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Marlys, 46
United States, Idaho, Rupert

Offline, last seen Sat, 10 Jan 2026 05:50:58

About Me

If we haven't had someone close to us die, we tend to take a lot for granted. I really try not to take things for granted. We have no idea what is around the corner; for us, or for our loved ones.; cancer can be long and very arduous. The people we love and who love us are vitally important. Now and for years to come. Life is hard sometimes, I'll still love you. Hiking, biking, skiing, off trail - using the inner compass... breathing..... snake grass in the wind..... long journeys... sun! ... hard work, physical motion... adventures, peaceful hours... riding horses... building creations, a home, a journey, a life.We have this honest moment. I know what I want... lions in the wild....... snake grass... clean air...easy efforts... a man who loves and adores me and I him... a healthy life... the rewards of hard work... and grace.Here are the negatives: I don't know how to do internet dating. I wish I didn't fill out the 'chemistry test' because I wung it and I don't know how to change it... I don't know how to get my photos off!... I don't want to 'shop for a man'. I don't want to have conversations with many people. I'm not looking to flirt; to fill my ego. Please don't send me conversations that really don't mean anything; or comments that are shallow. I didn't get on this site for that. Please don't write if you are a few years out of the alcoholic drug life. I prefer a man who hasn't gone there at all. I'm sorry, I don't know how to *** call and I don't want to.I'm humorous and intellectual on type, I'm best in person. I know how to be in the moment, to dance intimately. I know how to express gratitude. I like to play and laugh, everything dissolves. I know how to take care of my loved ones. I love journeys, celebrating different parts of this planet. I was loved as a child and I know how to love. I offer you honesty. Since you are a secure man you will want my honesty. I need my time alone regularly. I will genuinely be present with you. I am manifesting a healthy stable relationship with an-already-made healthy stable man. A man who loves physical contact, passionate energy. A man who is happy and sensitive. I enjoy your sense of purpose. I'm independent. I support you in your goals and you in mine. You and I are up for a walk/bike ride together at the end of a long day, *** staring at the tv., we enjoy something real.I respect a responsible honest man. One who has spent quality time becoming self aware, you who enjoyed the work objectively. You who enjoys the challenges of life and surfs the changes well. (heart) hmmm... is this about what I want on a first date? ...It's organic

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Portuguese South American Tennis
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