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Kasandra, 49
United States, Idaho, Moscow

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About Me

I want a relationship, but I'm going to date for now until I meet someone that I really click with. I'm not a serial dater by any means, but I'm tired of rushing into an exclusive relationship, only to realize 6 months later that we don't want the same things & then I have to start all over again. Why is everyone trying to rush love? It has to happen, you can't force it. I only want to be sure there is really something there if I'm going to be exclusive. What you should know about me, well, I'm pretty easy going with a little OCD mixed in. Shy till I get to know someone (then, just try to shut me up...LOL!)I love dogs & He keeps me sane when life gets crazy. I like cats but fortunately, I'm allergic. I'm a big fan of horror movies & crime shows like Criminal Minds, NCIS, Law & Order & CSI. Historical documentaries, romantic comedies, action adventure. Not big on chick flicks, tho' I do have a couple of fav's. I'm a Giants & Yankees fan (more into football than baseball). I drive a jeep & live in a small condo. I have worked at the same job in the aerospace industry for the past 25yrs & I really love my job. I'm kind of a homebody, but I do like going out to see a band, going dancing. Love visiting small towns with little shops & out of the way restaurants. I like the beach, but more early morning or early evening than when they're packed with people. I get bored just laying in the sun. I'm more of a beach comber than a sun worshiper. But I do love being near the ocean. Nature is amazing! Off the beaten path is much more interesting than the usual places. Gotta experience different thing in life or you just haven't lived. I like all kinds of music from today's pop, to 70's & 80's, raggae, blues, classic rock & even some metal (Disturbed, Godsmack & Metallica). Not a big fan of Jazz, Rap or Classical. Outdoor concerts are a lot of fun.I just recently joined Weight Watchers & have already lost 23 lbs. I'm really enjoying re-aquainting myself with my smaller clothes. It's a life plan & I'm not going back to my old body ever again. I like my healthy body far too much. A work in progress. I've also started exercising, both cardio & light weight training. I love Halloween & dressing in costumes, wigs & crazy makeup. I can be anything or anyone I want to be at Halloween. (I like goth, but Halloween is the only time I can get away with it...LOL!)I don't smoke or do drugs (not even weed) & I don't date anyone who does.(not even weed) I drink occasionally & don't like being around people who drink a lot. It's not my style. I don't need alcohol to have a good time. I'd rather feel good the next morning! I have 3 tattoos, & used to ride a Harley, but had to sell it when the recession started & we lost our overtime. I do miss it, but I'm not rushing to buy a new one. Maybe someday. I wouldn't mind riding on the back tho'. I'm not good with small kids, so if you have kids younger high school age, I probably won't answer you. Sorry, but I know what I'm looking for. Have to be honest. Many men my age have young kids, so I don't want to waste anyone's time. I don't expect a man to drop everything for me & expect the same in return. Everyone needs their own time with family & friends. I also don't live with my phone glued to my ear & I'm not a textaholic, tho' it is a fun way to communicate. It can't take the place of a good old fashion face to face conversation, tho'. I don't keep track of someone I'm dating & I expect the same consideration. We are all adults & if you're the jealous type, I'm not the one for you. Ok, I'm rambling now, if you're interested, drop me a note & we'll see what happens.:) Well, first date isn't first meeting. First meeting should be something simple, coffee or a drink to see if you have anything in common & if there's a spark or compatibility. 1st date should be simple, nothing over the top. No going overboard to impress. Being yourself. A nice dinner in a quiet restaurant where you can talk & get to know each other. That way, you can see if there is something worth building on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Reggae Irish Mexican Middle Eastern Spanish Turkish War American Football Archery Basketball
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