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United States, Montana, Havre

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;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Keren-Happuch from Havre | Woman | 49 years old | Cancer
    Keren-Happuch

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    What you read here is from my heart and I write with the truth. I say that cuz I have met some men that were not about what they wrote and or they either posted a photo shopped photo and or a old photo or one of their much younger brother? Lol. I feel its not how old you are, it's how young your heart and mind feels,that you take care of yourself and having a young soul by letting that kid at heart come out at times but also act mature at times. I believe in the truth so please post a real and recent picture of yourself it's the right thing to do for everyone involved. No matter who or what we look like we all deserve love.. Yes I know that everyone has a type and the heart wants what it wants. My type is a man that has an edge, tall, wears a nice pants of levis or what ever jeans you feel that make you look good. I'm looking for a man who has a big caring, understanding and honest heart. He needs to have a real and kind soul. Were all special in our own way no matter what your type is or who you are. Please have a photo that's recent, if you don't have one and you really want to find the one for you and not play games get a camera and say cheese. Lol. It's inportant because for me I need to feel an attraction towards a man and I'll never know if I have an attraction if I can't see the real you? Once we both established an attraction then we can see if there's chemistry and connection between the two of us? I know that online dating is trial and error and I don't expect to meet Mr Right or feel them sparks with the first guy I meet. Some people say that I'm picky.But I don't think it's being picky, I know what I want, like and how I want to feel. I also need to have a very good and open communication with another. I'm not in any way saying that I'm looking or want a perfect man just the perfect man that fits my needs. What makes a persons character is not what you do from 9 am to 5 pm, It's what you do from 5 pm to 9 am what counts and tells others what kind of person you are. I am a honest, loyal, down to earth lady who knows what I want in my life. I very much believe in Love and Trust. I take very good care of myself and take pride in the way I look. I love to laugh, joke around though warn you I have a great poker face. Lol. I can have fun doing most anything but like everyone that does depend on the company I'm with at the time. I am a lady who can be your best friend I would never turn my back on you. Unless you were to hurt me in any way on purpose.. That means to hurt another with intent.Feeling them butterflies swimming in my stomach is the best way I can describe a wonderful connection. Having a good communication by being able to tell each other anything without being judged and being interested in what the other is either doing or just by saying " so how was your day today " is the connection and how I want to feel everday with that one person. Taken your time getting to know one another is well worth it and is so very important to me. After a while of exchanging messages, *** texting for days I feel we should talk via telephone. Plus life is too short to play head games. If you really are serious about getting to know me or anyone? Ask if it's okay we speak via telephone? That tells me if your serious or not.Yes this is online dating but it does not have to stay online if we both feel it then exchange numbers talk get to know each other a little and then make plans to meet. It's not a committment. We all take a risk on here and sometimes you will never both feel the same once you meet the person But you'Il never know if you don't give it a chance. I will not play head games. That's something I'm not into and will not tolerate. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Have questions?Ask me...Best of luck to you all!!! FIRST DATE? Just them words are pressure. Your meeting someone online for the 1st time? So Save the first date till after you physically meet one another and see that you have that attraction, chemistry and a connection between the 2 of you. Meet have a cup of coffee. Then if you both agree that you want to see one another again? Then make your first date. If you have that awkward silience that just does not leave and you feel that there is no connection you should both call it a nite why try to force your heart to feel an attraction thats just not there? Online dating is trial and error. I do believe In romance. If you don't believe in it, then why even be on here? Well maybe I should not say that cuz their are people looking for one thing and that has nothing to do with making someone happy for more then 1 day. If that's you and you just read this all? Sorry to have waisted your time cuz you have the wrong girl!!! I have to add this cuz I've received messages from men who say " do you know you have a wedding ring on in one of your pictures? " it's on my right hand not the left. Lol. ///\\***Plz***\\\***Put This***On Your***account,If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---or fighting it now, or has ever fought it & won. Thank u.

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  • Ruth from Havre | Woman | 49 years old | Pisces
    Ruth

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Looking for Laughter, Best friend and Partner. I am passionate about the Arts But I Love Hiking, Camping and the awesome power of thunderstorms. I am a early riser so that I can get the most out of my day. I love reading and trying new things such as food, music.I am a Loyal, Passionate, Independent person looking for someone that is the same.

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  • Lavona from Havre | Woman | 50 years old | Aquarius
    Lavona

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    In the spring and summer I enjoy gardening and RV camping (not tent camping). I really like country, rock and roll, and R&B music.Family and friends are very important to me. I have a 30 year old son and a 27 year old daughter, who each have families of their own. I am a grandmother of two and hope for more in the future. I really like family BBQs and picnics. My goals and aspirations involve finding a special some one who is looking to enjoy life. I would like to find a man with a positive disposition and a conciderate, and kind nature. My goal is to live as stress free a life as I can, filled with laughter and good people.... I want a man to protect me like a daughter, love me like a wife , and respect me like his mother! We can decide together!

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