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Jaynie, 48

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About Me

Just like most I have had good and bad times. My motto has always has been what does not kill me makes me stronger. Hey, I am still standing.I am NOT looking for someone to take care of me; I am looking for someone to enjoy life together. I also am not looking to support someone.I am looking for that someone who knows the difference between being needed for what you are and can give to a relationship or being needed for what you have. I personally think just being needed for one’s self is amazing and that is what am looking for . I am an independent, strong person. Everything I have is due to my hard work and honesty. I have my own home ,and I am full time employed. I have a wonderful son 19 years old, just ask I will tell you.. I am, yes proud of my son, yet I am NOT wanting to deal with baby mama drama. I do not want drama of any kind, just want to enjoy life with that special someone. I know misery loves company; I just will NOT be that company. Life is too short not to enjoy.I am honest maybe brutally. So if you do NOT want to know the truth, do NOT ask me. I have a sense of humor that is on the sarcastic side and is uncontrollable but yes, I can take it as well. I am looking for that friend ,partner ,lover that together we make each other better .I do not believe that happens over night, I believe a relationship takes time . I do NOT sleep or have sex with any one I am not committed to. So if you looking for a bed buddy keep going.I am not an exercise junkie nor am I fat. I am 5"2" and proportionate, in other words I have curves were I should. So if you want skinny please go on as I want honest imperfect male, I will accept your faults unless dangerous to my health, as long as you can accept mine. Let’s face at 40 plus neither of us our changing we are just looking for those who can make us better or at least accept us for what and who we are. I enjoy the outdoors, animals, fast cars, and the need for speed, and good company. I am just as comfortable all dressed up in heels (usually 5 inch) as in jeans as getting grease under my nails. Coffee, a walk in the park. Just a place to get to know one another. If the company is good then the where and the what does not matter, just makes it more enjoyable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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