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Alesha, 47

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About Me

IF YOU DON'T READ MY PROFILE DON'T BOTHER TO CONTACT ME.THERE MAY OR MAY NOT BE A POP QUIZ. Don't let my "separated" status scare you off. It's all over, been over, but the financial haggling. Now THAT will take a while because I refuse to let assets be hidden from me.Physically and mentally I have been single for a long time,and since I'm being brutally honest here,there's not one dam thing I like about being single.I like being in a relationship. EDIT: Since a "Mirror Pic" with a nasty room in the background seems to be all the rage here on meetville, I added a couple.I dirtied up my bedroom by delaying folding my laundry.It really wasn't that hard and caused me no pain.I'm waving at you! Yes, you! You look interesting ! Do you know any places that serve good food with live blues? I can go for smoky jazz sung by a woman in a vintage ***'s dress, too. Ever heard "St. James Infirmary" played at 3 AM on a January night outside your bedroom doors? It's pretty sweet. I love discovering new places.Old, historic places.I do cheezy ghost tours just to hear the guides' takes on the history of a town.-in-the-wall places there, the non-typical,non- tourist shops & restaurants.Some of my favorite places to eat have been found while walking after midnight talking to locals. I love all things old and vintage.My house reflects that.And maybe some smooching.Rock my boat! I really want to go back to school and study All the Things.Because that's who I am.Realistically I'll have to choose one.Because that's how much money I have. Laughing is very important to me.I can't live without laughter. Make me laugh, and you've got me..;The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face". I know that person is out there, somewhere, and I'm just stubborn enough to find him.When I Iove, I love with my whole heart,I give my entire self, and the next time , it will be the One I'll grown old with. The man who will simply have to make eye contact when something funny happens to get the joke.That person who I can lie in bed next to for hours and never get bored, for years, forever. It happens, people.Don't give up. Until then,until I meet that person and KNOW, I'm going to really enjoy new people, new places, and new experiences. For a first date,a woman has to keep her safety in mind at all times. Don't let my hammer alarm you! For real, a first date needs to be some place public enough for safety of both parties, but quiet enough so that we can hear each other talk. A restaurant with outdoor seating is always nice,a bar inside a restaurant on a weeknight when it's not loud, even a picnic in a park would be great.I like to talk and find out interesting things about new people I meet.....hard to do that at a concert or a movie. Although if you got tickets to see the Drive By Truckers I'd be all over that like white on rice.WHITE.ON.RICE,baby.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shonta

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Go-Getter, Awesome, Risk-Taker, Thoughtful, Kindhearted, Great smile.Those are some of the things friends and strangers say about me….Gemini holds true to my personality, adventurous to the max, sometimes crazy but fun, yet very responsible hard working, and professional. Creative, that’s me! I will always find a way to figure it out and I’m not afraid to ask for help when I need to. Above all HUGE heart and great friend! On my relaxed side, If you’re nice I’ll cook you a great Italian meal with candles and wine and love to cuddle to a good movie. Or we can just hang out at the pool or beach and kick back!My accomplishments and interests include skydiving, 3 years on the night ski race league, water ski club, parasailing, jetskiing, driving a Lamborghini (not mine but someday!), rock climbing, zip lining...Not to mention my 18 year successful career in IT yet always find time for the fun stuff! What adventure will you offer me? Obviously, I would like to find someone who will compliment me with their interests, accomplishments and adventure, and who will be open and honest; someone with a good sense of humor that I can laugh with and discover new and old places.Chemistry is key of course and with me I have found that I tend to gravitate toward those with dark hair and great eyes that I can look up to! Ok for me that would be over 6 feet! Yes I have a thing for running my fingers through hair....lolA little challenge is exciting but life’s too short, let’s not play games! You know I love fun and crazy but obviously need man who is kind, considerate, respectful, with similar high values and can treat a girl special with a bit of romance and surprise. Wow me with a great cooked dinner, champagne and strawberries, or an a planned night of events and you will keep me on my toes! Treat me right and you will not be sorry. I won’t stop smiling!!!Can you keep up? Hope you are active and in shape. Lets work out together sometime. I could always use even more motivation and training! Lets try a new class. Or if we can’t always make it to the gym a great jog or walk on the beach will do just fine!Things on my list to do:• Travel!! Whenever I can fit it in and get the opportunity.• Hangliding.•• Learn to Salsa.• Get a sports car before I look too old in it.• Try bartending just for the heck of it, if I can fit it in.• Last but certainly not least, meet someone that WOWs me!Does any this sound like you? What can you add to my list? Are you my WOW guy? If you are, send me a message! I usually delete messages with no pic, I don't care if you work for the *** a wasting! We could do lunch first to see if we click or dinner outside in the summer near the water. If things are going well we could take in a good band or outside concert.

  • Shonda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Don’t need too much just let me be all about you during the moments I’m with you… wrapped around the fingers, hugging you. I badly need a tender, romantic, loyal and sincere caring partner.

  • Columbine

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I love people, especially children (my son is grown). I have two nephews 3 and 6 whom I adore. I volunteer quite a bit with various organizations - United Way and Open Doors to the Handicapped being my favorites. I enjoy reading and also enjoy discussing various subjects to see how other people view things. I think I am very open and upfront about what I think and feel. I enjoy going out - having a great meal and glass of wine. I enjoy all types of music and like to experience different things. I enjoy the outdoors - but am not very athletic (have never been unfortunately). I want to have a friend/partner in life someone to share things with. I love my job but it can be very time consuming and stressful - hence I do not like drama - I don't play games with people.Life is too short and I want to share it. First Date - hmmm - I enjoy going out to a nice restaurant so we can talk and learn more about each other - and if lucky great music will be playing.

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