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Jabin, 29
United States, Oregon, Albany

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About Me

I don't know a lot of things with any real amount of absolute certainty... I'm not the perfect person and do not claim to be. I'm not the hottest or most fit. Not the tannest nor have the best smile. I have my flaws as we all do and try to fix them as well as look past those that can not be fixed. But I do know one thing if nothing else with complete and utter clarity. I'm a great guy. I make mistakes. I screw up from time to time as everyone does. I'm a hilarious, hansom, romantic, witty, charming person. As far as what I'm looking for in someoneI want to wake up each day, knowing, that someone out there is thinking of me and wishing I was there, just as I would be of him.I want to come home at night, to someone who would be there, to have dinner with, to share the workday with and then to sit down and snuggle up to.I want to be able to say everything and anything, to just be myself with that someone and not have to fake my way through a smile.I want to turn round a corner, and know that I am missed the minute I took my first step away.I want to turn round a corner and see a face with a smile that could light up a thousand Christmas trees just cause I popped into sight. I want to laugh, to tickle and be tickled, to horse around and have pillow fights and to surrender myself to a long passionate kiss that speaks volumes of what I stand to mean.I want to be inspired by someone else's confidence in me, in my abilities, in my intellect and my work. I want to inspire someone else, to strive to be always as good at what he does as he is now, if not better.I want to sit with someone to share the serious side of life. To talk about the state of the world and the events that unfold. To voice out its impact on my life, our lives.I want someone who would hold me as I cry and I hurt until that hurt has passed. I want to know that when I fight with someone, it's alright.That it happens to the best of soulmates. And that when everything has calmed and cooled down,it's alright to say I'm sorry and to come back. That he'll still be there when I come back or that he will always come back.I want to have a hand to hold mine as night turns to day.But I’m no different from any other human. I want to be loved, cherished, thought of, missed.No one can promise the world or the future. But that’s not what I am seeking. To live through a day at a time is good enough for me,Will I ever find that? Who knows what the future holds? I'm not giving up on it, but I'm certainly not holding my breath waiting on it either...Right now though, I'd be content with a few more really good friends and/or a nice date. It's been way too long since I've been on a date. Conversation! I love indulging in others' stories and absorbing knowledge. There's so much people can learn from each other if we just cut outthe games & drama and stop being too d*mn proud to learn a thing or two!I tend to be pretty shy when first getting to know someone, and the chances of me being the person to initiate conversation is slim to none, so if you want to talk, send me a message, and we'll see where things go. A first date to me should be spent getting to know someone, so going to see a movie to me, would not be a good first date activity and probably wouldn't lead to a 2nd date, because how well can you get to know someone while watching a movie more or less in silence? I think I would like to just spend some one on one time, either over dinner, talking while walking in a park, or over a few drinks. Me being the shy type that I am find it easier to open up more after a drink or two. Anyway you look at it though, the first date should be spent getting to know the person you're on the date with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Art Activities American Indonesian Spanish Biography Computer Games Pets
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