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Changing my profile as a final effort before signing off the site. I KNOW this is a practical option as we're all very busy and it's just tough getting opportunities to meet people. You see someone at the gas station or the grocery store and you WANT to say HI but you miss your chance. Unlike the small town where I grew up, you don't get a second chance as you may never see that person again - even though they live minutes away.So here goes...I am fit and active and, around that 50 mark, proud that I'm able to keep up with the 20-somethings I teach and train (college courses and baseball players). I have a business about which I'm passionate, I have cool related jobs with media, presenting and training. I have one amazing 8-yr old with a simple set up and none of the complications that can often go with that. I enjoy occasional excursions out but do prefer dinners and wine with friends, exploring and being active. I'm even half-way handy...mostly out of necessity but I have to say it's incredibly satisfying to fix stuff (even if it's simple) and figure out home maintenance. And yes, like so many of us here...I have a great family and amazing friends. I'm fine and independent on my own but am looking for that person to connect and share with.So if I am the girl next door, small town roots, big city balance, active, intelligent, I golf and I even like to cook, clean and bake...why is being here so depressing? I get some interesting *** don't follow up and then far too many keeners who consider themselves "active"-yr old photo is a good idea. I mean...wouldn't you RATHER have someone say you're better looking than your picture rather than gasping in shock at your first meeting?If you are positive and intelligent (doesn't always mean a degree either!), active and athletic (NOT meaning compulsive and perfect as it really should be fun), have integrity and cherish character but don't take yourself too seriously...oh...and if you have a recent photo and think we have common ground and appeal...I'd love to hear from you.If you like camping (sorry, not so keen if that's your passion...willing to try but not hanging out at Mountain Co-op looking for sales on winter camping gear), monster truck races (might be fun on occasion but not a hobby) and watching sports over being active...pass...neither one of us truly needs one more coffee date that seems to be THE longest hour of your life!Good luck to all fishing! Firsts dates are tough enough as it is. I picture something simple like a coffee or a drink. As an active option, perhaps hitting the driving range or a quick skate. I think that any social situation is going to give you an indication of whether you want to get to know more.P.S.need to update and clarify...connecting can be challenging. I am not looking for endless *** PLEASE understand that first contact can be a challenge as you figure out someone else's schedule. I'm not by a phone much during the day and don't live by my mobile so need some patience for that first bit but I am there and look forward to meeting you!ALSO...this is nerve-wracking for me! I'm used to helping others and that's my space and comfort zone. Calling you back may take some courage building as it feels like I'm back at a grade 8 dance and being turned down to dance by the cute guy! Anyone else feel like that...if they're honest? If not, way to go. I present for a living, not scares by stage, camera or audience...but calling you back DOES make me nervous!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Blythe

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am very honest, loving, devout, organized and dependable. i am content with what I have, I am blessed with everything a person can want. They don't make women like me anymore so I deserve the best. I have spoiled my other half and its time for someone to spoil me :) Interested in someone who is Honest and faithful, likes to wake the same time i do so we can drink coffee 2 gether, goes 2 bed the same time so we can snuggle before bed. Someone who wants to be the provider of our home and i his helpmate. Let me explain ;)... I'm a hard worker, got my crap together matter a fact, but dang it.. Somehow men think I suppose to be the sole provider. I'm ready to have someone that is willing to do their part... I guess i tend to spoil my guy, and unfortunatly he tends to take advantage of it.I won't be interested in you if u have a belly that hangs below your pants or looks like you've swallowed a basketball, don't like smokers, or someone who has to drink all the time. My tongue isnt going in a mouth that has ugly rotten teeth. I certainly don't like someone who likes to go bar hopping, but wouldn't mind showing you what I got on the dance floor once or twice. Just simply aren't attracted to anyone outside my race, even if your Darius Rucker. Oh I don't like cowboy hats either. So no offense but if your one of these people in this paragraph it's a good sign i won't be interested. To be honest... I can be picky. I don't know where to begin to find my soul mate. I don't mean to be judgmental but I have got to be attracted to you and chemistry has hot to fly.. I'm a diamond in the ruff and every guy I've dated or married says the same! :) not many people can say their ex talks good about them.. I am a classy woman with morales and values. I live life to the fullest but within my means. I'm sparky and spontaneous. Many people talk the talk, but they don't walk the walk. They say what you want to hear. Be true to yourself and others.. Because the true you will always come out. So if i am the complete package... why am i single? because i will cut you loose if you lie, hide things from me, cheat, or use me. Ive been hurt, let down, lied to, and have been handed empty promises but I won't let that define who I am. I've just gotten wiser. I'm not giving up Gods got the perfect man out there for me! A quiet dinner, or coffee so that we can get to know each other.

