SIMILAR PEOPLE
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AdissonOffline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
At age 49 I've known what I want in a man for awhile...A Non-He ... is around my age, has a good heart, and helps others when he can. He would go to church with me once in awhile, i go once a month. He believes in honesty and holds it as a high requirement with anyone in life he lets close to him. He's not a perfect man but he knows he deserves to be with someone with the same qualities he has, someone that gets it. His commitment issues & regular contact with ex gf's need to be in the past. The right guy for me would respect what we have and protect it so it grows. When my friends give me a hard time about feeding seagulls, he would take me somewhere to feed them and bring the bread he didn't eat with his burger from lunch. Communication is one of his best qualities, he would listen to me when I have something to say and talk about it over and over until we are on the same page - and he knows that he would get the same in return. You shouldn't have any problem telling people how you feel about them, if you do what's going to happen if they are suddenly gone one day? Wondering why ***guys are mentioning their shoe size ??I'm not looking for a mystery man, if You are an open book we will work out well. Good morning and good night texts, and the texts in between where there are days we may not see each other but we text because we enjoy each others company. Talking about anything from the lamest things u could imagine to things that put us into a world of our own at times. We may even text each other in the middle of the night sometimes, just cuz. I may really need to talk to him about something but if I see he's had a rough day then I can let him vent first. I know he would do the same for me. He not only suggests nice things or plans for us in future - he follows through on them. The man he portrays to be in the beginning of a relationship when trying to win a girl's heart, is the same man throughout. I want a man who will have my back and he will know it goes both ways and we know we can rely on each other. We are all not getting any younger. Our kids grow up and move on with their lives but if we are lucky enough to find someone special to spend our live with then why not decide what we want it to be and go for it? This man would like to take me to concerts, on vacations, swimming at any lake we can find, going out to dinner, and would also enjoy trying my low carb creations and not mind that I'd like to make his lunch for work sometimes. He would also suggest low carb things he would like for me to make. He can laugh at himself and admit dumb things he's done in his life. He knows what the importance is in loving yourself, and he does. At times we might just lay around in bed and watch golf all day and then wake up the next day and get a lot of things done we've been putting off. I believe people that have the right thing together are able to do activities maybe they wouldn't choose but they do it or even try it just because it interests the other person. He could be a procrastinator like me but we would help each other to improve on that. His testosterone is in check and he's not afraid to tell a woman what excites him. Intimacy is very important to him to be very good with his partner. He would love the idea of practicing to make it perfect. And he wouldn't mind at all knowing I've had plastic surgery on my body and that I feel good about the way I look. If he's not into dancing as much as me, he'll give it a try, and we can try other types of dance or exercise until we find things we both enjoy doing together. He will be my friend, my companion, and time will make what we have better because we allow it to grow. We will enjoy our time together no matter what we do because when you have a friendship you just enjoy the time spent. We will have our time apart as well and because we trust each other, there won't ever be an issue. He has a favorite color and likes things he owns to have that favorite color. He's a father and tries to be there for his kids. Giving them advice, spending time, and helping his children learn the hard way sometimes when it's needed. This man will be cute at least to me and when I hug him I'll feel like I'm finally home. He spends a lot of time thinking and knows he hasn't always made the best choices but he's working on it. He should understand that women need a commitment at some point. When a guy waits too long we feel we are not quite what he wants and we finally give up and move on. He's also someone that would take time to get to know me and want me off this site rather than risk someone else finding me and taking away his chance ... I've been divorced 3+ years, looking for divorced also. And notice my age, my kids are 29 & 27, if I was to get involved with someone just for the possibility if it became permanent, I've decided now that it makes sense for me that he has older children. If your current life is very involved with a busy job, kids activities, and/or you don't live really close to me, there won't be time for a relationship. And that's what I'm here for. One of the most important things a man can give me is his time. :) The memories we make together are far more valuable than anything that can ever be bought. If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you. If this isn't you then I'm sorry but you're not my match. I have most everything else I want in life right now and I will continue enjoying it and wait and see if this man ever shows up here or in person and makes us happen. To be continued...... And thank you sooooooooo much for all the awesome comments on my profile !!! I guess we would decide together..... Once you've met someone in person and you already like them, I don't mind suggesting places I'd like to go. I think the idea of not knowing where you're going sometimes is really a nice surprise. It could be some small hole in the wall place or just somewhere you've never been before. I love surprises and I love when I figure out a nice one for someone else in my life! If I give you my number***I look for a man who has the best of intensions towards me. I will ask questions and listen to what you have to say. If you're getting to know me and are not able to show your intensions match mine I will give up. And I'm just being completely honest here. I'm getting wayyyyy too much *** I don't respond please take it as a polite no thank u. To the ones that keep sending messages often, I'm sorry but blocking is the only way to get it to stop. Please don't change your zip code so u can send a message to me. I appreciate all the nice messages but please understand I want to meet someone in my general area.
