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Sheilah, 48

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About Me

'Be truthful, gentle, and fearless'. GandhiI’m an upbeat, big picture person who focuses on the positive. I rarely sweat the small stuff and prefer to surround myself with happy, self-motivated people who truly enjoy life.Sometimes I feel like a ***pounds of contradictions. I love the city, but I also love the mountains. I hate drama, but I don’t run from problems. I don’t like being the center of attention, but I love public speaking. Weird, right? I’m naturally a wall flower, but I’m not shy. I'm fairly serious and intense at work, but laid back and playful at home. I am motivated by money (hence the sales job), but I’m not materialistic. Less is more. Except for travel.....then more is more. I especially love Europe. I get bored easily and thrive on new experiences, so visiting the same place twice is generally not for me.I'm attracted to unique and somewhat quirky men who march to the beat of their own drum. Integrity, optimism and loyalty are musts. And, if you can make me laugh....that's icing on the cake. Ultimately, I'm looking for a monogamous relationship, a best buddy and 'true love'. My current playlist: Portugal. The Man, Pixies, Frightened Rabbit, Alt-j, Heartless Ba$tards, Tame Impala, Of Monsters & Men, Horsefeathers, The National, The Blueflowers and Elbow. Something laid back and easy.....no pressure. For me, it's not about the place, it's about the connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joella

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm very active and have a full life but I'm looking to make room for that special person. I like to do a lot of things including working out, jogging, biking, skiing, gardening and painting. I will try just about anything once. I do value my life and I'm not a big risk taker - you won't find me bungee jumping, jumping out of planes, etc. I love the outdoors. Prefer the summer weather but love to ski so I adore snow but hate bitter cold. I love a great conversation but I'm not looking to be in the midst of a constant debate. I'm a liberal politically.I'm very crafty and handy. My father was killed when I was very young and my mother never remarried. There wasn't a ton of extra money in our household so I learned how to do things for myself. As such I'm very independent. I'm a great partner but if you're looking for a damsel in distress or someone who needs saving it's not me. If you're easily intimidated by an independent woman, who doesn't need saving but would certainly liked to be saved - all the while saving you too, perhaps we're a good match. I'm a bit of a neat freak. I'm easy going and easy to laugh.We all have baggage. I have mine but I'm not angry and I don't want to be around someone who is. You also must love dogs and kids. I have one of each.For me it's all about the little moments because that's mostly what life is made of.

  • Alia

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Looking for a friendship… I believe that’s the best way to start anything! Then we can move on from that and see where things take us....Profiles are hard to fill out. They do not capture the inner person! Looking for someone fun, interesting, caring with some humor. To share a few laughs, enjoy one another's company in the great outdoors or just inside spending time together chatting over dinner, watching a movie, simple things. Needing someone who brings life back to me it's been missing for way too long! Life can be busy at times for me, so not always available that's something we will have to work out together..I like the things mentioned above and I'm always open to new adventures ... that's what life is about....Let's chat and see what we have in common and go from that !! keep it simple..... :)

  • Domitila

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    UPDATE: If you "want to meet me" send me a message.... a little effort goes a long way! :)Oh! and if your looking for a random hook up... please move on.... Disclaimer: PLEASE READIf the first number in your age is the same as my kids, or my dad's, I won't date you.;11, I probably won't date you. I am TALL. I like heels. I am not as shallow as this seems... I am just sick of short men, kids, and grampa's! :)This part is never easy, but here goes! :) I am a smart, witty, outgoing,kindhearted, and down to earth girl who is very comfortable with my life. I am looking for someone to enhance my life, not change it. I am as comfortable in a little black dress, as I am in jeans and a tee..I work out about ***times a week, and looking good is important to me!Turn ons: great smile, active lifestyle,honesty,directnessTurn offs: bad spelling/grammar, disrespectSo, enough about me...If you want to know more, just ask! I want to hear about you!I love who I am, and can't wait to share that with the right person! Thanks for checking out my profile! Hmmm.. first date.. I would say a nice first date would be to meet for a drink, or dinner, or weather permitting a nice walk on a trail, or boardwalk, or park. For me, it's all about chemisty. It's either there or it isn't. If it's not, I will let you down easy.. :) I would say, that a movie on a first date is useless! You can't talk! lol, and if your one of those guys that talk through a movie... well then... enough said!:)

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