Total users: 61,264,334 Online users: 220,852
Ewen, 30
United States, Nebraska, Sidney

Offline, last seen Sat, 07 Feb 2026 01:37:19

About Me

Where to begin? I am a 30 year old, single, gay professional working in the media. I am almost 12 years into a successful career, and the sky is the limit. I am very ambitious, out-spoken, and not afraid to work hard for what I want. The same can be said for my love life.I am at a position in my life where I want the next serious relationship I get into, to be my last. I'm set up with my career, have great relationships with my colleagues, friends and family, and am (for the first time in my life) quite content being single. I don't NEED a boyfriend, but meeting a great guy to settle down with would be awesome! I like non-traditional, creative dates. Use your imagination! It should be fun and a time for us to focus just on each other.As for my type, I am usually attracted to slender or athletic guys. But each guy has his own qualities, ill know if I'm attracted to you or not right away. Don't sweat it if I'm not, be you and own it, I do!I have a career, a car and my own place. I need to be able to relate to you, if you still live at home, are hung up on an ex, use recreational drugs, feel the need to be at the bar every weekend, or aren't willing to spend the time and energy getting to know someone new, then we aren't compatible. Please be an adult and have something going for yourself. People with morals and goals are a huge turn on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Middle Eastern Vietnamese Fantasy Sport Western Sailing Soccer / Football Charity
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Nethaniah from Sidney | Man | 29 years old | Sagittarius
    Nethaniah

    Offline

    Man. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    I enjoy the outdoors more than anything. I would prefer to be outside than in but enjoy movies in or out, quiet dinners, going out for drinks and dancing (country). I really never know how to capture my personality as it seems to be dynamic to my situation.Just to be clear I say occasional smoker as I don't smoke cigarettes. I smoke a E cigarette I don't smell or taste like an ashtray :-) No offence to cigarette smokers I use to be one! I like something quiet to start the date then something off the wall like Mini Golf to shake things up and have a little fun. I feel its important to be able to hear and listen on the first few dates. Dinner or coffee in a quiet place nothing romantic to start just quiet so we can talk and learn about each other in a comfortable environment. I never want to go to a concert or a movie on a first date.To be honest it would be nice and a change to get asked on one for a change.

    Chat
  • Skidbladnir from Sidney | Man | 29 years old | Virgo
    Skidbladnir

    Offline

    Man. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    Hoping to find someone in the area to get know. Just moved here starting all over here so I won't settle like I have in the past.hope to find someone kind and caring and polite. I want to love again. maybe I'm crazy to think I will find love here but I don't know where else to meet guys. Not really into the gay scene I'm ok with whatever being in this area there are a lot of creative things to do. I'm ok with dinner an drinks and leaving it at that the first date or maybe a movie after . I'm pretty simple

    Chat
  • Edan from Sidney | Man | 29 years old | Scorpio
    Edan

    Offline

    Man. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    ;I am: clean-cut, smart, fun loving and professional with a heart of gold and zero tolerance for bullshit. You be: real, able to communicate your thoughts, no more than 35ish, not into playing games and interested in taking care of yourself.I have strong but accommodating opinions on religion, politics, the standards to which people hold themselves, and a lot of other things. I'm not forceful about them; I *** found that many people simply are too quiet or do not have confidence enough in their convictions to share them.I'm also generally endlessly positive and upbeat. Someone's got to be!I'd rather be alone forever than slowly strip away the things that make me who I am in order to find the greatest common factor of a man who would have me.I like reading, writing, drawing, tinkering with computers, video games, dancing, singing loudly, good food, good people, contemplating God and existence, questioning everything, driving, road trips, horror movies, lots of other types of movies, muscles, cooking, eating (relatively) well, astronomy. That's just the what I came up with in 30 seconds.I realize now if I'm going to find that special someone, I have to be patient in ways I didn't understand before. This person has to be my friend well before they are my lover. That is what I have always wanted and never let myself have. I am no longer looking for love first - I'm here to find my best friend and see where that takes me/us. I cannot start out dating or getting serious quickly - I need to get to know you first and vice versa. Let's not be in a hurry, let's not seem desperate, let's not NEED a relationship.While a hopeless romantic, I try not to be terribly emotional, clingy, or dependent. Please don't be. I am passionate about a great many things; I have a lot of feelings. They do not consume me or get the best of me. I can handle distance and time from a person regardless of how much I care for them. I am not looking for someone to complete me; I am already complete, or at least as complete as I am at this point in my journey. I believe you need to be a complete person on your own, happy on your own, to ever truly be with somebody. I will not complete you. I do not want to complete you. If you are incomplete, complete yourself. Soul mates are not two people who cannot live without each other - they are two people who do not want to live without each other.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: