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Deasia, 46
United States, Montana, Helena

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She said to her man:"I stand behind you because I trust you to lead the way".... He responded: "I lead the way, because I know you will always have my back"...Seems its time for an update for some that have me confused:~No, I don't wanna see your "bleep"~No, I don't need to have you "bleep" my brains out~No, you can't make me cum like nobody's business~No, you can't see pictures of my private parts~Yes, I will respond to you in a timely fashion.... BLOCKEDAll pictures are recent. , I am a proud 46 years old but, must be honest about turning 21 again every year. I am honest with tons of character, morals and integrity. I have a huge sense of humor and play well with others. Very secure with who I am. I do not have the time nor the patience to help you unpack your baggage. If your issues are unresolved please pass me by. I am positive, full of life, unpredictable and avoid being complacent at all cost. . I am in no rush for a relationship however, I am now open to the idea. I am very clear about what I want from my lover in a relationship. First and foremost he must be dominant by nature, financially secure and preferably a professional. I am not looking for someone to take care of.. Classy, respectful and real. Swagger is a must. LolI have been told I am high maintenance and I will make no apologies for that. That statement is in no way meant to be mean nor rude. I have worked very, very hard for many years and am very accomplished as a result. Me, myself & I are well cared for because we have our own (Jamie Foxx song). I am a grown woman who know how to make our house a home. Not because it is expected, implied or demanded. I dare someone to demand THIS to do anything not coming from my heart. You will have me confused if you see this as a weakness. A relationship takes work and is never effortless however, it should be healthy, fulfilling and a good model for others. Family is a huge priority for me. I have a 24 year old son who lives away from home. I have found that the men in my age bracket still have children under 18 thus requiring dad time. I completely understand that and would never want to infringe on dad time. I have heard horror stories of men being pressured to make tough choices when it comes to dating and their kids. Not here. Don't have the time nor the energy. I will expect balance on some level but, never ask you to make a choice. Having said that if I see you are making a bad choice in regards to you kids I will walk away. Clearly you not the one for me. Kids are our future and dad time is non negotiable. I get that and understand..I have no problem with compromise. We as adults are responsible for modeling appropriate choices. Let me be very clear when I say that I am not looking for a friends with benefits..I am seeking:Likewise a professionalAges: ***No baggageHealthy &-negotiable :-)Amazing moralsKind to strangersGood cook............Just sayingPS: I'm a huge fan of R & B My preference is an informal meet and greet to see how the chemistry flows.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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