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ChantelleOffline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
My friends say I'm fun to be with. Most pets and kids like me. I'm a positive, happy person. People tell me I do not look my age, and I certainly do not feel it. I'm usually energetic and upbeat, but have a serious side also. I would love to share all the great things in life with someone special.I am a self-employed, independent woman and I take good care of myself. I feel I have a really great life and am so fortunate! I love to find fun and experience new adventures;), and I have to say being self-employed for a lot of years is also an adventure. I thoroughly enjoy travel to Europe, Africa, UK, and other destinations, love learning about other cultures and languages. I keep fit and exercise at least 3x a week, run the dog, eat right, take my vitamins, and dress trendy. I will never stop taking care of myself and trying to be the best I can be, and attractive for my man. I hope that my partner is also someone who cares about his appearance and health. I am someone who is passionate and appreciative of both giving and receiving affection. I believe in karma and believe I am a kind-hearted and compassionate human being. I enjoy my pets, my friendships and family, my work, hiking/walks, the beach, art, theatre, music, movies, dining out, a good wine (or limoncello), ceramics, NFL. I know how to act appropriately in front of grandmothers and children, but can cut loose, too (just don't have your grandma in my living room during football games -- kidding.... not really). I feel comfortable in a formal dress or a t-shirt and shorts. Vegas is a fun get-away and I love to see shows there. But I also can have a wonderful time just relaxing at home with a bottle of wine and a good movie, cuddling on the sofa with a special someone... NO I don't mean the dog, I mean YOU! (But I DO love my dog!) I believe in chemistry, so let's see if there is a spark. Ideally, once we have established mutual intetest, I like to meet in person for a drink or coffee to talk, face to face, see whether there is something to you and me together. If there is, lets go from there to learn more about each other by doing something fun or having dinner, or .... any ideas?
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MorvenOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
About Me:I am secure, and happy with myself, but life is meant for 2! :-) I'm Independant, honest, loyal and have a great sense of humor, I'm nuturing but competitive, peaceful but entergetic. I love staying up late. I almost always sleep in on weekends. I definitely have an adventurous streak, whether it's trying out an exotic recipe in the kitchen or traveling. Family and friends are very important to me. I have a close realtionship with my kids, parents and my brother. One of my greatest assets is speaking to people. It's just something that comes natural. I'm pretty much a social type person. No introverts, please. Scarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I think this brings spice to a relationship. I do try and live a healthy lifestyle by eating right and going to the gym. This doens't mean that I wont eat what I want but in moderation and I don't live at the gym either. I have a high maintenance look with a down-to-earth attitude, values and personality. I've learned that respect is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a relationship that you know isn't working and despite all the work you have put into it, you have to let it go. I've learned to don't say things I'll regret because you can't take it back. It's easier to forgive than to forget. You must expose yourself emotionally it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards. Who I am looking for: I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. We bolster each other's egos and leave short thoughtful love messaes for each other, just because. A man that is somewhere between a thrill-seeker and a couch potato and will laugh when I say something unintentionally stupid. Someone who doesn't mind sharing in the household chores. Someone who doesn't mind if I lean on your shoulder a few minutes or who minds holding me at night. I do volunteer work, so I hope to meet someone with that same heart. I want someone that can discuss the world around him and that is looking more than just a date .No Pressure! Let's just relax...... become friends and get to know each other and see what happns.I want a great guy that who will not only want to introduce me to new things, but will also like to try some adventures that are new to both of us. He will not ony put up with my wacky moods, but he may even think they are cute (you don't have to admit this). The man I want to meet is confident and self assured, but isn't with an over-inflated ego. I am looking for a guy who can keep me on my toes both when it comes to intellect and energy. There is nothing that I won't do to support the people I care about, but If I think you are wrong I will tell you and hope that you would do the same for me. Are you the type of man that will make me feel safe and warm? Have you made it all the way to the end of my profile? Then what are you waiting for? drop me a line and let's plan our next adventure. If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't araid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. If I like you....... Can I keep you?What's your story? What are your greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness? I want to be able to look into your eyes and see the chemistry between us while we have dinner and talk about our 2nd date.