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Innogen, 47

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About Me

Who I am is who I want to be. I'm a survivor!Being a widow at 34, I've come to realize how important it is to tell your friends and family how much you love and appreciate them. You don't always get another chance to say it.It took over 40 years to get where I am today. I am finally the person I've always wanted to be. I won't tell you my sadness because it's my personal struggles, and I won't tell you my happiness because it's not for public knowledge. I will, however, tell you that I'm fine, life's good, and I live by what I believe in: fate, chance and destiny. I believe everything happens for a reason. There's a reason why you're reading this right now. I just don't know what it is yet. Coffee at Tim's!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Harley

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I tried this site a couple years ago and going to give it another chance.I'm hoping to find a real man that doesn't just want a pen pal and will actually ask to meet after we exchange a few messages! I'm looking for someone that can make me laugh, humor is so important and I really miss being able to joke around and have fun with another adult! I truly believe there needs to be a spark or chemistry between us, so please don't respond if you don't have a photo posted. That is the first inkling to see if there might be chemistry (love dimples and smiles!), second will be the messages, and third would be when we meet for a drink! If you have or want cats, read no further, my daughter and I are both very allergic so we won't be a good match!I am a tall girl and my ideal mate would tower over me and make me feel short! So please be at least 5' 10"! I'm also not really into the bald thing (unless your smile and eyes are just too stunning to pass up!) or really long hair. Nothing personal, just doesn't "do it" for me. My ideal age range is 30 to 45. I've been told all my adult life that I look a lot younger than I am so dating younger is not an issue...for me.) especially with gas prices the way they are!I feel as though I am am open book. I will be honest and truthful to you and expect the same. I want to be able to share my experiences as well as listen to yours! Trust will be my biggest issue as that is where I've been hurt the most in my past. So please be truly "available", free and clear if you contact me.I have enjoyed a variety of places, jobs, countries and people and hope to enjoy more in the future with the right person!I do have 2 teenage daughters that live with me every other week and I try to devote my time strictly to them during that week. But that means I have every other week free to play and have fun! Eventually you will meet them and we will all be able to do things together but not until we have seen each other for awhile.I really would enjoy getting to know your friends and hanging out. I love to explore new places and things and although I'm not really into sports I can learn to love"your"team and have fun cheering them on with you. Just understand if I don't live and die by their schedule, wins or losses! :-)Although I'm not very good at it I would like to try living a healthier lifestyle with your support. Finding activities to do together is so much more fun than by myself. And I hope you can cook as I don't, but I can help you if you want while we drink some wine?So please leave me a message, ask me questions (just a note, if you decide to message me you must be able to carry on a conversation which means asking AND answering questions with more than a single word), and lets see where it goes! Actually at first I would like to just meet for a drink and maybe a half hour quick visit. This would determine if we had any sort of connection or spark. If yes then I would expect the man to ask for a proper first date. Expense of a date is not how I judge a good one, but planning and follow through do count for great first date impressions.

  • Shira

    Online

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am an easy going person that loves to spend time with friends and family. I love to go out and do things and also enjoy spending time at home. I enjoy camping, gardening, going to the zoo (corny as that may sound), sporting events and learning new things and am always looking to better myself. Of course that's not all but a good start.I was married for 22 years and have been single for 6 years now. I am an independent person and own my own home. I do my own shoveling, grass cutting etc. I'm NOT looking for a "lawnboy" but rather someone to have fun with, laugh with, cry with and to just enjoy life with. Someone that can be my best friend and I can be their's. I'm not into yelling and screaming matches but *** things out. I don't NEED someone in my life but *** someone in my life to share the good times and the bad. I am very family oriented, I love kids, and have two sons of my own that are 25 and 21, and are both married to wonderful girls. I am very blessed. Although my boys have their own lives, we still enjoy doing things together. They will always be #1 in my life. The bond I have with my boys is something that I cherish very much!!!! We recently welcomed a new member to our family, which opens up a new chapter in the "Book of Life" for me, being a Grammie!!!! What an awesome experience already!I am a sports nut and love the Red Wings (go figure after raising two boys). I enjoy just about any sport and even used to play soccer myself. I believe anything can be fun but it's the person you spend it with that can make it that much better.I work in the educational field and enjoy my job very much!!!! I am always trying to better myself as a person emotionally, physically and mentally. I recently graduated with my Associates Degree in Accounting, a Certificate in Business and Medical Billing. I'm hoping this opens new opportunities for me.I am the type of person that likes to laugh and enjoy life and what is has to offer. I have a very humorous side but also know when it's time to be serious. I am a positive person and like to surround myself with those that are also positive. We all have our bad days, but you decide to make it a bad day or a better day! I am looking for someone that too is positive, confident in themselves (yet not over the top) and that is ready to enjoy the next chapter of their life with someone special. I am open to many types of people but have no room for drama, head games or cheaters!Thanks for stopping by:-) Drop me a line, without the worm though :-) Pun intended!!!!!Michele~~ True love doesn't mean being inseparable; it means being separated and nothing changes. ~~ Hmmmmmmm....................first date might be spent over dinner or a cup of coffee just talking and getting to know each other and to see if there is a connection. If nothing else, maybe a friendship can be gained!!!

  • Dimple

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Looking for someone to enjoy life with. I've never tried this, we'll see how it goes. I'm easy going, there's not much I can't find humor in. I enjoy quality...whether on the go, or just sitting in front of the fireplace.Oh, and BTW, I'm not married, do not think that the grass is necessarily greener on the other side, and my pic have been taken within 3 mo.***THE TRUTH DOES NOT LIE +++" LIFE ISN'T ABOUT WAITING FOR THE STORM TO PASS, BUT LEARNING TO DANCE IN THE RAIN". Surprise me!

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