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Jabin, 29
United States, Oregon, Albany

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I don't know a lot of things with any real amount of absolute certainty... I'm not the perfect person and do not claim to be. I'm not the hottest or most fit. Not the tannest nor have the best smile. I have my flaws as we all do and try to fix them as well as look past those that can not be fixed. But I do know one thing if nothing else with complete and utter clarity. I'm a great guy. I make mistakes. I screw up from time to time as everyone does. I'm a hilarious, hansom, romantic, witty, charming person. As far as what I'm looking for in someoneI want to wake up each day, knowing, that someone out there is thinking of me and wishing I was there, just as I would be of him.I want to come home at night, to someone who would be there, to have dinner with, to share the workday with and then to sit down and snuggle up to.I want to be able to say everything and anything, to just be myself with that someone and not have to fake my way through a smile.I want to turn round a corner, and know that I am missed the minute I took my first step away.I want to turn round a corner and see a face with a smile that could light up a thousand Christmas trees just cause I popped into sight. I want to laugh, to tickle and be tickled, to horse around and have pillow fights and to surrender myself to a long passionate kiss that speaks volumes of what I stand to mean.I want to be inspired by someone else's confidence in me, in my abilities, in my intellect and my work. I want to inspire someone else, to strive to be always as good at what he does as he is now, if not better.I want to sit with someone to share the serious side of life. To talk about the state of the world and the events that unfold. To voice out its impact on my life, our lives.I want someone who would hold me as I cry and I hurt until that hurt has passed. I want to know that when I fight with someone, it's alright.That it happens to the best of soulmates. And that when everything has calmed and cooled down,it's alright to say I'm sorry and to come back. That he'll still be there when I come back or that he will always come back.I want to have a hand to hold mine as night turns to day.But I’m no different from any other human. I want to be loved, cherished, thought of, missed.No one can promise the world or the future. But that’s not what I am seeking. To live through a day at a time is good enough for me,Will I ever find that? Who knows what the future holds? I'm not giving up on it, but I'm certainly not holding my breath waiting on it either...Right now though, I'd be content with a few more really good friends and/or a nice date. It's been way too long since I've been on a date. Conversation! I love indulging in others' stories and absorbing knowledge. There's so much people can learn from each other if we just cut outthe games & drama and stop being too d*mn proud to learn a thing or two!I tend to be pretty shy when first getting to know someone, and the chances of me being the person to initiate conversation is slim to none, so if you want to talk, send me a message, and we'll see where things go. A first date to me should be spent getting to know someone, so going to see a movie to me, would not be a good first date activity and probably wouldn't lead to a 2nd date, because how well can you get to know someone while watching a movie more or less in silence? I think I would like to just spend some one on one time, either over dinner, talking while walking in a park, or over a few drinks. Me being the shy type that I am find it easier to open up more after a drink or two. Anyway you look at it though, the first date should be spent getting to know the person you're on the date with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Art Activities American Indonesian Spanish Biography Computer Games Pets
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    Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    Thanks for reading! Presumably you want to know more about me, or you wouldn't be here, right? While I don't live in OKC yet, I'm working on relocating as soon as money and the job situation allows.Here goes: I’m an honest hard-worker with a big heart and more interests and hobbies than I know what to do with. Ultimately, my goal is to finish my degree and pursue a career in severe weather forecasting and research and I’m planning on going back to school in the spring to get a head-start on that. Besides meteorology, I love to spend plenty of time on the road, just me, music and my truck. I spend a lot of time outside, when weather allows: Hiking, fishing, gardening, spending time with my dog... I like to cook, enjoy wine-tastings, am a graduate gemologist, work on cars, build things and love vegging out on Sundays. Music is, and always has been a huge influence to me…-grunge, classic rock, some singer-songwriter and surf guitar as well. My all time favorite band is Cross Canadian Ragweed.Fashion-wise, dressing down is usually my preferred way to go. Jeans, a tee-shirt and boots is what you'll usually find me in. I was diagnosed with type-2 diabetes a few years ago, so eating well and getting back into shape have become very important to me. I really want a bike, but that will have to wait!I’m here looking for the ying to my yang… The one who compliments me and I compliment him… The one person who will be there when all others have long since jumped ship. We would have the kind of bond where I can feel the butterflies in my stomach every time I hear my partners voice. A true soul mate.As far as race and age, I prefer Caucasian guys in my age group with skinny/athletic/average builds. Anyone else can certainly feel free to message me too… You can never have too many friends. I am not perfect, and I certainly don’t expect perfection. Chemistry and attraction are the two traits that make a relationship work, so as long as those exist we can work out the details. So, don’t be shy: Message me, because you never know what may lie behind unopened doors. Hmmm, ideally: Go for a walk in the park and sit by the water and talk for hours. Then grab a bite and head to a drive-in for a cheesy comedy. The night would end with an ice cream cone and a kiss... In reality: Something as simple as grabbing a coffee and talking to get to know each other. Maybe go to a museum, or take a ride on a historic railroad. Pack a picnic and sit on the tailgate by the lake.

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  • Dalton from Albany | Man | 30 years old | Gemini
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    Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    Hello! Thanks for looking at my profile loI I'm a cool laid back guy. I am interested in cars, engines trucks. Pretty much anything that has a engine. Love the outdoors. Into boating, jetsking snowmobiling camping and such. not into the drug scene at all! Looking for someone to get to know and possibly date. Looking for someone around my age give or take afew years. Looking for someone thats nice. And lookin for someone with their head on persay. Also lookin for someone that DOES NOT DO DRUGS!

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  • Stephen from Albany | Man | 28 years old | Aries
    Stephen

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    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    ok i like to hangout with friends whether its playing pool or watching movies .. i dont like large crowds sometimes depending on the vibe i get off of the place im at and the people in it .. but my personality is liked by most ... i like off the wall conversations about anything and everything as long as your open minded and can bring a good opinion to the table , i dont know exactly know what i want do to in life but hey im only 25 and have time to decide right ?? i just think i havent found my netch in life lol .. if your still reading this and like what kind of person i am so far then strike up a conversation or debate either way im game .... hell aslong as your intersting and open minded and laid back i think we will get along great .. im a free spirit and looking for my rock ....

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