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Yoshie, 47

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About Me

New photos coming soon. I recently have decided to improve my life and lost quite a bit of weight and and inches and honestly my pics on here no longer do me justice!!I f you are interested make a move... , so unless you take a chance, you will never know.... It is ***and a woman should have ever right to contact a guy first and be able to express what she is looking for, Also if I send you a flirt and you block me, GROW UP. Be a man and say you aren't interested. That tells me something about you right then and there and I am GLAD that I didn't get to know you. I will always respond to and at least thank you for messaging me.... keep stepping. I am not going to apologize for who I am nor do I play games,,,I feel it is important for people who are in the first stages of getting to know one another to communicate during the day/evening, if you don't feel this is important then I don't have the time and energy for guys who will not put some effort in getting to know me...I used to want to take my time talking to someone before we meet, not anymore. I am not willing to waste my time and yours if we are not a match, so a meet n greet is essential as soon as possible... I am not going to apologize for what I am looking for or for the fact that I am an affectionate, sensual and caring woman... if you are not the one, please don't be offended and is may seem harsh, it it not meant to be that way, it just means that we are not a good match.. If you do not know how to tell the truth and communication is not important to you, then don't contact me, I can handle anything, I don't get jealous as long as someone is up front with me. If you are into "Ghosting" and thinks it's cool. don't bother me....I have racked my brain trying to figure out what makes the guys on this site tick and I can honestly say I have no idea. I have had to take a different approach because some of these rotten apples on here have made it harder for the good ones. They say they aren't into head games or drama yet they create it. They say they are looking to date or be in a relationship, yet they want your number right away for sexting and sending inappropriate pictures. Really ?is this the way to pick up a girl? I want more than a texting relationship. I want to hear your voice, is that asking too much? So many guys on here say they "want a nice woman",,, well here I am and you don't know what to do with me,,,Apparently..These guys talk out of both sides of their mouths. Come on guys mean what you say and say what you mean.. If you don't know what you want, why in the world should I have to spend time trying to figure it out for you... Don't be a player and tell me you are interested and then not contact me or show up on here and not initiate conversation.. I AM NOT going to chase you...... If interested, do something about it... I am not going to waste my time on a player....nor am I going to give second chances...It has happened before when I gave someone a second chance only to be played again...Please. I know that your mommas raised you to have a sense of character, so if you don't want to talk or text or date anymore, don't just disappear, let me know. Also standing me up isn't going to make me like you any better nor get a second chance. I am a big girl and will have my big girl panties on and can handle it. Do us both a favor and don't waste my time, if you aren't looking for the same things I am the don't bother and if you think this is nothing but a booty call and please don't mistake my being nice as a sign that I am am easy or a doormat... with that being said I know my fish is out there somewhere and I am waiting for him to catch me.. Please read what I am looking for and if you don't possess those qualities, don't bother....What I am looking for:* Caucasian male **** A man who is not a liar and doesn't live in a fantasy world* won't toy with my emotions and be wishy washy * Employed* Does not want or need to be supported (I'm not an ATM)* Honest about who they are and what they want out of life* Have interests of their own* Enjoys life and all that it has to offer ( will go to and do things out on the town)* Able to devote time to me* Can be a gentleman* Not needy or co-dependent* Respects boundaries hence respects me* Not into head games or drama or just passing time with me until someone better comes along ( know what you want out of dating/relationship before you try to enter into one)* Likes to treat me special* Good communicator ( say what you mean and mean what you say) Doesnt LIE!!!!!!* Enjoys having normal and healthy relations but is looking for more than a booty call( if that's what you are looking for then use the intimate encounter choice)* Attractive( at least to me)* Doesn't live with your parents( or in a van down by the river)* Knows how to tell the truth** Can be spontaneous and adventurous* Isn't a couch potato* Has a good sense of character and be a grown up when it comes to discussing less than desirable things* Don't disappear just because you can. Again be a grown up about dating* knows how to be on time*Must have a strong sense of character*Not afraid of PDA or intimacy* Wants more than a texting relationship and has no problem with me hearing your voice* Will initiate conversation and not expect me to chase you,,,,* Does not have anger issues* Is man enough to at least say hi or goodbye for that matter, be an adult for heavens sakeWhy am I a good catch:* Easy on the eyes( I am not a troll) Comfortable dressed up or down and like to wear heels* Well educated and well versed* Enjoy life and all that it has to offer* Will treat my special someone with love and respect* Will handle disagreements like an adult* Will say what I mean and mean what I say* I like sex as much if not more than the next guy, but I won't be dropping my drawers the moment we met.. * I am employed, have my own car and I don't live with my parents* and on and on and on........* I am NOT a couch potato* I am a grown up and can handle difficult situations* Will respect you enough to tell you if I am no longer interested, I won't just disappear and have you keep wondering Let's face it a first date can be like a job interview where you are trying to sell yourself to that other person to ensure a second date. That is just too much pressure... So let's keep it simple and not worry about trying to overly impress each other... My tastes can run from staying in and cooking together, sharing a bottle of wine and or we can meet up with some friends and go see a show or a football game. Let's just get to know each other whether we go out for coffee or to dinner, it's ok with me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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