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Afrikah, 46

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Working on living healthier and enjoying being active, I have a goal in mind and have always been able to reach them, I have my eye on the price and hopefully it may include you. So I've been here done this a time or two and have learned what I want before a relationship is a good friend, a partner in life and a real man that will give me a chance to make you smile everyday. I'm looking for someone, I'm attractive to, have common interest and wants to live life not watch it go by. I'm old enough to be out of the club and bar scene but young enough to have a lot of fun adventures with the right man. Can't seem to meet anyone that I have that connection with that wants to do some of the things I enjoy, walking eastern market on the weekend, going bike riding to metro parks, hanging with my crazy friends, and joining them on a nice ride on the back of your bike, if possible. I enjoy the Tigers, love the Red Wings (good or bad), I watch football more college. I will support the right guy in any of there hobbies as long as they do the same for me. What you can expect from me is the joy of cooking, gardening, fresh produce straight out of the garden and on the table. I Enjoy entertaining, friends and family. Miss not having someone to snuggle up to a nice fire with when the house is empty. I enjoy the smile back at me when I've made you crack up, I have a very outgoing friendly personality, I make people smile and laugh everyday, as well as being very professional. I'm looking for that special guy to appreciate and spoil with laughter, love and the good life. I like to be active not a couch potato but do enjoy my downtime, a nice glass of wine in my backyard, making dinner for whoever shows up that day, it's missing that someone to share all this with. PS. I say age shouldn't be a factor but my parents are in the 60's so going over 52 kind of creeps me out. LOL!!! I'm not interested is swinging, hooking up or exchanging pic of your junk!!! This site might be free but I'm not! So many options, depends on the weather

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chalice

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    3xCharm does not pertain to my times of marriage!! I was married 1x and have no regrets, we created an amazing family. I come from a large loving and close crazy Italian family. Im a mother of four fabulous adults first!! I am a mother. daughter, grandmother, sister, aunt, niece and friend to many. These marvelous people are the loves of my life, as I am to them, they define me. I try hard not to dissapoint them, by doing the right thing everyday, it comes natural to me. It's what you do when nobody is watching that counts!! I have permanent guardianship of my 6 and 5 yr old nieces,(never thought plastic cups would be a must need in my house AGAIN) it isn't easy raising 2 little ones again, but we manage just fine. If I were you reading this, I too would run the other way!! I'm a busy person, no time for BS!!! If I met somone who I was interested it would be a pleasure to make time for them. I'm stupid kind, and I choose to turn a cheek when most wouldn't. I firmly believe in not judging others, no matter their race, religion, political views or the amount of a bank account.. I dont expect others to share my vision but I do look for someone to respect them. Blah, blah, blah.. I'm fun, funny, sweet,supper cute and sexy, and never a biatch!!! And beleive this, I hate shopping, UGHH!!! I have an edge on most, because I get it!! It is what it is !!! We all have a look that we are attractive to, mine is a fabulous smile first, dark, tall, and hair is to be high and tight, bald is fabulous too, clean shaved!!! I'm not looking for a perfect person, just my perfect!! I like high energy, if your an old man in heart and soul, we won't blend.If you send me a *** do better then a simple hi!! My ADD kicks in and I lose interest quickly!! I will try to respond to your *** being polite. You men do know if a women is interested or not, don't you? Please put your big boy undies on and figure it out..!I'm not flattered if you are younger then my oldest!! That would be 31, add 9 years then we may talk.. If I were to have a meet, it would be a quick one, there would be No expectations, no dissapointments!!! Then plan the first date if it went well..:)

