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Lavon, 49

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About Me

Integrity and honesty are values I appreciate dearly. Single in my forties had not been part of the plan, but one learns to adjust. And I’ve adjusted pretty well. This is my second time around on this site, I joined when my marriage ended. It helped me ease back into the dating world & even gained a couple of new friends. Then I left meetville for a year and a half. With the New Year, I decided to try this one more time. About me- I am very passionate about life. I still believe in love and romance. I love sharing the good in my life, even if that's just quality time or a home cooked meal, with my loved ones. I enjoy being helpful when I can (even overly helpful at times) and do my best to always lend the ear or shoulder when needed. I love being outside. I grew up on the coast so I especially love beaches. I love to cook and am quite talented at it. I am very independent, always have been. I have my own home in the woods that I had built over 16 years ago. I am one of the nicest people you will ever meet & strive to see the good in everyone. I am truly Southern, raised by my Grandmother, with very strong values and beliefs. I have a very tight group of friends and have a fairly active social life. I am not bored, not lonely, not a booty call and not looking to be rescued. I do not have a problem meeting men, or being asked out on dates, I’m just so tired of the dating scene. I would just like to meet someone I can connect with, and that we will have mutual desire to learn about each other and build from there. I am looking for a relationship. I miss belonging to someone and them belonging to me. I am a hopeless romantic and I want it all. Love, laughter, trust, chemistry, passion and romance. **I do not usually respond to messages from profiles with only one picture or not recent pictures. And not pictures of your truck, cat, dog. etc. I wish you all the best of luck in your search for love."I think every man should learn the true definition of what romance is. It's how you stimulate her mind. It's through real conversation and showing her how original you are.Intelligence is sexy. It has nothing to do with sex." --MrNever Give Up A quiet drink or dinner somewhere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nisha

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm looking for a friend, lover, and partner in the many adventures that life brings. It would be so much more rewarding sharing my life experiences with someone, and learning about his experiences. Interested in a guy that can entertain me, and make me laugh. Love going to concerts, snuggling while watching a good movie, taking hikes or long drives, etc. Love discovering new bands, new music, people watching, etc. I also love staying at home cooking a nice dinner, and relaxing on the deck with a nice glass of wine. And in the fall I love watching my Ravens play! Yeah, Baby!! For the first date - I'm open to suggestions :) Special note- please include pics on your profiles :) "I may see ghosts"... but I don't want to date one ;)

  • Melissia

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Single, Christian Mom of 2 teenage boys. Like most on here, I really dislike having to describe myself. The easiest way to get to know me would be to follow me around for the week. I enjoy almost any sport whether it be watching it in person and/or participating. Depending on the season, I'll be yelling at the tv when a bad call has been made. I am an animal lover and have a little menagerie at home. I also enjoy camping, skiing, snowmobiling, hiking and pretty much anything outdoors. I love the water and being out on a boat. I'm a low maintenance kind of girl. I clean up pretty well and don't mind getting my hands dirty. Oh and by the way...I do have one of those 'little black dresses' and am just waiting patiently for that right guy to come along so I can put the dang thing on. I am all about giving back. I still haven't decided which I enjoy more; the shore or the mountains. I enjoy almost all types of food and love trying new restaurants as well as hitting the good ol ones. I'm kind of a beer snob and enjoy a nice glass of wine. I've determined that anything can be fun with the right company. I'm definitely more of an extrovert and not exactly shy, lol. Looking for a guy that has a good sense of humor and can make me laugh, enjoys sports, is romantic and maybe has a little bit of a wild side, a guy with values/good morals, a guy thats interested in a healthy relationship and won't bolt at the first sign of problems and lastly a guy that will accept me right where I am. My preference is a taller man(5'10)Caucasian..and someone that leans more to the slender or athletic side with a youthful appearance and is a non-smoker. Also if you're not a Christian please move on. Unless your local before you *** interest in me please use Mapquest so you know if there is a distance involved. Someone shared this with me recently and although I've never seen Duck Dynasty before this clip speaks *** Well I know what I wouldn't do on a first date and that would be go to a movie. As to what I would prefer to do something that would allow me to get to know you better like having a cup of hot chocolate and taking a walk in a park.

  • Kasandra

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I want a relationship, but I'm going to date for now until I meet someone that I really click with. I'm not a serial dater by any means, but I'm tired of rushing into an exclusive relationship, only to realize 6 months later that we don't want the same things & then I have to start all over again. Why is everyone trying to rush love? It has to happen, you can't force it. I only want to be sure there is really something there if I'm going to be exclusive. What you should know about me, well, I'm pretty easy going with a little OCD mixed in. Shy till I get to know someone (then, just try to shut me up...LOL!)I love dogs & He keeps me sane when life gets crazy. I like cats but fortunately, I'm allergic. I'm a big fan of horror movies & crime shows like Criminal Minds, NCIS, Law & Order & CSI. Historical documentaries, romantic comedies, action adventure. Not big on chick flicks, tho' I do have a couple of fav's. I'm a Giants & Yankees fan (more into football than baseball). I drive a jeep & live in a small condo. I have worked at the same job in the aerospace industry for the past 25yrs & I really love my job. I'm kind of a homebody, but I do like going out to see a band, going dancing. Love visiting small towns with little shops & out of the way restaurants. I like the beach, but more early morning or early evening than when they're packed with people. I get bored just laying in the sun. I'm more of a beach comber than a sun worshiper. But I do love being near the ocean. Nature is amazing! Off the beaten path is much more interesting than the usual places. Gotta experience different thing in life or you just haven't lived. I like all kinds of music from today's pop, to 70's & 80's, raggae, blues, classic rock & even some metal (Disturbed, Godsmack & Metallica). Not a big fan of Jazz, Rap or Classical. Outdoor concerts are a lot of fun.I just recently joined Weight Watchers & have already lost 23 lbs. I'm really enjoying re-aquainting myself with my smaller clothes. It's a life plan & I'm not going back to my old body ever again. I like my healthy body far too much. A work in progress. I've also started exercising, both cardio & light weight training. I love Halloween & dressing in costumes, wigs & crazy makeup. I can be anything or anyone I want to be at Halloween. (I like goth, but Halloween is the only time I can get away with it...LOL!)I don't smoke or do drugs (not even weed) & I don't date anyone who does.(not even weed) I drink occasionally & don't like being around people who drink a lot. It's not my style. I don't need alcohol to have a good time. I'd rather feel good the next morning! I have 3 tattoos, & used to ride a Harley, but had to sell it when the recession started & we lost our overtime. I do miss it, but I'm not rushing to buy a new one. Maybe someday. I wouldn't mind riding on the back tho'. I'm not good with small kids, so if you have kids younger high school age, I probably won't answer you. Sorry, but I know what I'm looking for. Have to be honest. Many men my age have young kids, so I don't want to waste anyone's time. I don't expect a man to drop everything for me & expect the same in return. Everyone needs their own time with family & friends. I also don't live with my phone glued to my ear & I'm not a textaholic, tho' it is a fun way to communicate. It can't take the place of a good old fashion face to face conversation, tho'. I don't keep track of someone I'm dating & I expect the same consideration. We are all adults & if you're the jealous type, I'm not the one for you. Ok, I'm rambling now, if you're interested, drop me a note & we'll see what happens.:) Well, first date isn't first meeting. First meeting should be something simple, coffee or a drink to see if you have anything in common & if there's a spark or compatibility. 1st date should be simple, nothing over the top. No going overboard to impress. Being yourself. A nice dinner in a quiet restaurant where you can talk & get to know each other. That way, you can see if there is something worth building on.

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