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Lela, 46

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About Me

Single White Female, Seeking Single White Male, Please. I am single mom of one very smart independent teenager. I live in medium size nice house immaculately kept (OK I just sold the house in the market to buy, nothing has struck my fancy just quite yet. I am honest,with a dry sense of humor, I like to go out and have dinner on weekends, I like a few drinks. I enjoy a fire outside. I work very hard at a job I love. Don't need a partner but would really like to have one.. I love life, I am grateful I am here and give thanks, every day. I love my god ,. and enjoy my life. I am affectionate, financially independent, need an equal,(not lookin for support). Just a middle class kinda a woman. Lookin for a great guy!. 3 words I live by," PERSPECTIVE"-" PERSEVERANCE", & "; !!!!!What I find" attractive or desirable in a MAN"Confident, but not arrogantHonest and reliable (don't want to worry about my purse while we have dinner)Reasonably attractive (not Lookin For Brad Pitt but maybe Sean Connery)Can dress in current fashion (nothing fancy)Love a beard or Go-TGainfully employeedI Dont mind a few extra pounds (nothing sloppy)A bike would be great (love to ride)At least one GOOD car (doesnt mean BMW, LOL)I love pick-up Trucks !Enjoys physical touch and can return it.Enjoys intimacy,and doesnt need to be taught how.Ok I dont always catch the biggest fish, but happy if I catch one! ( Yes I do like to fish)I think Distance can become a problem, not too far away! If your Pics are not current,is that fair or honest? A picture doesnt always tell a thousand words of truth,learned that one the hard way.Coffee date or a walk somewhere public would be nice,(no outta the way forest preserves,too funny.lol)If your'e so called Ex-wife lives in your basement there is no first date. If you live in a bar or in a car,move on.If you live in your mothers basement or garage still,move on(exception- your mom is sick and u r taking care of her).Must be able to tolerate country music,LOL. need not apply.NSF ( not so funny ) If you are wanted by the IRS or have a warrant for any reason need not apply LOL. !!! May God guide your life with good choices!!!!Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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  • Karol

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I love spending time outdoors, cooking and baking, reading, camping and hiking. I love football, ice hockey, pros and college, basketball, college sports, yard work and anything outdoors. Country music is my favorite but I grew up with rock. I'm a bit of a nerd. I love life, I live my life one day at a time. I love to have fun. I like being goofy. I am usually quite happy and always tend to see the glass half full. I love to laugh and make those around me happy. I love my job and my kids. My kids are almost on there own. A picture is a nice ice breaker. I have pics, you should too. Say hello, you never know. I want a romance with my best friend, someone to be silly with, laugh with and yes maybe even cry with. ***If you judge a book by it's cover, you limit the possibilities and relationships with someone that could one day be willing to love, support, & boost you. The outside doesn't define us, some things we have no control over. We are all beautiful unique individuals. What defines who we really are and inspires others is our personality, hard work, positive behavior, compassion and love. Are there any real gentleman left that want to take the time to get to know someone? The first date should be easy with no pressure. Good food, a walk then we can see.

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