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Elfrida, 48
United States, Montana, Kalispell

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About Me

I like to be spontaneous, laugh and have fun. I have a laid back personality with a positive attitude - trying to find the best in others. I enjoy going out as much as being at home. It is fun to have a partner to explore life with whether out and about or at home, whether a special occasion or something mundane. I enjoy photography - exploring ways to be creative. Maybe you know of places great locations/subjects that I don't. I would love for you to show them to me. I like to travel - sightseeing and exploring the world around me. I enjoy Christian music, concerts, being a passenger on motorcycle rides, a walk on the beach, a hike in the woods, camping, and more...I have a 14 year old son whom I love very much. I am sure that you would enjoy his friendship. He is a great kid! Even though being a single parent takes time, I look forward to making time for you. God is extremely important to me. He is my first love. I try to give my all to Him and I involve him in all I do. I hope that He also is your first love. If he is, I will have no problem being second.I do not expect perfection! But, I am looking for a godly man who is honest, compassionate, and has integrity. He is respectful of me and others. He is able to communicate as this is very important in a relationship. He likes to have fun but can be serious as well. He desires to do things God's way. I am looking for my best friend who will love me with all his heart - as I will love him. I want to be a part of his life - to experience the things that make him happy and sad. I would like to join him in his hobbies and I would like to be there as support when things get tough. I want to be his confidant and he mine. Again, I don't expect him to be perfect and I hope he accepts me in my imperfection. We are human - what can I say? A public spot for coffee or dinner will be fine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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