be a open mouth inset foot moment. I'm really easy going and always look for the positive in everyday situations. It's been a rough couple of years so keeping that kinda attitude helps me keep pushing forward to bigger and better tomorrows :) My friends and family are a big part of my life and I wouldn't trade them for anything, well maybe just a few of them lol. Trust, loyalty, honesty and commitment would have to be key players for me in a relationship. I know that's in any relationship but I really hold those to be a good adhesive for two to work. I've had a few in my past that didn't like being in a committed relationship and would go around behind my back while leading me on like everything's ok. That's gotta be my biggest pet peeve, just be honest if you want out or something's bothering you, let me know and we can talk about it like adults. I don't sugar coat anything, I'm a blunt person and sometimes people read it wrong. I know to most this is bad and it's some thing that I've been getting better at, but when I get to know someone and we've been talking for a while I tend to sometimes get attached easily. And to me I see it as just letting you know that I'm still interested and wanting to get to know you better. The one thing I really don't like are flakes, there have been quite a few who get to know me and run when things get remotely serious. As a result it has kinda put a wall around my heart as far as opening up to someone; which I don't want you to see that as a barrier that'll never come down, but with time I'll open up. I'm a masculine guy and most don't even know that I'm gay until I tell them and their shocked. So in turn I'm looking for a masculine guy, feminine guys have always been a turn off to me. No offense. The most important thing is to be yourself, you don't have to try and impress me or be shy about anything. That's actually what I find attractive in a guy is just confident in his own skin. Which I know everyone has something there embarrassed about; if you say you don't more than likely your lying. If your reading to this point and are still interested, just leave me a message :)If I don't message right away it because I can't respond to messages on my phone anymore, not sure what happened but now it won't show the message. It'll show I have one but I can't open it. Ill respond back when I get back from work and can get on my computer. As far as first dates go I like something simple, sitting outside talking and maybe having a few drinks all while watching the sun go down or being under the stars.
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Ralphie
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Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 24-34
I’m an emerging, young professional who’s looking for new friends and dates. I'm open to what the future will bring, and I'm consciously trying to invite meaningful work and supportive relationships into my life, whatever forms they may take. I'm always trying to better myself. I am an INTJ and a Virgo. Huge fan of music (esp. metal, alternative, and electronic) and video games. Also interested in environmental policy, science, computers, photography, puns, and "that's what she said" references where there is no possible innuendo. I care strongly about what I put into and use on my body, and I'm thankful to be in the best shape of my life.People say that I am a great listener, that I am approachable and respectable. I'm also very analytical where the situation calls for it, and I'm getting better at this whole "leadership" thing. But I can totally balance out all that seriousness with humor. Anybody who knows me for any substantial length of time will inevitably form some interesting inside jokes with me.I'm looking for people who will encourage me to grow, whom I can similarly encourage. If you see a connection you'd like to expand upon, let's chat. If you take the time to write a thoughtful message to me, I will honor the time you've spent with a message of my own.
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Otniel
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Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 27-37
I'm an open-minded, generally easy going, spiritual man - I value the intellectual, philosophical side of things, as much as their physical aspect. I tend to be reserved and collected in demeanor, taking things in stride, but will make my limits known well, and express them once they've been passed in one way or another. I've always been an analytical thinker, and apply logic to most of my life, but I know when it's time to stop and enjoy things.I'm a huge music nut, and have an extremely wide variety of artists and genres I enjoy listening to; most of my playlists reflect moods or thoughts, and I can go for hours listening to any one group of songs. Blues would have to be my favorite genre, but I love anything played with passion and soul, especially if it has a good beat and melody.My other major passion in life has to be orchid growing. I've been growing orchids for 20 years now, and currently have a modest, but varied collection in my bedroom, growing under artificial lights. Put me in an orchid greenhouse and I'll geek-out for hours.-known grower in that area. Oddly enough, my green-thumb doesn't seem to extend to many other plants, especially cacti and succulents.I'm also big into computers and PC gaming - specifically MMO's. I'm currently playing FFXIV: ARR, and am enjoying it greatly - I've been a fan of the Final Fantasy series since first playing the original game on NES way back in the day. I've been building my own computers since I was 15, and have a knack for designing systems for most any use, though gaming systems are my strong-suit of course.I'm not looking for a relationship or anything on that level of commitment. More than anything, I'd love to meet like-minded individuals who enjoy the company of others, regardless of whether or not we share common hobbies. The most important thing for me is that you know your own limits, and take responsibility for your life and actions. If you're interested in something along the lines of casual dating, then know that I'm attracted to men who are of slender/skinny or athletic builds - "chasers" if you will. Age doesn't matter nearly as much as maturity, though I'm not looking for a daddy, nor will I be yours.Good luck out there, and have some fun.