SIMILAR PEOPLE
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KittyOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Having to set up a new profile after one in which I was ***years old. I had set up the profile as no one is searchable after the age of 99 and I was curious and wanted to kinda lurk...test the waters. meetville rules does not allow one to communicate with anyone 14 years younger or older which meant I could only correspond with someone older than 87...and won't delete my account so it is now "hidden"...and I now have an ALIAS. I am discovering men mostly don't read profiles anyway. Sorta like reading comic books, they just prefer to look at pictures. It is complicated....I seek chemistry - and you may ask what is that? Chemistry is a connection that to many, may seem magical and unrealistic. but it is simply the accumulation of what we are and who we have become, bringing two people together in the moment, and is much too complicated to ever analyze so we call it "love" I seek chemistry with someone who possesses charm, a flair for living, who can live life honestly, with personal integrity and financial stability. I am attracted to intelligence coupled with common sense. I stay fit and eat healthy and desire that quality in a partner. I desire somebody who is wise, someone with as much or more energy than me and who has at least as much zest for life as me and a kind heart as that is the key to the equation. And there must be Chemistry....I am a positive person of moral fiber while still enjoying things spontaneously. I often think and sometimes act outside the box. Excess within control. Descriptive for me would be loyal, fun-loving, energetic compassionate, moral, frugal, athletic, adaptable, sensitive, intuitive, living reclusive in a debt free life style in the country, charming with a dry quick wit and sense of humor and very sensual with the right mate.I didn't "blow up the t.v." but I avoid most of the rot and prefer to rent movies from the library, preferring independent films and documentaries over mainstream movies. I avoid movies containing gratuitous sex and violence; finding both to be raw and demeaning and insults my intelligence and imagination. So no couch potatoes please...I am vegetarian...and finding this is an element in my life that should be seriously considered in seeking a future partner. I love animals. I don't eat them. I own and live on an organic farm...I grow (not kill) what I eat. Life is simple if you have control of your simple needs. Life is good....not easy...but good! Vegetarianism is not just an ethical decision but part of the solution to the global, economical, ecological problems on Earth plus a health based choice. I am often told that I am a great chef. I love to cook with lots of spices. My cuisine is never dull!I love being in and around the water, having taught swimming (WSI) for 14 years, I crew on a racing sailboat and am resurrecting an antique racing sailboat for the ***racing season. I love exploration and hiking, potlucks and dancing to live music. Flying and travel is important. I am willing to travel to see a good band play or to hike a special place.People often portray themselves as perfect and no one is perfect, we are all imperfect. I am imperfectly perfect. What is more important is to not carry around a lot of baggage and to be responsible for your actions and I am able to do both of these things successfully. I have been blessed in life and am single my choice as I do know what I want and willing to wait it out, Life is what we make it. I strive to make each day special, I work hard and play harder. We live in a world that functions in an unrealistic way and at an alarming pace. I maintain a steady pace and search for what my soul tells me is real. No time for games. I am focused on developing a good relationship with a like- I am impatiently patient. If you can't post a photo, we probably have little in common, not being judgmental nor unrealistic in my expectations physically, but in order to begin communicating with someone, at least for me, a photograph to put a face on a person is pertinent."Everybody is after being extraordinary. That is the search of the ego: to be someone who is special, to be someone who is unique, incomparable. It is such an ordinary desire. If you become ordinary, the very search to be ordinary is extraordinary, because rarely does somebody want to be just nobody, rarely does somebody want to be just a hollow, empty space. This is really extraordinary in a way, because nobody wants it. And when you become ordinary you become extraordinary, and, of course, suddenly you discover that without searching you have become unique."- Osho (Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh) the hardest part....wish the first date was optional! And the last "date" :-)
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JamieOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Ok, I haven't updated this in a while, I think its time.I've tried to keep this pretty vague and not put too much of my personal life out there, but what the hell, I am who I am and don't see me changing anytime soon. lol I can guarantee that who you meet on the first date will be the same girl you know a yr later. I dont have a fake bone in my body. You will either like me for who i am or you'll move on soon enough anyway. Why pretend to be something im not. :-)Lets see, where to begin? Well, i was married 21 yrs. We grew appart, my life was about our family and his was about succeeding. Neither wong - just different. We ended on pretty good terms and he has since remarried. No drama there. I tend to avoid drama if at alll possible. Most things in life just arent worth arguing about. Compromise is a good thing!I live a pretty simple life. I walk the parks, watch sunsets at the beach, go camping on the weekends. I like going to movies, restaurants, fairs, and even the occassional flea market..... i guess you can say family is pretty important. lol We go for coffee, play cards/games etc . They're all a little crazy (in a good way) and the kind of family you can really count on for anything - at a moments notice. No matter what.I'm not the judgemental or critical type. I'm not impressed by material things.either - I'm more interested in a mans character. How he sees the world around him and how he treats the people in it. Everything in life can be possitive or negative, its all in the way you look at it. I find that possitive is less stressful and less depressing.One more thing, I am christian. I go to church at least once a month. I am so not a good example, but I try. I'm not a holy roller or a so called jesus freak, but my foundation is strong and I know what I believe and why I believe it. Yes, I occassionally have a few drinks but dont get to the point that i have to be carried home. I do occassionally go to a casino and play slots for entertainment, I dont get carried away with that either. I also dont see me saving myself for another marriage either. I am not perfect and don't claim to be, I don't judge others or push my beliefs on anyone. I will however be happy to share them if asked. Christians arent meant to be boring unhappy people. We are meant to be happy, and to learn and grow from all that life has to offer.I guess for now I'm looking for someone to hang out with n see what happens. I'd like to enjoy what's left of this crazy summer now that it's finally here. I'm not looking to jump into a relationship, but if things are good - who knows. * NOTE - relationships require love, honesty and mutual respect. The rest is will take care of itself. It really shouldn't be that hard. Something stress free and causal. Restaurant for coffee, or a drink n appetizer maybe. Just a place to break the ice to start.FYI - North and close to the lake
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AmayaOffline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I like to golf and all outdoor activities.(bbq, bonfires,laying under the stars etc..) Love spending time with my friends and family. Listen to country music and old rock and roll don't care for rap. It would be great to meet someone who loves to laugh and cuddle to watch a good movie.I like motorcycles. Him and I are close even though he's that far away. I get to see him at least once a year.Life is to short and precious, live life to its fullest everyday. If you would like to chat drop a line and don't be shy. I know a lot of guys are shy when it comes to answering a e-mails or sending them. If you don't want to talk send a e-mail and say not interested. I answer all e-mails.Update: Look where you live and look where I live if its more then 45 minutes think about how it will work!! Just sayin!!! It depends, coffee or maybe a little lunch.