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Alisha, 49

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About Me

As the song goes, "Life's a dance, you learn as you go". It truly is. Sometimes it's a jive with upbeat music and other times it's more of a slow waltz. Very occasionally it's kind of painful, but one gets over that. I enjoy being a part of a small, a cappella ensemble. Rehearsals are a blast and performances are just as interesting. Family and friends play a key role in my life. I try to spend as much time with my niece and nephew as their growing up will allow. Seeing the world through the eyes of a child is always refreshing, many times enlightening, and often hilarious.I'm city born but I love the country life. There is nothing quite like turning one's face to the sun and feeling the wind in one's hair and the only sounds are those of the wind rustling the grasses and the birds chirping. I also enjoy living and working in a small town where a quick foray into the "wilds" is just moments away.I am a Christian and am more spiritual than religious. I do not live my life by a list of rules but more from principles.I can be intense and passionate about many things. Time and the dance have tempered and strengthened these things to help me be the warm, caring person I am. Hmmm....kind of open. It wouldn't need to be anything fancy. A cup of coffee in a place where we can chat would be nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shavonne

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I would rather focus more on the person and finding out likes and dislikes rather than the actual date itself. That can come later....

  • Katy

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I've been told that I am perhaps a bit unusual....I'm not looking to be financially supported, fixed or completed by another person and I seek the same in my partner. I would like to meet someone who is capable of standing comfortably on their own in this same way, but who is also looking for that special someone to share the journey with. I like to maintain balance in all areas of my life....I am extremely active though and would like to find a partner who might enjoy sharing some of these activities: skiing, snow shoeing, cycling, hiking, kayaking, dancing, yoga and daily walks. I prefer to play my exercise and enjoy the outdoors, I don't enjoy working out in a gym. I love to dress up on occasion, perhaps the city for dinner and a show, but more often prefer to keep it simple....an interesting movie, or dancing to some good local music. I prefer evenings at home cooking a nice meal together a glass of wine and listening to some music, I don't watch television, or spend much time online… I also like to indulge in many creative pursuits; I love the change of seasons and I equally enjoy the cold of winter and the softer warmth in spring and summer, I love the mountains and the ocean equally.I know many people talk about not having any baggage from the past, and although this sounds good on paper I have found it just isn't possible to leave the past behind entirely, it is woven into the fabric of our lives and a part of who we are. Hopefully we have all learned from our past adventures and this is what now moves us forward into the future. I also feel that truth is most important, and having said this I want to also say that I don't believe in chronological age (this being the date of ones birth) the number I have included in my profile is based on my psychological age and my bio-markers.I'm not looking for a pen pal or a cyber-relationship and I would prefer to meet early on to see if anything "clicks" I haven't met the person I want to share the rest of the journey with yet, but I have met and maintained some wonderful friendships in the process. I also have come to realize that at this stage of the game, meeting and getting to know each other is very different from what it was ***years ago, I think most of us have different expectations now. I still believe it is necessary to first fall in love with our eyes and our minds, and then with our hearts...and only when this is in alignment can body and soul join in the dance.HINT: I often hear men lament; "what do women want"?????? A single rose at the grocery store costs $1.99, this could net the greatest ROI you've ever experienced!! The first date might be a cup of coffee, a glass of wine or a walk/hike....perhaps plan to spend an hour or two together in a comfortable and casual environment and see what might want to happen from there.

  • Voncile

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a hard worker and a people person with a great sense of humor. I enjoy movies, fishing, bowling, golf, comedy clubs and watching football games. I enjoy music and plays. I'm looking for someone to hang out with/ date/ spend time with. I'm not saying I am totally against getting serious, but right now prefer to just date. I am not looking to spend someone's money as I have a full-time job and am perfectly capable of taking care of myself! And I hate moochers and cheap people, so if you don't have money to go out on a date (where you ask me if the tacos in the bar at Paradiso are free, then say Oh, I'll get us some!!) Don't ask me out!!! I'm fine buying my own drink on a first date, but buying your drink too? No thanks!! . (sorry, bad first & last date! ha ha) I enjoy time with my 2 children, family and friends and I think it is important that guys have "guy time" with their friends too. I do not plan to have any more children; but will treat your children like my own and hope you would do the same with my kids, as I have 1 child still at home. Please do not contact me if you are married or if you are in your twenties or early-mid thirties; I'm really not interested and will not respond to your message. Good luck in your search. Maybe appetizers and a beverage? We can decide together!

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