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Jaynie, 48

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About Me

Just like most I have had good and bad times. My motto has always has been what does not kill me makes me stronger. Hey, I am still standing.I am NOT looking for someone to take care of me; I am looking for someone to enjoy life together. I also am not looking to support someone.I am looking for that someone who knows the difference between being needed for what you are and can give to a relationship or being needed for what you have. I personally think just being needed for one’s self is amazing and that is what am looking for . I am an independent, strong person. Everything I have is due to my hard work and honesty. I have my own home ,and I am full time employed. I have a wonderful son 19 years old, just ask I will tell you.. I am, yes proud of my son, yet I am NOT wanting to deal with baby mama drama. I do not want drama of any kind, just want to enjoy life with that special someone. I know misery loves company; I just will NOT be that company. Life is too short not to enjoy.I am honest maybe brutally. So if you do NOT want to know the truth, do NOT ask me. I have a sense of humor that is on the sarcastic side and is uncontrollable but yes, I can take it as well. I am looking for that friend ,partner ,lover that together we make each other better .I do not believe that happens over night, I believe a relationship takes time . I do NOT sleep or have sex with any one I am not committed to. So if you looking for a bed buddy keep going.I am not an exercise junkie nor am I fat. I am 5"2" and proportionate, in other words I have curves were I should. So if you want skinny please go on as I want honest imperfect male, I will accept your faults unless dangerous to my health, as long as you can accept mine. Let’s face at 40 plus neither of us our changing we are just looking for those who can make us better or at least accept us for what and who we are. I enjoy the outdoors, animals, fast cars, and the need for speed, and good company. I am just as comfortable all dressed up in heels (usually 5 inch) as in jeans as getting grease under my nails. Coffee, a walk in the park. Just a place to get to know one another. If the company is good then the where and the what does not matter, just makes it more enjoyable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marlys

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    If we haven't had someone close to us die, we tend to take a lot for granted. I really try not to take things for granted. We have no idea what is around the corner; for us, or for our loved ones.; cancer can be long and very arduous. The people we love and who love us are vitally important. Now and for years to come. Life is hard sometimes, I'll still love you. Hiking, biking, skiing, off trail - using the inner compass... breathing..... snake grass in the wind..... long journeys... sun! ... hard work, physical motion... adventures, peaceful hours... riding horses... building creations, a home, a journey, a life.We have this honest moment. I know what I want... lions in the wild....... snake grass... clean air...easy efforts... a man who loves and adores me and I him... a healthy life... the rewards of hard work... and grace.Here are the negatives: I don't know how to do internet dating. I wish I didn't fill out the 'chemistry test' because I wung it and I don't know how to change it... I don't know how to get my photos off!... I don't want to 'shop for a man'. I don't want to have conversations with many people. I'm not looking to flirt; to fill my ego. Please don't send me conversations that really don't mean anything; or comments that are shallow. I didn't get on this site for that. Please don't write if you are a few years out of the alcoholic drug life. I prefer a man who hasn't gone there at all. I'm sorry, I don't know how to *** call and I don't want to.I'm humorous and intellectual on type, I'm best in person. I know how to be in the moment, to dance intimately. I know how to express gratitude. I like to play and laugh, everything dissolves. I know how to take care of my loved ones. I love journeys, celebrating different parts of this planet. I was loved as a child and I know how to love. I offer you honesty. Since you are a secure man you will want my honesty. I need my time alone regularly. I will genuinely be present with you. I am manifesting a healthy stable relationship with an-already-made healthy stable man. A man who loves physical contact, passionate energy. A man who is happy and sensitive. I enjoy your sense of purpose. I'm independent. I support you in your goals and you in mine. You and I are up for a walk/bike ride together at the end of a long day, *** staring at the tv., we enjoy something real.I respect a responsible honest man. One who has spent quality time becoming self aware, you who enjoyed the work objectively. You who enjoys the challenges of life and surfs the changes well. (heart) hmmm... is this about what I want on a first date? ...It's organic

  • Anglea

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am very athletic and enjoy many sporting events. I love to sit on the beach and watch the waves come in. When I retire I am planning to move somewhere warm and on the beach. Life is good to me, do not need any drama in my life so for all you men that are married or have a girlfriend I am not the one for you and if you feel you need to cheat on your wife or girlfriend. Shame on you. If you are unhappy you need to close that chapter before you move forward. Just a word of wisdom. Happy Hunting :-)

  • Shea

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I stay active - Finding or creating something every weekend...(not so much during the week-well, I can be persuaded...:). I am a bit of a planner, some things have to be planned months in advance - to make sure you get the right spot, right price..and all your friends know when to "plan" on it :) Camping, boating, wine tasting, traveling and exploring in the summer..happy hours, hiking, skiing, dancing, etc in the winter. Whatever I can stir up and have fun with friends doing. ( a little bit of an adrenaline junkie..if I can find things that do that..love trying new things and going places I haven't been/seen before). Have had several long relationships..and have lots of friends..no, never married. (please dont read into that too much) Have a great a great job, car/truck, and house (ever been in a spool ?...) have ***lb ish dogs (no kids - but my dogs are not my kids..they have a doggie door and know how to feed themselves, so they dont limit what and when I can do things - love em though). I would like to find someone do things with other than friends..with friends sometimes..but not always. ..and if that leads to something more serious - great...I am looking for a best friend,that I am attracted to and respect, and just cant get enough of.. partner in crime, with benefits! Picked a sea horse, well because I have a tattoo of one -in a scuba dive flag..on my ankle. Music - roger clyne, jimmy buffett, reggae, acdc, nickelback..- please be geographically desirable :) I have heard of so many horror stories where people chat and ***/weeks..and get excited about things..and then the first meeting (if it ever gets around to that). They don't show..or when they do they look nothing like their picture..say they are 5'11 ..and aren't (I am 5'10)..or they say they are outdoorsy and just aren't (anymore). I would really just like to meet and have a drink and see if there is chemistry..most people know it right away..(don't they?) And despite many of my male friends telling me that every girl on this site is just looking for someone to buy dinner..or pay thier bills, or sex...none of the above for me - just figured I might meet someone that I wouldn't have met otherwise and we will see where it goes from there...

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