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Elam, 26

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About Me

Being in the military I was never really able to be myself, now with the appeal of DADT I can finally be the real me but I find it hard to break out and be fully open for fear that I will be "caught" it has been drilled in my mind for years and I want to find someone who will make me forget about all that and not care because I love that person.I'm a pretty easy going guy. I like a multitude of things and my interests vary... Basically if I like something or think it is interesting then I will be interested in it. That being said I love art I could spend hours in museums looking at the different forms and styles and never get bored. Music to be is a relaxing thing, it helps me stay positive and brings me out of darkness.I am in the PA national guard and my whole life really revolves around it, it is that one thing that truly defines me and makes me who I am. I plan on staying in until I am forced out and that hopefully will be a long time away.I am a huge homebody and family man. I live being with my family and having fun, we all are a little crazy so it makes for some really awesome times. I would love to find someone to bring with me to family functions and hope that they would enjoy the insanity that will ensue.I unfortunately live with my mom for financial reasons and I am not completely comfortable in bringing someone back. I am really close to being back on track and moving out but I do not want to rush the process and just end up in the same situation again. I have not gone on too many dates in my life so I really don't know what I would do. I like to consider mysf a romantic person but that is only truly after I have gotten to know someone and think that there is a possibility of it being long term. That being said... I would ideally do a dinner and a movie for a first date. Dinner would be their choice as to where to go and as far as the movie it could be in a movie theatre or at home on a couch. Very simple but a good way to really get to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I am a young guy who is looking for a long term relationship. I enjoy cooking and gardening. Growing your own food then being able to cook it is great! I love getting up and going to the farmers market, taking day trips and just traveling in general. I thoroughly enjoy romance, ask me to slow dance and I'm yours. Dinner, a walk. Get to know one a other. Go have a drink or coffee and just talk. Romance is also appreciated.

  • Giffard

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    Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I work at a restaurant and a youth program. I spend alot of time listening to music. I love animals. My music taste goes from classic to pop to rock depends on my mood. i like to go dancing out with friends. My goals in life is to live for myself, spend as much time with family and friends as I can. I have my human services degree. I enjoy working with people and meeting new people. I have been told I am a good listener. I tend to live life with passion and enjoy most things at hand. My first date I would love to go to a coffee shop and chat. I think on a first date it is important to talk and get to know each other see if their is indeed chemistry there. On a date I would go with the flow.

  • Quin

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    Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    1. Hobbies/interests: photography, politics, music, lots of stuff... 2. What makes me unique: I like having fun, but I'm ultimately looking for more if the right person comes along. I have a big heart, and I like to learn and grow with every new experience.3. Music: almost everything appeals to me on some level.. classical, classic rock, rock, jazz, pop, some country, NO rap (pretty much anyway...lol), lots of stuff..4. I want someone I can hang on to...someone who wants stable love. I'm willing to date and meet people until I meet that one special guy as a soulmate. Maybe it could be you? :) I would enjoy a nice stroll along a beach, a dinner together, a good talk about our lives and what we hope to do with them, where we hope to go, and we would get a feel for how our personalities match. Then maybe a movie.

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