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Imelda, 47

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About Me

My story is simple. Chapter 2. I have been widowed for 4 years, put my family back together and off to college. I have a beautiful grown daughter and son whom I couldn't be any prouder of. I've done the casual dating thing, a few longer relationships but dating has changed a lot. Exclusivity and commitment ARE important to me when the time is right. Other than that I've been hanging with the girls, doing some traveling on my own and catching up on my reading. I like to think of myself as a "multifaceted woman." I feel just as comfortable in a little black dress in a fancy restaurant as I do in a pair of jeans at a dive with good food n a drink. I have a successful career that I love but want to to have fun too. I believe everything in moderation. I am ideally looking for a fun companion, a friend and eventually a lover. What happens after that, who knows?Please I'm not trying to be rude or a prude but I'm not looking for a "hook up". Please be genuine and don't ask me for nasty pics before you decide to ask me out. Please don't favor me unless you intend to reach out Because its a bit creepy. And finally I don't answer " wants to meet me". If you do send me a message n let's start from there. Nothing too serious. A quick drink to see if there is initial chemistry because let's face it, we all know within the first few minutes. I don't go out with expectations, only possibilities. I am not a forever *** buddy. I like to meet fairly quickly and go from there. If you're serious, lets not waste precious time for us or worse yet waste each others time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gabriela

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am interested in meeting single men only. I am not interested in hook ups ...stand me up after you beg me to fit you Into my crazy life ....do not expect to ever see or talk to me again...wow there must been some girls that put up with the games and lies but I am not the one !! If you do not have good intentions on meeting a good lady do not attempt to see me !! I have no time for liars or married men ....would rather be alone if that is all that is left in this world...do not beg to see me then stand me up one hour prior or you will never have the chance again...so tired of the games Simple

  • Elayne

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

  • Shanon

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Love being outside, running, trying new restaurants, traveling, reading, walking my dog, spending time with friends, exploring new places, listening to music, visiting wineries, hiking, gardening, I don't watch too much TV but I like to watch the news, a power nap every once and a while, and an occasional box of Lucky CharmsIf you are looking for someone who is drama-free, sincere and doesn't play games, I am your girl. I am obviously not good at uploading pictures, a little technically challenged.

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