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Lela, 46

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About Me

Single White Female, Seeking Single White Male, Please. I am single mom of one very smart independent teenager. I live in medium size nice house immaculately kept (OK I just sold the house in the market to buy, nothing has struck my fancy just quite yet. I am honest,with a dry sense of humor, I like to go out and have dinner on weekends, I like a few drinks. I enjoy a fire outside. I work very hard at a job I love. Don't need a partner but would really like to have one.. I love life, I am grateful I am here and give thanks, every day. I love my god ,. and enjoy my life. I am affectionate, financially independent, need an equal,(not lookin for support). Just a middle class kinda a woman. Lookin for a great guy!. 3 words I live by," PERSPECTIVE"-" PERSEVERANCE", & "; !!!!!What I find" attractive or desirable in a MAN"Confident, but not arrogantHonest and reliable (don't want to worry about my purse while we have dinner)Reasonably attractive (not Lookin For Brad Pitt but maybe Sean Connery)Can dress in current fashion (nothing fancy)Love a beard or Go-TGainfully employeedI Dont mind a few extra pounds (nothing sloppy)A bike would be great (love to ride)At least one GOOD car (doesnt mean BMW, LOL)I love pick-up Trucks !Enjoys physical touch and can return it.Enjoys intimacy,and doesnt need to be taught how.Ok I dont always catch the biggest fish, but happy if I catch one! ( Yes I do like to fish)I think Distance can become a problem, not too far away! If your Pics are not current,is that fair or honest? A picture doesnt always tell a thousand words of truth,learned that one the hard way.Coffee date or a walk somewhere public would be nice,(no outta the way forest preserves,too funny.lol)If your'e so called Ex-wife lives in your basement there is no first date. If you live in a bar or in a car,move on.If you live in your mothers basement or garage still,move on(exception- your mom is sick and u r taking care of her).Must be able to tolerate country music,LOL. need not apply.NSF ( not so funny ) If you are wanted by the IRS or have a warrant for any reason need not apply LOL. !!! May God guide your life with good choices!!!!Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Katharyn

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a down to earth person who does her best to be kind and respectful of others. I live a pretty simple life without the drama and chaos so many others seem to deal with.I have been a single mom to a 16 yr. old girl(some drama there, lol ) for 15 of those years. Been out of the dating scene for a long time but thought maybe time to try again. I enjoy the simple things in life like a day at the beach ,love to spend time with my horse riding or just hanging out with him. I appreciate nature and being outdoors. A long walk with my dog in the early morning listening to the birds and taking it all in is how I start every day. It would be nice to meet someone that I could do the usual stuff with like a movie or out to eat or hang out with and share all the day to day things with. I am an independent person who likes to be busy and get things done. I enjoy my work and almost always look forward to my day ahead. I would like to meet someone who shares some of the same views as me.Someone who is happy with their life with minimal baggage and drama. Someone who likes to laugh and would make me laugh too! Things I am not or not into: drinking ,partying, and/or doing drugs. I am not a materialistic person. I don't care about jewelry,phones,cars etc. I consider myself to be an honest, good person who has morals, values and respect for others. Basically I am someone who appreciates the truly good things in life and feel lucky and grateful to have the life I have. Something simple and casual like meeting for a drink or coffee..

  • Coralie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hi and thanks for taking the first glance a little farther! I guess you think I'm cute or something and that is just perfect! I am more than cute though. I am fun-loving but not dangerous, adventurous but not reckless! I am romantic and spontaneous yet realistic and unassuming. When I meet someone that peaks my interest I tend to get caught up in the fairly tale of true love and longing and will usually behave as is customary for an Aries Woman. I grab the bull by the horns and pull him close! I am playful and flirty and will keep you laughing if not anything else! I am comfortable in my own skin and I work hard to keep it that way. I am health conscious but not obsessive! A few extra pounds are comfy and cuddly and that is fine. I have a few extra even though I am fit. It comes with life. We need to accept it and love ourselves anyway! I do! I love to go and do just about anything except bake on a beach. i will explore the beach...jog along the shore line and totally enjoy a cool drink during our moon lit ride. I am happier in and around trees, beautiful green landscape...mountains with snow....Gorgeous! I would love to go on a real hike! I never have but I believe I am fit enough to do it! I love to get dirty and sweaty and will tackle any job around the house. I also enjoy glam and glitz but don't have to travel a long way to find it! You can take me anywhere and expect to have a great time. I am not pretentious rather so much the opposite. If you decide that you are interested and you want me to be interested than try to come up with a unique introduction? Don't say ......Hi Beautiful.... In let's say 2 lines......make me say....What.What? I think I want to hear his voice? I would like a first date to be intimate enough that we can get close in conversation. I would like it to include a good bottle of red wine or something frosty but coffee or ice cream would work as well. I am that kind of a girl. I am good company. We would enjoy ourselves anywhere we went. Our first date would most definitely have to include a good kiss. I will let you know that it is OK and that I am interested. Being affectionate is very important to me. I am extremely playful so I will have a hard time hiding my interest in public. Holding hands and cuddling is a necessity. I need to feel that we can snuggle and that I am safe in your embrace.

  • Fumiko

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I enjoy fine dinning, theater, dancing and romance!I love to traveling learning about culture, as well as taking in the points of interest. I play sports, Skating, Tennis,Golf,Horses,Swimming,Softball,and more.......I am looking for My Mister right... A man who knows how to treat his lady! The beach is my weakness,Sailing or walking hand in hand watching the sunset,or a nice cool night in front of the fireplace!I am looking for a man who enjoys black tie or relaxing at home!I am looking for a man who is Honest sincere and loving! If you contact me, NO PLAYERS or GAMES PLEASE ! I am a real Lady!I DO NOT SHARE PHOTOS !OR A PIN UP FOR PERVERTS ! Nor do i want a man that DOESN'T WISH TO MEET IN REAL ! I am NOT Seeking a PEN PAL! A nice Dinner and maybe dancing then watch the stars together!

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