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Charis, 46
United States, Montana, Deer Lodge

Offline, last seen Mon, 12 Jan 2026 21:41:04

About Me

I would like to believe that there's a match out there for everyone. That somewhere right this moment, there's someone trying to find me. Someone missing the connection, who feels a tug at their heart and mind telling them that the love of their life is just around the corner...if only the look hard enough. I know I have this gap, this empty space in my heart and my life that I long to fill with love and warmth, laughter and romance. A man who lights up a room with his smile and makes me grateful for having him in my life. Someone I can shower with affection, be his best friend, lover and confidant. To show him every day how special he is, how amazing and fulfilled our lives would be together. Someone to laugh at my dorky side, wants to explore the world together, whose family is as important to him as mine is to me. Loyal, honest and kind. Not quick to anger but cares enough to argue a point if necessary. Who will love me in spite of my flaws or maybe even because of them. A giver and not a taker. Lots of laughter, silliness, deep conversation or frivolous chit chat. Hand holding, cuddling, longing stares deep into each others eyes, kissing like our lives depend on it. A love of the outdoors, likes to be active and travel an is physically fit. A love of music, art, travel, entertaining with friends or simply enjoying quality time together alone. A nice dinner out or pizza and a movie at home. Someone that appreciates my uniqueness and individuality. I like to think I am unique, probably a little bit quirky, definitely have my goofball moments. I'd like to find someone that is accepting of my differences, like tattoos and short flaming red hair (hey, I’m Irish!), someone who likes to give back to their community like I do would be wonderful. A man of tolerance and kindness, and who has a generosity of spirit. Are you out there? I sure hope so. I know I'm looking for you, maybe we'll meet in the middle. ;- With all the great works of art, there are endless topics of conversation. You can find out a lot about a person by how the perceive and appreciate art. Maybe a pub is more your speed? Catch a great live band, few drinks, play darts (I'm horribly dangerous, although no one's lost an eye yet) shoot some pool, a little dancing? Something outside of the box would be a welcome distraction, hmm...skydiving? I'm a big (albeit goofy) kid at heart. Anything that gets the blood pumping and has me laughing or smiling would be a fantastic date! : )

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Japanese Animation Horror Drag Racing Soccer / Football
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