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Bessy, 47

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About Me

My profile is real....I'm a real girl. Feisty, joyful, independent but soft, attentive, and enjoy the protection of a strong man (preferably mentally strong first then the rest follows.)I'm adventurous, love to make people laugh, remarkably giving and in touch with other's needs, spontaneous, slow to anger and quick to forgive. I love treasure hunting, concerts, comedy clubs, and running. I'm not an athlete (*I am curvy....there is no entry for that here).; the Route 66 this fall, and then the Oilman next spring. I like to be around people that invest time and energy into feeling good and being healthy. Love...love music and listen to it everyday.... I have a heart for hurting people and animals. I think that extremism is the reason there is so much turmoil in the world today. I want less government, more punishments for people who hurt other people and more opportunities for everyone who is willing to work hard. I dig deep conversations and have lots of room to learn and grow...and last but not least I love my coffee in the morning!I'm hoping to meet my best friend for companionship and new adventures. I love to do home improvement projects, yard work, road trips, even the occasional office function. It would be fun to have my partner join me on one of my business trips or just fix up the front porch real scary for the trick-or-treaters at Halloween. Even grocery shopping can be fun with the right person! (I really like a tall man....like to be able to wear heals sometimes!) dinner and conversation

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ryana

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I’m an independent, successful woman. I work really hard and make decisions all day, so when I go home I just want to relax … good music, a hot bath, and a glass of wine will do the trick. A strong man, dinner with flirty conversation, and cuddling on the sofa would be even better. Chivalry, intelligence, strength and power, along with confidence and the appropriate level of arrogance (if there’s such a thing) are all very, very sexy to me. James Spader’ I’m looking for someone with a heart, who enjoys life, makes me laugh, and finds me desirable. I am honest, faithful, positive, and supportive so I would hope for the same. White collar or blue collar doesn’t really matter. What you do or how much $ you make are not as important as the qualities previously mentioned. I was married for 21 years, so I wouldn’t say I’m looking for a long-term relationship, but who knows what could happen if the chemistry is there. I do want a partner, a friend, and a lover. Someone to enjoy life with, laugh with, and play with. My kids ***are grown and out of the house so someone with small / young children need not respond. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely adore children, and would expect you to have them come first in your life; however, at this time in my life, I would prefer someone with older children.I’ve been told I command a presence when I enter a room regardless of the situation which is odd to me because I think I can be rather shy til I get to know you. I view myself as being easy to please … sitting at home or going out … I’m fine either way.Working out is important to me because it helps me unwind, but I’m not obsessed with it (any more). I do workout at home daily and try and get to the gym at least 3 days a week. I tell everyone I workout so I can eat candy bars and cookies every day (and I do). I love to eat out, but I also enjoy cooking (as long as it’s not expected). I eat just about anything, but I would have to say I could eat a good burger off the grill or Mexican (with some heat) any day of the week.I love new experiences. I enjoy tailgating and Colts football, but find Friday night high school games or College ball can be just as fun. Boating and the beach make me smile. Hunting and fishing are not my thing so don’t ask me to participate … you can enjoy those hobbies with your buddies. I don’t Golf, but I sure like to drive the cart. Cycling, home repair, restoration, decorating projects, and of course shopping are more my thing. Quite honestly, I like to have someone in my life and enjoy activities most when I'm sharing them with someone I care about regardless of what it might be. I’m not a jealous person ... never have been … which has bothered some men. Life’s too short to worry about things you can’t control.Favorite Things: Cycling, anything on or around water, a child’s laughter, trips with family or friends, local events, concerts, working on my house, Bonefish’s Bang-Bang Shrimp and a glass of wine, entertaining (your place or mine), anything to do with my kids (of course), cookies (I just can’t live without them). I have to admit, I do like my TV … just about anything reality, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, American Horror Story, Walking Dead, anything on HBO (True Blood, Boardwalk). Netflix and my DVR are a must. Music – female singer songwriters, alternative, county. Not a big fan of classic rock … been there, heard it enough. I do love me some Kid Rock! My current favorite song is Queen Bee by Lorde.For Fun: Cookouts, a backyard fire with adult beverages and great friends, festivals, concerts, movies, cycling, anything with familyLast Read: A book is not the first thing I grab when I have spare time so I would say a user manual for some power tool or the back of a cereal box.Favorite Hot Spots: I don't really have a favorite, I can enjoy myself pretty much any place, but Some bars and clubs (age appropriate), tailgating downtown and a Colts game are great, Rick’s Boatyard on a early summer evening, Café… pizza on your couch while watching a movie could be a really “Hot Spot”. A drink in a quiet, public place that is conducive to conversation. If the chemistry is right, we'll go from there.

  • Lala

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Down-to-earth,spontaneous and easy-going woman seeking a nice, normal guy with a great sense of humour. I have two wonderful kids and a good full-time job that keeps me very busy.I love travelling and exploring different cultures and areas of the world.. I'm initially interested in friendship but would ultimately like to find that one great guy to one day grow old with! Coffee, walk on the beach, glass of wine

  • Elidia

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm still looking for love, that one man that I cannot live without. I am a big beautiful woman and confident in who I am. I'm looking for a partner in life. I have a strong preference for ethnic men. I have one adult daughter who is a big part of my life. I work long hours and need a little fun in my life. I love music and theatre and I've made it a priority to do more travelling. I'm fun loving and easy going, spontaneous and a little eccentric at times Love to meet new people and learn about other cultures. In need of some adventure. A first date is a great opportunity to have conversation and see if there is a spark. I like a man who can come up with a plan for a first date.

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