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Zariyah
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I'm 50 years old, have two grown sons have children of their own and I was divorced 22 years ago. I have had long term relationships between then and now and I believe those situations were learning experiences for me to figure out who I am and what I need in my life from a significant other. I would love to be married again someday to someone who "gets me" I want a man in my life who I can grow with emotionally, mentally, physically, but I have also learned I don't necessarily "need" a man in my life. I'm a confident, Independent woman and have accomplished a lot on my own. Now I would like to accomplish things with someone by my side, share the journey, the trials the good times, the memories. I'm honest to a fault and expect the people in my life to be as well. "Doubts are more cruel than the worst of truths" If those in my life can't be honest - or live their life thru lies and dishonesty, they have no place in my life. Be real, genuine, honest and have integrity and we will get a long famously. I'm looking for a man who is secure and independent, yet knows how to be interdependent. I'm not controlling and don't want to be controlled. I don't play games and won't play yours. I love sports! I'm not one of those women who will go shopping when the guys are watching the big game, I'll be right there in the middle with a beer in hand swapping stats with the rest of you. I love to laugh, a good sense of humor goes a long way. My friends would describe me as loyal, trustworthy, honest, goofy, smart, and fun to be around. I love to dance, it's a great way to lose yourself and let go of stress and anxiety. I can also be a homebody, I love to entertain at home, cook a good meal and watch the game, a good movie or just socialize. I would love to travel more, see some things I haven't seen, yet I want to share that with someone. I tend to prefer men who are fit and take care of themselves physically. Fitness is a big deal in my life. Though I do watch what I eat for the most part, I love food and part of the reason I work out is so that I can enjoy food. I don't smoke or do drugs and I am not interested in being around anyone who does. Money doesn't control me in the sense that what a man makes is important, I have been dirt poor and independently wealthy and I realize that my happiness isn't a result of how much money is in the bank. Obviously it's better to have a little, but its a bonus, not a precursor.Ultimately my motto's are simple: Be good to me because I will always be good to you, respect goes both ways, as does giving, loving and sharing. Be kind,faithful and considerate. Live your life with integrity. I strive to do and be all those things, I'm a work in progress, I'm not perfect and don't expect perfection, it doesn't exist. Communication is a must.. without it, what's the point. if you are not serious about finding someone to spend time with = get to know and have a possible relationship- don't waste my time and yours.. I'm not looking for a friend with benefits, a booty call or a companion to do things with.. I want to build a relationship with someone long term. I apologize in advance if I don't respond to your *** date would be a collective of what interests the both of us..
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Anya
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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
I am not desperate for a relationship, but I do miss the feeling of having someone that can make me smile and feel appreciated. Someone that can make calling and texting me the first and last thing they do everyday. Someone that will be there to hold me when I feel vulnerable. Someone that will look past my defects and love me for who I am. Someone that will give me butterflies in my stomach every time we're together. Someone that I can call mine.I love the beach, live music, listen to most types of music, especially Country! My kids are 17 and 20, I have 2 Great Danes and 2 cats so you must love animals :). It would be great to find someone with the same types of life ambitions. Looking for someone who likes spontaneity and I love to travel -- Also love to go camping, especially at the beach, river, desert, etc.! I would really like to find someone who is divorced and is serious about having a relationship, missing that companionship, and first and foremost builds from an incredible friendship. I love my life, kids, and friends, but I am missing that person to talk to at the end of the day discussing what happened good & bad, someone to cuddle with on the couch, holding hands on the way to the movies, having family dinners together with ALL of our kids, grandkids someday.......Life is too short to spend it alone. Let's chat and see if we have things in common =) Getting to know someone should be a priority on a first date.
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Taryn
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Hi, Thanks for visiting. I'm 48, love to laugh, enjoy good conversation, am single for the first time in a very long time and would love to find someone with compatible interests, including a simple desire to just hang out and enjoy each others' company. I'm not particular on how we might spend time together, as I enjoy a lot of variety in activities. My main interest is in finding someone who is sincere, authentic, can be direct about what they want and is willing to take a chance and explore the possibilities together. I work on felted wool sculptures for fun, and used to do it for a living. I'm uniquely intuitive, empathetic, thoughtful and kind. As part of that, I'm open minded, and can consider many points of view on any given subject. For example, I'm a liberal, but I love Adam Carolla. But I still feel like I'm getting to know this amazing town and would love someone to explore it with. I had a 17 year marriage, now divorced, and happily with no baggage. Not every divorce has a villain, and I'm grateful to be spared baggage, and drama in that department. I have a 14 year old daughter, who lives with me half the time. I love being a parent, but am also enjoying the freedom of being "kid-free" and getting to create a richer life for it. So, the best of both worlds.I can be assertive, but would really love a man who would also like to take the lead, and isn't afraid to.I've never been to Timberline and have just realized that. I would like to do that on a date some time. Oh, and if you can ever swing tickets to Book of Mormon, there will be vast rewards for you.-pop, or mariachi, then we're cool.;; Garfunkel and Dolphins Healing Radio). : -)I do TV mostly in binge form these days, with long dry spells in between.I'm smart, and not afraid to share my opinion. But I'm also keenly interested in what you're thinking, too, and will seek out your thoughts and opinions.All of this stuff about hobbies, taste in music and love of animals is kind of beside the point for me. I'm most interested in the fact that you have interests, and are not content to sit and watch tv every night in lieu of being actively engaged in a life that you love, or are working to build.I'm proud of having survived a rough start in life, and not letting it define me. I'm more insightful and compassionate than most people you will meet because of it. Starting life like a feral cat means that I'm comfortable in my own skin, know what I want and need, know who I am and am comfortable in charting my own course, even if it doesn't match that of the mainstream. I hope that you, too, are accepting of yourself. Both because I would want that for everyone, but also because untormented types are usually easier to live with and more fun to be around.And, lastly, this year has been dedicated to firsts for me, and to trying new things. I hope you, too, have a bit of adventure and spirit to bring to the table. Let's meet up for coffee or a drink, have an old fashioned conversation and take it from there!