Total users: 59,556,874 Online users: 214,661
Alissa, 48
United States, Montana, Kalispell

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Oct 2025 10:37:27

About Me

I'm a Sagittarius so I'm very outgoing and love to have fun, but I'm also very driven in my career and am told quite often that I work too much. I started out as a Navy brat (born on Guam) and moved quite a few times growing up. I try to live by the Golden Rule as much as possible and try to maintain an open mind. I have a wonderful career as a .NET programmer and love what I do - in this respect, I feel I have been truly blessed. I have also been singing professionally for about 18 years and am just as passionate about that - although I did originally get my start in the performing arts in community theatre back in the late '80s and would love to do another show at some point. I'm currently in a new band that is just starting up, so you're likely to find me rehearsing, programming, or working out. Exercise and eating right are also important to me, and I try to workout 3 or 4 times a week (usually either P90X, Insanity, or something equally as intense***I'm often told that I look about 10 years younger than I am, so I figure I'm going to do what I can to perpetuate that for as long as possible!I really have had an amazing life so far, but the one thing that's missing is that someone special to share it with. I know there's no "Perfect Man", but ideally it would be someone who could be summed up as knowing who he is and where he's going. He's confident but not****, intelligent, open-minded, and can effectively communicate his feelings. Someone who has a big heart and demonstrates kindness, compassion, and sensitivity. He places a high value on sincerity, integrity and family, and makes an effort to take care of himself and stay in shape. And lastly, I like to think I'm "liberated", but I still very much appreciate chivalry -- opening the door for me or pulling out my chair scores major points in my book!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Funk Video Games To Work Out
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Dee from Kalispell | Woman | 41 years old | Libra
    Dee

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 22-42

    I'm honest, trusting, and loyal. If I like something I will tell you. If I don't like something I will tell you. Not looking for someone to take care of me and or someone else. We all should make it on our own steam. ADD ME ON *** MESSAGE ON HERE! dlarson

    Chat
  • Hatty from Kalispell | Woman | 50 years old | Scorpio
    Hatty

    Offline

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Times have change and I keep changing. Yes, I have a story, who doesn't, but I do not dwell. I am happy and self-reliant. I work hard and I take care of myself but I am not a health freak. I enjoy most outdoor activities but swimming is what keeps me fit. I also love dancing, going to theatre , watching a good TV show, or just listening to music reading a good book. Naturally, I am passionate about life, love, romance. After all, I am a woman, feminine, emotional but independent. I have a good heart and I look after my family and friends. I like people and I see the good in them. I am honest and funny and I always try to keep an open mind. I am attracted to tall and confident men. I want a friend, a confidant and a lover; someone who wants to spend his free time with a fun, loving woman. Coffee or a drink is always a good start

    Chat
  • Anjelica from Kalispell | Woman | 50 years old | Cancer
    Anjelica

    Offline

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    OK... I enjoy the simple things in life and would like to find a special person to experience lifes moments with. I have been on and off here for a while, and still have not found that connection that I know exhists somewhere out there. Now before you "click" off and run I do want to tell you I have 6, wait!!! yes 6 children, but they are about all gone out of the house except my last 2 (twin 15 yr old girls) so don't think you are getting a date with a baseball team! LOL I would like to meet a man who still remembers how to treat a lady with respect and kindness and remembers when a telephone meant you call and speak on it, not using it as a form of ***calls, so if you are interested in "photo" exchanging....try the next girl on the list. So if I haven't ran you completely away....Please *** let me know you want to get o know me my first date i would like to take a long walk at a park to get to know each other then may be go have lunch or dinner.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: