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Lela, 46

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About Me

Single White Female, Seeking Single White Male, Please. I am single mom of one very smart independent teenager. I live in medium size nice house immaculately kept (OK I just sold the house in the market to buy, nothing has struck my fancy just quite yet. I am honest,with a dry sense of humor, I like to go out and have dinner on weekends, I like a few drinks. I enjoy a fire outside. I work very hard at a job I love. Don't need a partner but would really like to have one.. I love life, I am grateful I am here and give thanks, every day. I love my god ,. and enjoy my life. I am affectionate, financially independent, need an equal,(not lookin for support). Just a middle class kinda a woman. Lookin for a great guy!. 3 words I live by," PERSPECTIVE"-" PERSEVERANCE", & "; !!!!!What I find" attractive or desirable in a MAN"Confident, but not arrogantHonest and reliable (don't want to worry about my purse while we have dinner)Reasonably attractive (not Lookin For Brad Pitt but maybe Sean Connery)Can dress in current fashion (nothing fancy)Love a beard or Go-TGainfully employeedI Dont mind a few extra pounds (nothing sloppy)A bike would be great (love to ride)At least one GOOD car (doesnt mean BMW, LOL)I love pick-up Trucks !Enjoys physical touch and can return it.Enjoys intimacy,and doesnt need to be taught how.Ok I dont always catch the biggest fish, but happy if I catch one! ( Yes I do like to fish)I think Distance can become a problem, not too far away! If your Pics are not current,is that fair or honest? A picture doesnt always tell a thousand words of truth,learned that one the hard way.Coffee date or a walk somewhere public would be nice,(no outta the way forest preserves,too funny.lol)If your'e so called Ex-wife lives in your basement there is no first date. If you live in a bar or in a car,move on.If you live in your mothers basement or garage still,move on(exception- your mom is sick and u r taking care of her).Must be able to tolerate country music,LOL. need not apply.NSF ( not so funny ) If you are wanted by the IRS or have a warrant for any reason need not apply LOL. !!! May God guide your life with good choices!!!!Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm looking for an equal partner, travel companion, and someone to share and have fun with. I am independant, confident and I love to laugh. I do have opinions, but am open minded, flexible and enjoy spending time with people who are optimistic about life. I have never been married, but I was in a long term relationship. I love children, but I am not interested in having any children at this age.I am looking for a man with whom I have common interests, but who accepts that we will also have separate interests. I like to try new things and am looking for someone who will challenge me and himself to learn and grow. I enjoy cooking, reading, exercising and staying healthy. For leisure I love trying new restaurants, movies, festivals, motorcyles rides, camping, boating and socializing with friends. I'm not a big sports fan, but I am willing to go to games. I can always keep myself busy when a man wants to enjoy quality times with his friends. After some initial communication, I would be most interested in meeting for coffee or a drink to see if there is chemistry and mutual interests. I am not looking for "hook ups" and I don't enjoy spending a lot of time on the computer when I get home from work. Meet for coffee or a drink to start and see if there is chemistry. I think it's only fair to go dutch when meeting for the first time.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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  • Sharika

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    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am looking for a true soulmate. I don't want games. I want an honest guy who is true to himself and to me - and I will be true to him. Please mean what you say. I am the mother to 2 kids - an 18 year old daughter and 6 year old son. My son is with me 100%. If you aren't ok with children - I am sorry I am not the one for you - and if you think you might be ok with children - I am still not the one for you - you need to know that if you want to be with me you will be a part if my son's life also. That doesn't mean I want you to be his dad. I can find time for the two of us also. I am a very caring straight forward person. And guys - if you aren't really interested in someone - don't click "meet me" and just be honest and say your not interested.If your still interested - send me a message. Have a great day!

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