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ChelsieOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
At this point in my life, I'd feel really blessed to find a man who recognizes (and values) a great thing when we share it, has the maturity and hard earned self confidence in his own skin to be a partner, if we're lucky enough to find a strong connection in the first place! A great relationship requires honesty, strong communication skills, mutual regard and making time to play together! We all work hard, but we need to unwind and play : ) Ever see that bumper sticker: "Bark less, Wag more" ? Love that! BTW, about the cartoon with my photos - hopefully, you have a great sense of humor and aren't offended by it - and if I'm lucky, you think it's hysterical and kind of symbolic of online/blind dating, like I do : ) That poor guy!! ME: I love to spend weekends traveling or just together creating an adventure, or trying new things. My job is STRESSFUL, so fun is hugely important to me for re-fueling and a healthy balance! I'm FUN, compassionate, patient, loyal, super affectionate, grounded genuine, ht/wt proportionate, honest at all times, silly, playful, open and communicative~ and I'm even more attractive on the inside than the outside - looks fade, wrinkles arrive and none of that matters when we're 80 something, holding hands and knowing your best friend is by your side, and has your back : ) I was married for 17 years, divorced now for 10 years, and I know it takes working together and compromise to make it through the rough spots.... I'm not a runner. I don't yell or use the silent treatment when there's a conflict - and I'm holding out for the kind of rare man who prefers to talk things through - respectfully and honestly, with the goal of resolving things and reconnecting : ) If you need to be right over reconnecting, we probably won't make a good fit.YOU: So the search continues to find my honey... you are in good shape but not a gym rat!, LOL ..emotionally available and mature, confident but not arrogant, have mutual regard for others - (you look for others' perspective in things), you're respectful, genuine, grounded, self aware and open to the option of an exclusive relationship if we get to that place. You're romantic, and love to be romanced in return. You're not afraid to love big and fall hard, and you're very comfortable with letting a woman into your heart along with the feelings, intimacy and passion that brings. You enjoy showing/saying how you feel.... You play hard and have a healthy balance between work, play, family and your other relationships... You have strong morals and a natural love for dogs and kids! (I don't have a dog, but dogs can sniff out the good guys!) You DON'T use recreational drugs and don't need to get drunk if you drink. You're a gentle, straight shooter, even when it would be easier NOT to be, and you appreciate the same from your partner. If you're searching for someone you can always be yourself with, share anything with, and know you've got a safe place to land when life beats you up, we'll likely connect and share alot in common. You have to look at the good and the bad in people, and weigh them out. There's always going to be some of both in all of us..."warts and sparklies" as my Gram used to call them! Natural, easy flowing humor and romance are huge to me...try a little tenderness! Don't be shy - say hello! ... Meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink can be the perfect way to keep it light and casual at first, which makes everyone more comfortable for the initial meet and greet : ) Great way to find out if there's any chemistry or potential for a real date. What would you like to do? PLEASE - Don't contact me if: you smoke (anything other than cigars), if you're not at least 5'8" or if you are still MARRIED/SEPARATED (I learned the hard way)! You won't change my mind, no matter how sweet and charming you are, and I will politely excuse myself and leave right then. Besides, does it make sense to start a meeting off with deception?? ...big red flag! (Run Forest, run!)
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HiediOffline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Hey…’t willing to drive here to meet me, don’t bother…I’m not coming to you! If we get past the first meeting, then we can share travel time. I’ve been independent for a very long time and have developed a bit of an attitude about stupid people, please don’t be stupid because I will call you on it. I am NOT looking for a booty call I don’t need this site to get one of those! DO NOT ask me for pics of my body parts! They are spectacular but I'm not sending you pictures or showing you on cam...get a grip and go buy a magazine!!!!Okay…now that those are out of the way I’ll tell you what I want from you. I want honesty, respect, and a partnership. I’m mature enough to know that we both have pasts and some of that baggage will follow, but it shouldn’t define ‘us’. I have no regrets in my life. Everything I’ve done has made me who I am. I wouldn’t change anything because if I did, everything after it would change as well. I want you to always tell me the truth even if it hurts…I can’t change or deal with things I don’t know about. I want you to respect me and what I have to offer our relationship…I’m not dumb or inferior to you in any way. I want a partner…someone who asks my opinion on things that affect ‘us’. I won’t stop you from doing things you want to do, but I want to know about them before you do them. I know that a partnership is not always ***, it’s a give and take, but neither of us should ever feel that we are giving more than we are getting back. I'm not looking for someone to look after me, I've done a pretty good job of that for the last 28 years, and have no intentions of handing over control to someone else. lolIf you’ve made it this far I thank you for reading my profile. I’m hoping this one gets me closer to finding the man that I am looking for. I know he’s here. He just has to trust himself enough to reach out and give happiness a try. There is much more to me but I have to leave something to talk about when we meet. PS If I send you a message it doesn't mean I want to marry you, relax and take what I said as a compliment! F*** some men on here are so full of themselves!!!!! Surprise me! I love surprises!!!!
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EstellaOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I love to travel, spend time with family and friends.I am very active and doing things out doors ex:camping, fishing, horseback riding, beach riding motorcycles. I listen to all kinds of music and like to dance as well. I go out dancing when ever I can. Life is short and I live life to the fullest each and every day. I hate drama and mind games. I am honest and up front. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I have my own house, truck and can take care of myself finacialy. In saying that I am not looking for a man to take care of me! I am looking for someone to share my life with and have lots fun. I have 3 grown children 2 boys 1 girl and 3 beautiful granddaughters. I spend alot of quality time with them and would like someone to share this part of my life with as well. I enjoy having BBQ's and hanging out with family and friends.Just enjoying life!!! If you like what you have seen and read then send me a message! I like dates where we can talk and get to know each other.