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Sawyer, 50
United States, North Dakota, Bottineau

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About Me

It is who you are when no one is looking that really counts - my ideal match would know what this means. He would love to travel, eat sushi and not mind hanging out watching old black and white movies or comedies (comedians or movies). When I say that I "want a relationship" it is because they didn't have the "wants to date and open to something serious but not rushing to get there" option - nothing forced is worthwhile. I believe chemistry sparks the interest but friendship keeps it alive in a healthy way. I do NOT get into drama - I am still friends with my ex, if that gives you perspective. To save some folks the time of reading any further – no, I am not looking to just hook up; no, I am not "into younger men" (20's!?? helloooo????); and yes, I think it is important to converse via *** bit before meeting. That all being said - My daughter is my primary focus. We spend a lot of time together and have a lot of fun, although she is now a teen… (scary!). I am independent but looking for someone share and grow with. I am not high maintenance because I respect that you have your friends and we can do things separately. I will say that much of my family is made up of friends. I have been blessed with many good ones - male and female. I love to scrapbook, walk my dogs, meet new people (I have never met a stranger!), hang out with friends, and sip wine or coffee on the patio. I love all kinds of music - the '80s tend to be my fave because I love to dance. I love to cook but there are definitely times I go the easy route. I live my life with gratitude and aim for making lemonade when I am handed lemons.-type Italians!). I love to be outdoors and just began jogging again. It is my goal to be more active but would love a partner to enjoy it (and help motivate me!). Friends describe me as funny, practical, thoughtful, dedicated and patient (almost to a fault). I love creating a home where the kids and friends love to hang out. I hear "you are my 2nd mom" from several kids! With kid traffic, my home is clean but not pristine - well, my daughter's room is another story...(eeks!)Spirituality is very important to me and walking the talk is vital. Self-awareness and introspection, intention and goals - I want to share this part of me with my ideal match.Someone who thinks house cleaning, cooking and taking care of the kids is 'women's work' or has a problem with jealousy need not apply. Thanks for reading! Well a first meeting can be simple like out for coffee, a drink after work, but a first date .... A visit to a frozen yogurt place for a treat - or a Mexican dinner with margs (no salt for me!)! Add in good conversation and laughter and any of these would be great fun for a first date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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