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Barbar, 49

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About Me

I have been very fortunate in my life to have a wonderful career, great friends and the opportunity to follow my dreams. I've been in love and shared great times with good people. I have a full life and a lot to be thankful for and would like to have someone to share it with. Small acts of kindness and thoughtfulness go a long way and I enjoy making other people happy. I am originally from NY. Born in Queens, moved to upstate NY to get out of the city and into the country.An ideal relationship is one where we both feel empowered and encouraged to be who we are and what we want to be. We can be the center of each other's world and still allow for freedom and independence. If this sounds like the relationship for you then reach out. Open to traditional and creative ideas.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marshall

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a contradiction of sorts,... a mutt. I am a soft, sensual, witty, intelligent woman who is creative as well as being practical whether at work or play.I am looking for a different kind of a man who thinks outside the box. I believe in holding hands, taking it slow. Someone who will open the door for me, and open my mind to new things and places. My cooking skills are a bit rusty but they are there, I enjoy cooking for myself but it just isn't the same as indulging in the art of making a yummy meal with someone accompanied by a delicious wine, and great conversation. Meeting in town for a quiet meal in a small restaurant after work is always a great way to unwind as well.I want to look across the room at a party speak the unspoken language that couples do when you can't wait to leave, and go make out in the car and steam up the windows.I want to be with a grownup who still posses the passion of a boy. I mostly want to find a partner in crime to share things with, and someone I can get to know one layer at a time, one date at a time. What can I say,... I want the whole ball of wax

  • Vilma

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am sassy and love life! I am an affectionate, intelligent, selfless, devoted, faithful, sensuous, kind, fun, honest to a fault, perceptive and the glass half-full woman. I am classy, playful and always a kid at heart. I hold elegance, grace and sophistication, self respect.. I am down-to-earth, focused, well grounded, sincere and loyal...looking for the same. I love quiet times at home as well as painting the town red. From cuddling on the couch, grilling, gardening or playing in the mud, to changing into evening attire and off to the city for a romantic night out on the town. I can also pull up my hair, slide on my jeans and off to a sporting event or watch a game at home...I love romance, flowers, surprises, an endless embrace, superb cuisine, fine wine, a good movie and especially great conversation. I desire friendship and intimacy, they are the foundation of an endless love. I seek a man that will love me, my (imperfections) perfectly as I will his. A man who symbolizes the "Oak Tree" - strength, stability and courage. Whose life's experiences taught him what truly matters at the end of the day...his unconditional love for his significant other, close friends and family. Life is too short and precious not to love and be loved.He must desire a lifetime of love and happiness. I am in search for a 100% committed relationship, built on open and honest communication, passion, laughter and genuine friendship, with a foundation of shared values and life goals. I look forward to meeting that man...the exception...who will be sensitive to my feelings as I will his and and to strive to be all that we can be personally, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. I am ready to set sail with my equal, my life's companion...*On a side note: I adore children, but unfortunately I was never blessed with any. Family members and friends often comment that I would have been an incredible Mother. With that said, I am extremely open to dating a man who is a Dad/Daddy! Meet for a beverage and determine if the elusive, mutual in-person attraction exists...the sky is the limit from there!

  • Samara

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I was on line about a year ago and when my subscription ran out I let it lapse. I figured I would go back out on my own. I have to admit it helped me meet people. As much as I plan to "get out there" it doesn't always work out. We all want to find the someone and it's hard so I guess the best plan is put more than one plan into action and see what happens. I’m optimistic that I’ll soon be seated across the table from my new guy as we begin the discovery process to see how compatible we are. My job, friends and family keep me busy, but there is definitely time for rest, relaxation and partaking in various activities with someone special. I am really active and enjoy the outdoors. In the winter i love to ski. When I'm in town I love NYC for the diversity. You can do anything from hanging out in one of the awesome parks to finding a casual bar/pub to listen to great music or watch the game to museums and theatre. Need i mention the restaurant options? Let’s see if we click. To know if we fit we will have to meet face to face. E-mailing and chatting are ice breakers, but we need to meet to see about chemistry. If you can be playful, enjoy life, laugh at yourself (and me when i deserve it), and have a great mind and an adventurous spirit, then you are a great catch. I appreciate humility, kindness and concern for others. I am hard working, healthy, honest, caring, dynamic and very dependable. I have a good life but I know it will be better when I find someone to share it with. Meet for drink and if it goes well continue the evening

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