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Vicenta, 48
United States, Montana, Havre

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About Me

;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dorris from Havre | Woman | 48 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi Gentlemen.This is always the hardest part, trying to put into words who you are as a person. My friends consider me to be fun, honest, loving and caring. I love life, live life to the fullest, and for the most part am always smiling and or laughing. I'm very playful, but also have a serious side to me as well.I am responsible, dependable and independent. I have a huge heart and will do almost anything in my power for those who mean the most to me. I am being honest when I say I have a few extra pounds on me. If you don't like women who have meat on their bones, you will not like me, so let's not waste either one of our time. I understand we all have preferences and what is good for some isn't good for others. What am I looking for? I am looking for a fun and stable friendship with the potential of moving into a long term relationship together. I am at point in my life where I finally know what I want and just as important what I am willing to give in return. I don't want drama, nor do I want to play games in the relationship. Communication is everything, and although two people don't always see eye to eye, agreeing to disagree in certain areas is acceptable. What am I NOT looking for? I am not looking for a sexual encounter (shame on you if you are, and or have to get online to find someone to have sex with) I do not do liars, cheaters, or men who feel it's ok to disrespect woman. If you display any of these traits, please, do yourself and me a favor and find those women who don't think enough of themselves to realize that they deserve better.I am attracted to men who are honest, outgoing, funny, caring and romantic. I know there are many of you out here, come on, say hello, you won't be disappointed as long as you are looking for someone real. You know, the kind of gal who says what she means and means what she says. Be ready to laugh, it's contagious. First lets meet and see if we click and then go from there.Cheers

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  • Alba from Havre | Woman | 48 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    After a few unsuccessful meetings, I'm ready to give this a try again! I have been told I need to add more information about me so here goes:I think it will be easier to start with what I am NOT looking for: * If you are married, please pass me by * If you are only looking to hook up for sex, please pass me by * If you are looking for me to give you money, please pass me by * If you are not serious about pursuing a relationship, please pass me byThat being said, a little more about me. I am a single professional, independent, loving and caring person. I can be shy at times but that will pass as I get to know someone. I am able to take care of myself. I am not looking for someone to do that but rather, I am looking for someone to share my life with -- the good and the bad times. Physicality is not all that important. What is important is the person and how they make you feel when you are with them. A sense of humor is always a plus! Common courtesy is another plus. I enjoy cooking, shopping, traveling (although I have been a little lax in that area lately), gardening, spending time with family, reading and spending time alone with someone special.I'm looking for friendship first that will hopefully lead to a long term relationshipI hope hear from you. meet for coffee...walk in the park....just talking and getting to know each other

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  • Constance from Havre | Woman | 48 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello, I'm just the average lady looking to meet a nice gentleman if there are any left. If you think you are a nice, honest gentleman whodoesn't play games, please send me a message. I would describe myself as an easy going person with a great smilewith dimples,LOL, great sense of humor but know when to be serious. I am honest,caring, respectful, responsible,and considerate. Faith, Family, and Friends are very important to me as I would hope for you. I love outdoor activities like travel, fishing, being on the water, the beach, festivals with live bands, love music which makes me upbeat, concerts, love mountains and weekend get aways. as well as chillin at home watching the LSU and Saints games as well as a movie with my special friend. If you think we have things in common, I'd love to hear from you. Good luck in your searchand thank you for reading my profile. God Bless!! Up to my date....

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