SIMILAR PEOPLE
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HoytOffline
Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 27-37
When you post a group photo, you will unquestionably be the least attractive guy in it. Just don't do it.And laundry lists of grievances are incredibly unattractive. So is exclamation! mark! abuse!!!***Quick & Dirty ---I am: 5'8" 135#, intelligent, quiet, affectionate, generous, dependable, homebody I like: animals, cooking, diners, cars, movies, video games, backrubs, shopping, building/fixing/cleaningYou are: intelligent, mature, affectionate, responsible, easy going, nonsmoker, nonfatYou like: movie nights, dogs, cuddlingBonus points if: hairy, bearded, bottom/vers***Extended ---I'm a little bit country; I'm a little bit OCD.-mannered fish. I warm up to new people and situations very slowly, which can make me seem rude (I tend to be overly cautious around people until I trust them). I like intellectual, emotional, and physical intimacy, simple expectations, and mutual understanding. Challenging conversations, comfortable silences, curiosity, open minds, and flexible goals. I believe intelligence and humility are two great tastes that taste great together.I like video games and movies, roller coasters and cars, and warm quiet nights. I love animals and don't eat them. I carry a Mary Poppins bag full of bad rhymes and inappropriate humor. I am most definitely an acquired taste.I typically fall for muscular older guys with a good foundation (career, house, car) or cute young guys looking for stability and security. I'm happiest with someone gentle, sensitive, and thoughtful... but confident and protective. I like guys who own a toolbox and can build a deck or *** dishwasher. Guys who prefer the driver's seat, and know an Acura from an Audi. Guys who can grow a tomato and use it in a recipe. Bonus points for hairy, bearded, and bottom/vers.I would like someone to grow with. Someone reasonable, responsible, reliable, and dedicated. Someone who loves to be held. I believe if just one thing is worth living for, it's lying at night next to someone you love.***Why is he still typing ---Online dating is like shopping in a mall that doesn't take credit and everything you want costs more than you've ever had in your wallet. Half get ***, half get a "thanks", and once in a blue moon you find a connection. *** times, text for a while, maybe even have a date... and suddenly someone loses interest. One of you is too needy or too distant, too boring or too intense, too sexual or too prudish, too lazy or too active, too shy or too outgoing, too stupid or too smart, too closeted or too flamboyant, etc etc etc. (Don't get me wrong, I'm guilty too)Relationships are about growth and compromise and being open to new experiences. We're probably never going to find our "perfect" man, and yet we're not willing to bend on our wishlists. We're all different but still hang onto countless deal-breakers, and carelessly pass up opportunities to expand our palate with guys who might be wonderful given a chance. I'm so tired of finding a profile that sounds fantastic (he's a nerd! he loves dogs! he's adorable!), ***, and being *** hard is it to be gracious? How hard is it to be flexible? I work a boring office job, I live a simple boring life, I work out and hate every minute of it, I have 3 close friends, my dog means the world to me, and all I've ever wanted is to find someone to love who makes me feel wanted. Everything else is details.
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TurloughOffline
Man. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 23-33
What you are about to read is deep and real but does not come from someone without flaws or who typically walks around thinking of these things. I just took a few moments to write. It didn’t take long and it didn’t take too much thought. I go to bed every night cuddling with my pillow. I’ve dated guys. I’ve been someone’s boyfriend three times. I treated each of them like royalty. I’m a complete gentleman. I want a relationship because I want a friend that I can share life experiences with and have a good time. I want a relationship because I don’t like falling asleep alone. I have a high self-worth and a good self-esteem. I am a good person. I cannot remember the last time I ever yelled at someone or argued with someone. I have a very outgoing personality. I was popular in high school. I’m popular in college. I don’t lack for friends. My demeanor is masculine. My demeanor is emotional. I like football and I like to dance. I have a great sense of humor. I like to laugh and I love to hear others laugh. I’m not a huge mystery, but I am deep. I keep in good shape. Occasionally I can go into intellectual and academic subjects that can put the biggest geek asleep. It’s not what I’m all about but long, late night conversations are not out of the question. I’m fun to be around and I wouldn’t have friends if I wasn’t. I’m a drinker and not a smoker. I want a guy who is independent, but who doesn’t mind having someone like me around to protect him and him to protect me. I’m very down to earth and have little respect for people who walk around with their noses in the sky or their heads in the clouds. We are allowed our melancholy moments, but it should be a temporary state. I’m committed and loyal, traits that are seemingly and observably rare for men or women, gay or straight. I would never want to be with someone I did not want to be with and I would never want someone to be with me who did not want to be with me. Sometimes I feel like I carry the weight of the world on my shoulders and feel the burdens of all my loved ones. I take time to relax. I realize at twenty-five years old that time is more important than money. Money is important too, and I would want enough to take care of myself and the guy I end up with forever. Don’t think you are him or that you will be that guy. Just know that if you are then this is me. I know how to carry on a conversation and it is quite the art. Some people are less gifted than others but dead silence is only appropriate if you are going to fill the silence by kissing me or if we are so comfortable with each other that silence is not awkward. You should be confident, I am. I would love for someone else to make the decisions; but if you routinely make bad decisions I will not follow along with that. I have values, you should have some too. I am not a religious person at all, but I do genuinely care for other people and no one needs a church for that. If you have read this far, I suppose I have sparked some interest in you. If you want to get to know me, you know how to contact me.
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GregOffline
Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 25-35
I'm me. I'm not really sure how to elaborate because I usually prefer to answer questions. I'm a dorky kinda guy. My friends say that I'm a big kid, but I know when to be a grown up and follow through on my responsibilities. I'm usually the guy who fades into the background but when I truly feel comfortable, I want all the attention. I'm hoping to find someone who can mesh well with me. I'm more of a homebody because I usually prefer to stay in to watch a movie or read a book, but the right person could talk me into just about anything. I'm not the smartest guy, but I have good intentions and a big heart. A first date with me would involve a good meal and talking. I like getting to know new people and the best way to do so is just to talk. If there's chemistry, there's no problem finding something to talk about or something to say. I want to be able to say that if nothing else, I made a good friend.