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Andi, 49

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About Me

I have little patience for ***, but a little goofiness I can take all day!!! A real man, calm inside with a strong presence. I am new, very new at this. It is not my priority, so if you don't hear back from me...part of the reson is: I am a single mom of twin girls, 9 years old...but I will be in touch or politely let you know I am moving on.My goal is for the girls to understand what a loving relationship is between a man and a woman. I pray the damage is reversible, but I do NOT want them to make the same mistakes I have in the past. They need to see a strong, convicted, gentle, loving man with their Mommy.The guy will have to allow me, and he to catch each other's soul, through our eyes and there must be chemistry with a conviction of me being his and he being my first priority in life, and to lead side by side, with me to the most amazing front porch, where we will sit on that double rocker, hand in hand, reflecting on the life we were so graciously granted as another chance to recognize love, be loved, and love someone as it should be.I want in the end, for my girls to look at he and I and recognize how much we love each other. Is that too much to ask? Am I just a dreamer? I don't expect a smooth ride, but I do expect a champion who can still look at me at the end of the day, understand my depths, respect them, accept them and appreciate who I am, how I love and most everything about me. This is my first time out in 12 years, so I suspect there will be a few learning curves for me, however, I am no child, and find it refreshing that I am so bold writing this, and so sure of what I want for the first time in my life.Do you?;-) Deb First dates will be tough, I get all shy...especially if we have not met. Something casual...short time frame, glass of wine...and then take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lorin

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    The game is "Let's get to know each other" The rules are as follows:1.) I'm not looking for a "one night stand" or be your "friend" or anything else in that sense. If that is what you are here for, please move on and have a nice day.2.) Don't waste my time. I know that may seem really mean and rude, that's not my intention. We're all here looking for that special someone, If I ask you questions or start talking to you it's because you have sparked an interest in me and I'm curious about you. I'd really like you to answer them and hopefully carry on a dialogue. The game is "Let's get to know each other." 3.) Please be patient and understanding. I do not want to meet right away or take our conversations to text. I really would like to get to know something about you and play the boring twenty questions. I would like to point out that if I am talking to you..and I take the time to meet you in person. It's only you I'm talking to or meeting. I honestly don't have the time to juggle like that. I believe online dating does work. My brother met his wife on E Harmony and my best friend met her husband here on meetville. Now that you know the rules and if you are still reading this. Hello, I am a caring open person. I like to laugh, smile and have fun. I am none judgmental. I am "red, white, blue and tattooed" (brownie points if you can tell me something about that). I am currently separated for the past ***years. I have 3 children, one is out of the house and two that are in elementary school. As far as what I am looking for in a man: I have no clue. I want someone that complements my personality, and someone that doesn't want to change who I am. I know who I am and I love me for me. More to come later (this is just a quick thing so I can get started)If there is anything else that you would like to know send me a message.

  • Colena

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Theres a place in your heart that nobodies been...take me there!!! Im a 49 year old grandmother of 2. I work for a pharmaceutical company and have been with the company over 17 years. Im successful and independent. Im a people person and like to laugh. Enjoy meeting up with friends a couple of times a week, cooking out, enjoying a glass of wine. Huge animal lover and have a huge heart. I am easy going and pretty much enjoy doing just about anything. Im always up for doing new things that I havent had the opportunity to experience.....i.e., Skydiving...(its on my bucket list) :-) love to laugh and cut up but yet be serious when its needed. Hanging with friends or perfectly happy and content doing nothing if the right person comes along. Im a country music fan at heart but I do listen to other music with the exception of heavy metal. I enjoying listening to live bands and enjoy going dancing every once in a while. My pet peeves are people who play games and lie. Men who cheat when their in a relationship. If you want to play games and are out just looking for a "Good Time"...look else where. No Photo..No response!!! My photos are all recent. First meeting will be in a public place to enjoy a cup of coffee, glass of wine or a beer. I wouldnt consider a first meeting a "date" so a first date would be at nice restaurant to enjoy a quiet dinner and a glass of wine to get to know each other a little better.

  • Yolande

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a left handed girl in a right handed world. I'm a little old fashioned--a nice girl. I like purple, it makes me happy. I liked it before it was popular,back when it was considered a color for hippies. ;-). (They have the best coffee).I work night shift ***and that makes for a somewhat odd schedule and lifestyle. I prefer that shift though, so I'm not complaining. I work to live, not live to work. I have been with the same employer for 15 years. Stability and security are important to me. But I still enjoyed jumping out of an airplane!I am loyal and have strong character and good integrity. It's important to me to do the right thing and always be fair, and these are qualities I look for in a significant other. My friends and coworkers think I'm funny. Well, most of them, anyway. There's always that one person who was born with no sense of humor or has had it surgically removed. My ipod is loaded with "oldies":ZZ top, Billy Idol, Dire Straits, AC/DC and a few newer ones from Adele. She has an amazing voice. I have to admit that every time I update my ipod, it becomes a battle of wills between my computer and myself.I know all of these profiles blur and begin to sound alike, so let me say I'm a wonderful, loving, basically happy person. If you knew me, you'd like me.

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