  • Altha

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love to laugh and have a great time, so a perfect first date would have to include a LOT of laughing! Chemistry is also absolutely imperative! Without that initial spark, you're spending too much time forcing something that probably isn't meant to be. Life should be all about having fun and realizing suddenly that your Best Friend IS your match. And so what if we're opposites? Doesn't that just mean that you have a lot of new things to teach me and I will have new things to experience? That sounds like a great challenge and the start of wonderful friendship and potential relationship. This is the most important thing I've ever tried accomplishing, and just wouldn't want to be resented in any way. That doesn't mean that I won't find the time for the right person, and I just know you're out there. And please, if you have no photo, don't waste your time contacting me; no photo indicates to me you're married or into something shady that I want no part of. It has nothing to do with physical looks to me, (although that could be a bonus) but I don't want to find out you're on America's Most Wanted either, I'll be the first to turn your a$$ in and collect the reward. NO smokers, not even "trying to quit", no kidding.Also, it's great to love your mother, but not still be living with her. Unless she needs medical care, that's just kinda creepy :P“Live life fully while you're here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You're going to anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it. Don't try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.” - Hopefully that conversation is intelligent, and/or full of smiling at one another. However, I'm open to doing something outdoors, such as kayaking or taking a beautiful hike, and if you know of any great places to zip line, count me in!

  • Vanna

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a pretty low-key, easy to please kind of person who enjoys life's simple pleasures; a good book, a new recipe, a phone call from a friend, snail mail, beaches, bonfires, being on the lake, spending time with family and friends, and listening to live music. My friends would describe me as witty, generous, sassy, spontaneous, loving, and resilient. And since sarcasm tends to run in the family, I've always appreciated a good *** I look for in a guy is someone who has outstanding character, a great sense of humor, someone who takes care of himself, both physically and emotionally, and someone who enjoys going to new places and trying new things. I believe a good, solid friendship has to be the basis for any relationship, and in order to build that relationship, there has to be curiosity, wonderment, and a spark to *** flame. I'm not the type who flits from one guy to another seeking only a physical relationship. I'm looking for my best friend; someone who allows me to be myself, who pushes me to become a better person, and who will be there for the fun times and for those those times that cause life's greatest challenges.Like most people, I really enjoy traveling, and learning about other people's cultures and customs...or so it seemed; just ask Traci! By far, I loved Spain the most....the Mediterranean coast is absolutely gorgeous, and the architecture and antiquity is outstanding. I really need to dust off my passport and make a concerted effort to leave work behind for a week and set sail for a new destination.I live a healthy lifestyle in terms of diet and exercise, but I"m not a crazed fanatic about either. I'm fortunate that good genetics has allowed me to get by on 3 workouts a week, and I really enjoy swimming, pilates, yoga, walking, and dancing. Hobbies include cooking, baking, gardening, playing Scrabble, reading, and listening to live music...especially the blues. I"m not a big TV watcher, but if I do, I prefer to be educated along the way...NatGeo, the History Channel, Discovery, TLC, HGTV etc. You'll never catch me watching reality TV....nope, never! If you'd like to know more, please shoot me a message!

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