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ChelsieOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
At this point in my life, I'd feel really blessed to find a man who recognizes (and values) a great thing when we share it, has the maturity and hard earned self confidence in his own skin to be a partner, if we're lucky enough to find a strong connection in the first place! A great relationship requires honesty, strong communication skills, mutual regard and making time to play together! We all work hard, but we need to unwind and play : ) Ever see that bumper sticker: "Bark less, Wag more" ? Love that! BTW, about the cartoon with my photos - hopefully, you have a great sense of humor and aren't offended by it - and if I'm lucky, you think it's hysterical and kind of symbolic of online/blind dating, like I do : ) That poor guy!! ME: I love to spend weekends traveling or just together creating an adventure, or trying new things. My job is STRESSFUL, so fun is hugely important to me for re-fueling and a healthy balance! I'm FUN, compassionate, patient, loyal, super affectionate, grounded genuine, ht/wt proportionate, honest at all times, silly, playful, open and communicative~ and I'm even more attractive on the inside than the outside - looks fade, wrinkles arrive and none of that matters when we're 80 something, holding hands and knowing your best friend is by your side, and has your back : ) I was married for 17 years, divorced now for 10 years, and I know it takes working together and compromise to make it through the rough spots.... I'm not a runner. I don't yell or use the silent treatment when there's a conflict - and I'm holding out for the kind of rare man who prefers to talk things through - respectfully and honestly, with the goal of resolving things and reconnecting : ) If you need to be right over reconnecting, we probably won't make a good fit.YOU: So the search continues to find my honey... you are in good shape but not a gym rat!, LOL ..emotionally available and mature, confident but not arrogant, have mutual regard for others - (you look for others' perspective in things), you're respectful, genuine, grounded, self aware and open to the option of an exclusive relationship if we get to that place. You're romantic, and love to be romanced in return. You're not afraid to love big and fall hard, and you're very comfortable with letting a woman into your heart along with the feelings, intimacy and passion that brings. You enjoy showing/saying how you feel.... You play hard and have a healthy balance between work, play, family and your other relationships... You have strong morals and a natural love for dogs and kids! (I don't have a dog, but dogs can sniff out the good guys!) You DON'T use recreational drugs and don't need to get drunk if you drink. You're a gentle, straight shooter, even when it would be easier NOT to be, and you appreciate the same from your partner. If you're searching for someone you can always be yourself with, share anything with, and know you've got a safe place to land when life beats you up, we'll likely connect and share alot in common. You have to look at the good and the bad in people, and weigh them out. There's always going to be some of both in all of us..."warts and sparklies" as my Gram used to call them! Natural, easy flowing humor and romance are huge to me...try a little tenderness! Don't be shy - say hello! ... Meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink can be the perfect way to keep it light and casual at first, which makes everyone more comfortable for the initial meet and greet : ) Great way to find out if there's any chemistry or potential for a real date. What would you like to do? PLEASE - Don't contact me if: you smoke (anything other than cigars), if you're not at least 5'8" or if you are still MARRIED/SEPARATED (I learned the hard way)! You won't change my mind, no matter how sweet and charming you are, and I will politely excuse myself and leave right then. Besides, does it make sense to start a meeting off with deception?? ...big red flag! (Run Forest, run!)
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ColettaOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Easy going, typical redhead, come from a large family of redheads so I am just one of many in my family. Work in the medical field, so some say my humor can be a little twisted. I guess that comes from the years of doing the work I do. I really enjoy my job and helping the people that I can, so it is all good. More open minded and free thinker then political. Love the peace, and enjoy life.Some of the things I enjoy when off work is seeing new things, camping/fishing, dancing, love the sports seasons. I enjoy seeing the new movies coming out, county and street fairs, concerts and plays. Or just relaxing at home with a home cooked meal, great movie and a warm fire to enjoy. For music I love both country and rock n roll.I am more the romantic at heart. Seek to find that someone special to share my life with. I know he is out there somewhere. I know I will find many friends along the way but I am sure the one is out there. I gravitate more toward the strong man type, tall (at least taller then me :***, strong, but also able to talk and share. Be able to hold hands and kiss in public, but also protect me. Someone who is stable and secure, hard worker, great thirst for life, open minded, and willing to put both feet in a relationship. Romantic and old fashion, extra points for knowing how to open doors and pull chairs out. Super bonus points if you know massage, as I just melt with them. First dates are always hard to do. Sometimes I just cringe at the thought of them. I wish there was a way to just skip the first date thing...but oh well....first dates for us women are usually in a well lite place with lots of people. Spend just enough time together to see if you have something in common and feel at ease. Some of my best first dates have been a hockey game. Cheering for the team was relaxing, and at the end could tell if a second date was welcomed.A great first date would be something like lunch somewhere nice, an activity, and then some down time to talk.
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JaneanOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I want and I will wait for the whole package; honest, fun and loving,affectionate, passionate, smart and handy, down to earth and confident.; slow and easy, I don't run, love to talk but enjoy quite, kissing is so important .... I smile a lot,easy going, adapt to most environments, have a quick wit and enjoy people. I don't think there is anything better than the beach...I appreciate you reading about me.. I am looking forward to reading about you.. Pleaseunderstand I am looking for a drama and player free relationship. I am very open and honest. I expect the same. I need Someone that knows the difference between right and wrong and chooses right....Someone that knows it doesn't just happen,that it is a building process, learning each other, finding what you like, what you can't live without crazy, the give and take and what you can learn to live with...I don't share well so if you are a player, play somewhere else. Dinner a glass of wine and just getting to know each other in a calm relaxed atmosphere is perfect. Want to be able talk and hear you...