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I'm passionate, sensitive, and affectionate. I want to meet a strong man. One who is not intimated by a strong woman. Someone who can grab my hand, and isn't afraid of feeling as they never want to let it go. Someone who although knows I can hold my own, will still be my protector. They would be my best friend, my lover, my mentor, and my better half. I have no hidden agenda. I don't need to do the gold digger thing. I don't need a daddy for my kids. My search is pure and simple. I'm sassy, shy, sexy, sweet and a bit sarcastic and I will admit along with my sense of humor, this mix sometimes gets me in trouble. But I promise, it's all done in fun. I'm a good woman. Kind hearted, and honest. . I enjoy nice evenings out dressed in a little black dress, or hanging in my blue jeans and boots for bike nights.My life consists of three pretty awesome kids. They each have their own personalities, and it makes life interesting to say the least. I have two sons, 21 and 15 and a daughter 18. They make my world go round, however they've created their own social life and I find myself alone more often than not. I've had the same career for almost 20 years. I love what I do. I can say there's really never a dull moment. It keeps me thinking, learning, and striving for more. It's crazy at times, but it's been very rewarding.My hobbies consist of working out, landscaping, housework, painting, reading, writing, music, outdoor concerts, canoeing, water sports and so much more. I go to the gym ***days a week so I do prefer someone that is fit, and enjoys working out. I'm very seldom a couch potato. I like to be busy, maybe adult ADHD, but I do know when it's time to chill. I do prefer to date someone with similar interest, but just different enough to keep things interesting. I do ride a motorcycle, Harley Fatboy. If you ride too, awesome. I still love being a passenger too. I do seek someone who is real. Someone that, simply put; can take my breath away with a touch of his hand, and in turn, someone that simply adores me for the person I am . What gets my attention; someone with a sense of humor( A MUST) . Open minded, mature, respectful, honest and sincere. I enjoy someone who's sexy, fit, and playful and when I'm with him, it just feels right. I prefer someone who can go from a serious conversation, to laughter and playing the next. Life is too short to not laugh and smile daily! I truly believe in quality of time spent together, not quantity.Over the years, I've met everyone from Shrek to Bozo the Clown.....Also, I should add I'm not looking for any one night stands nor anything long distance. I love spur of the moment things, where you just run out to grab a bite to eat together because time is tight. Can't really do that with someone hours away.Best wishes to all! Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kati

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am fun, outgoing and love to meet new people. Love just about any kind of music, and like listening to live bands. Enjoy spending time with family and friends and my faith is important to me. I like keeping fit and workout about 4 times a week. Surprise Me!

  • Domitila

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Changing my profile as a final effort before signing off the site. I KNOW this is a practical option as we're all very busy and it's just tough getting opportunities to meet people. You see someone at the gas station or the grocery store and you WANT to say HI but you miss your chance. Unlike the small town where I grew up, you don't get a second chance as you may never see that person again - even though they live minutes away.So here goes...I am fit and active and, around that 50 mark, proud that I'm able to keep up with the 20-somethings I teach and train (college courses and baseball players). I have a business about which I'm passionate, I have cool related jobs with media, presenting and training. I have one amazing 8-yr old with a simple set up and none of the complications that can often go with that. I enjoy occasional excursions out but do prefer dinners and wine with friends, exploring and being active. I'm even half-way handy...mostly out of necessity but I have to say it's incredibly satisfying to fix stuff (even if it's simple) and figure out home maintenance. And yes, like so many of us here...I have a great family and amazing friends. I'm fine and independent on my own but am looking for that person to connect and share with.So if I am the girl next door, small town roots, big city balance, active, intelligent, I golf and I even like to cook, clean and bake...why is being here so depressing? I get some interesting *** don't follow up and then far too many keeners who consider themselves "active"-yr old photo is a good idea. I mean...wouldn't you RATHER have someone say you're better looking than your picture rather than gasping in shock at your first meeting?If you are positive and intelligent (doesn't always mean a degree either!), active and athletic (NOT meaning compulsive and perfect as it really should be fun), have integrity and cherish character but don't take yourself too seriously...oh...and if you have a recent photo and think we have common ground and appeal...I'd love to hear from you.If you like camping (sorry, not so keen if that's your passion...willing to try but not hanging out at Mountain Co-op looking for sales on winter camping gear), monster truck races (might be fun on occasion but not a hobby) and watching sports over being active...pass...neither one of us truly needs one more coffee date that seems to be THE longest hour of your life!Good luck to all fishing! Firsts dates are tough enough as it is. I picture something simple like a coffee or a drink. As an active option, perhaps hitting the driving range or a quick skate. I think that any social situation is going to give you an indication of whether you want to get to know more.P.S.need to update and clarify...connecting can be challenging. I am not looking for endless *** PLEASE understand that first contact can be a challenge as you figure out someone else's schedule. I'm not by a phone much during the day and don't live by my mobile so need some patience for that first bit but I am there and look forward to meeting you!ALSO...this is nerve-wracking for me! I'm used to helping others and that's my space and comfort zone. Calling you back may take some courage building as it feels like I'm back at a grade 8 dance and being turned down to dance by the cute guy! Anyone else feel like that...if they're honest? If not, way to go. I present for a living, not scares by stage, camera or audience...but calling you back DOES make me nervous!

  • Lourie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi! I'm now just about done with the hard work and very ready to meet the right guy. I'm a divorced mom with two kids who live with me, so you must be okay with that. I'm looking for someone to explore this area with. There are so many wonderful things to do around here-- As a recovered radio morning show personality, I still love to make people laugh. I spent 14 years in radio so I'm definitely not shy. I'm intelligent and well adjusted, and a college education is important to me. I'm not a sports nut, but I do try to keep myself thin and in shape. I love a guy with a great sense of humor, and who loves to also discuss more meaningful topics, and most of all who loves to explore new things and places. Everyone seems to have such a different point of view on this one...I prefer lunch, so you can actually sit down and talk, but some people aren't comfortable with that, so coffee, drinks, a walk ...we'll know in the first 2 minutes anyway, right? At least that's whay they say!

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