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;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maryland

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Don't let the GRIM fool you because I am not....it's mine and my son's initials!!!! Before you read on please know that if you are looking to have continual *** and forth for an extended period of time then please do not waste my time or yours.....thank you.I am basically a what you see is what you get type of person. I am not into playing with peoples emotions and I would appreciate the same in return. I have a beautiful son who is the light of my life so if you have room in your heart and your world for him as well then we are off to a great start. I am very close to my family and am very fortunate to have both of my parents in my life. I am excited about the prospect of starting over...after a glitch along the way!!! I believe in Karma and the saying that life only throws at you what you can handle. My past experiences have made me realize how strong I am and how passionate I am about anything and everything I believe in. I enjoy going to the movies, love to see shows, enjoy watching (believe it or not) boxing, listening (and dancing) to old disco music and yes, I am hooked on reality TV shows.Please have a recent photo posted of yourself........I do so it is only fair that you do as well......Thanks! The anticipation of a first date is scary and exciting at the same time. When you finally meet and there is that *** it makes it all worth while. On the otherhand I guess sometimes you must also give things a chance to develop. As far as the date itself, as long as the conversation is good and there is a mutual interest it really does not matter where you are because what is around you is not what is important.....who you are with is!!

  • Abaegayle

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm a good hearted woman looking for a good hearted man.I love to cook; walks on the beach; evenings at home just watch movies. Just talking and getting to know each other. Maybe at a quite restaurant;

  • Lottie

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    i love to read go for long walks and spend time with my grandchildren. Im looking for a nice romantic man to spend time with who knows how to treat a Lady!! I need a man who can make me laugh!!!! I take very good care of myself and am told that i am very pretty.I really just want to be able to spend time with a person that is open to a relationship. a movie or go out to eat would be a great first date. Or even just meeting for a drink and conversation is nice.Get to know one another first>

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