  • Jamie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Ok, I haven't updated this in a while, I think its time.I've tried to keep this pretty vague and not put too much of my personal life out there, but what the hell, I am who I am and don't see me changing anytime soon. lol I can guarantee that who you meet on the first date will be the same girl you know a yr later. I dont have a fake bone in my body. You will either like me for who i am or you'll move on soon enough anyway. Why pretend to be something im not. :-)Lets see, where to begin? Well, i was married 21 yrs. We grew appart, my life was about our family and his was about succeeding. Neither wong - just different. We ended on pretty good terms and he has since remarried. No drama there. I tend to avoid drama if at alll possible. Most things in life just arent worth arguing about. Compromise is a good thing!I live a pretty simple life. I walk the parks, watch sunsets at the beach, go camping on the weekends. I like going to movies, restaurants, fairs, and even the occassional flea market..... i guess you can say family is pretty important. lol We go for coffee, play cards/games etc . They're all a little crazy (in a good way) and the kind of family you can really count on for anything - at a moments notice. No matter what.I'm not the judgemental or critical type. I'm not impressed by material things.either - I'm more interested in a mans character. How he sees the world around him and how he treats the people in it. Everything in life can be possitive or negative, its all in the way you look at it. I find that possitive is less stressful and less depressing.One more thing, I am christian. I go to church at least once a month. I am so not a good example, but I try. I'm not a holy roller or a so called jesus freak, but my foundation is strong and I know what I believe and why I believe it. Yes, I occassionally have a few drinks but dont get to the point that i have to be carried home. I do occassionally go to a casino and play slots for entertainment, I dont get carried away with that either. I also dont see me saving myself for another marriage either. I am not perfect and don't claim to be, I don't judge others or push my beliefs on anyone. I will however be happy to share them if asked. Christians arent meant to be boring unhappy people. We are meant to be happy, and to learn and grow from all that life has to offer.I guess for now I'm looking for someone to hang out with n see what happens. I'd like to enjoy what's left of this crazy summer now that it's finally here. I'm not looking to jump into a relationship, but if things are good - who knows. * NOTE - relationships require love, honesty and mutual respect. The rest is will take care of itself. It really shouldn't be that hard. Something stress free and causal. Restaurant for coffee, or a drink n appetizer maybe. Just a place to break the ice to start.FYI - North and close to the lake

  • Rolande

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Nothing fake with me...what makes me unique (my opinion) is that I am very open and don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I'm seriously a no-drama, low-maintenance gal. I don't have any regrets in the choices I've made in life because I choose to learn from the choices that didn't turn out the way I planned; this helps me grow as a person. I've been divorced since April ***from the man I was with for 26-years. We matured as different people and grew apart. We both had a difficult time admitting that we needed to move on, but realized that we weren't "in love" and it wasn't fair to either of us to deny ourselves the chance to be with someone who we couldn't live without. He found his soul mate and is now married, and I couldn't be happier for both of them. We share custody of our 14yr-old son who is truly a great young man that makes me proud every day. I would expect that the man who is in my life treats my son with respect. I don't expect or require him to love him as his own, and I don't need a man to raise him...his father is very involved with raising him.Do I know what I want out of a relationship? I know that I want to feel special and want the person I'm with to appreciate the way I make him feel. I don't want anyone to change who they are or what they like, that's not realistic or a character that is sustainable in a relationship. With that said, I don't want someone who isn't interested in being financially independent or who chooses not to earn a living. I'm a person who sets goals and makes all efforts to achieve them, and I expect the same from the man in my life.Romance to me has a broad definition in my book. Here is how I describe it: someone who likes to surprise me with little things to let me know he's thinking about me. I'm not talking about monetary things like flowers or jewelry (although those are nice perks), I'm referring to things like a random text ("Hi there beautiful, I miss you."), an *** call out of the blue, a greeting card in the mail, or coming home to him in my kitchen making dinner for 2. I love making memories with family and friends and cherish the experiences I've been a part of. I love to laugh and to make others laugh. I have a sarcastic, witty nature that my friends tell me is a positive attribute of mine. One of my biggest turn ons is a man who can carry on an intelligent conversation with me and can flirt and tease with me as often as I do. Cuddling is a must! And in time, whenever we would decide it was right (be it the 2nd date or months later), sexual intimacy has to be an important part of the relationship!! Turn ONs: great sense of humor, respectful of self and others, hard worker but must be able to play even harder, romantic (per my definition from above), enjoys alone time with me but also likes hanging with me and his/my friends, an independent thinker and respectful that I am one also, enjoys a GOOD beer, is OK with having a glass of wine with me even if it's not his favorite drink, a great smelling man!Turn OFFs: drama, old baggage, *** needs of others, uncleanliness, smoking/tobacco use, disrespect of any extension of me (my son, my home, my friends).Enough about me for now, contact me if you'd like to find out more.

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