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Elam, 26

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About Me

Being in the military I was never really able to be myself, now with the appeal of DADT I can finally be the real me but I find it hard to break out and be fully open for fear that I will be "caught" it has been drilled in my mind for years and I want to find someone who will make me forget about all that and not care because I love that person.I'm a pretty easy going guy. I like a multitude of things and my interests vary... Basically if I like something or think it is interesting then I will be interested in it. That being said I love art I could spend hours in museums looking at the different forms and styles and never get bored. Music to be is a relaxing thing, it helps me stay positive and brings me out of darkness.I am in the PA national guard and my whole life really revolves around it, it is that one thing that truly defines me and makes me who I am. I plan on staying in until I am forced out and that hopefully will be a long time away.I am a huge homebody and family man. I live being with my family and having fun, we all are a little crazy so it makes for some really awesome times. I would love to find someone to bring with me to family functions and hope that they would enjoy the insanity that will ensue.I unfortunately live with my mom for financial reasons and I am not completely comfortable in bringing someone back. I am really close to being back on track and moving out but I do not want to rush the process and just end up in the same situation again. I have not gone on too many dates in my life so I really don't know what I would do. I like to consider mysf a romantic person but that is only truly after I have gotten to know someone and think that there is a possibility of it being long term. That being said... I would ideally do a dinner and a movie for a first date. Dinner would be their choice as to where to go and as far as the movie it could be in a movie theatre or at home on a couch. Very simple but a good way to really get to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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