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Andi, 49
United States, Montana, Sidney

Offline, last seen Fri, 10 Jul 2026 14:19:44

About Me

I have little patience for ***, but a little goofiness I can take all day!!! A real man, calm inside with a strong presence. I am new, very new at this. It is not my priority, so if you don't hear back from me...part of the reson is: I am a single mom of twin girls, 9 years old...but I will be in touch or politely let you know I am moving on.My goal is for the girls to understand what a loving relationship is between a man and a woman. I pray the damage is reversible, but I do NOT want them to make the same mistakes I have in the past. They need to see a strong, convicted, gentle, loving man with their Mommy.The guy will have to allow me, and he to catch each other's soul, through our eyes and there must be chemistry with a conviction of me being his and he being my first priority in life, and to lead side by side, with me to the most amazing front porch, where we will sit on that double rocker, hand in hand, reflecting on the life we were so graciously granted as another chance to recognize love, be loved, and love someone as it should be.I want in the end, for my girls to look at he and I and recognize how much we love each other. Is that too much to ask? Am I just a dreamer? I don't expect a smooth ride, but I do expect a champion who can still look at me at the end of the day, understand my depths, respect them, accept them and appreciate who I am, how I love and most everything about me. This is my first time out in 12 years, so I suspect there will be a few learning curves for me, however, I am no child, and find it refreshing that I am so bold writing this, and so sure of what I want for the first time in my life.Do you?;-) Deb First dates will be tough, I get all shy...especially if we have not met. Something casual...short time frame, glass of wine...and then take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Rap Reading Walking Action Western
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