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Gay, 50
United States, Idaho, Middleton

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I'll begin with a recently found quote that I truly identify with "There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the essence of beauty" Steve Maraboli....looking for my perfect imperfect man who agrees with S.M. I'm business professional, retired Law Enforcement, now working in a related field. I'm happy, healthy my career's set and my son's grown. I'm financially independent....In a really great place in my life....except I'm missing someone to share it with. I'm looking for a man who can be fun loving, playful, down to earth and confident in himself and who he is. Someone who's interested in friendship but open to the possibility of more...I'm down to earth, very affectionate, love to laugh and have fun...I find joy in the little things in life. Being intimate and physical touch are very important to me and seeking same in a man. A great sense of humor and quick wit are a huge plus for me too.I'm fairly extroverted and outgoing....No wallflower here. Passionate and sometimes a handful (depending on you may not be a bad thing) but definitely worth it if you have what it takes. Oh, and you'll never be bored around me and I'm totally addicting :) I've been out of the dating scene for many years (face palm :***and believe you can meet great people anywhere but thought I'd give this a try too....My Hair Stylist told me about Plenty Of Fish and said "Do it"!! So here I am "You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough" Cause that's how I roll! In reading profiles, I've noticed quite a few say they workout 6 to7 days a week, run triathlons and never watch TV....I would like to say that's not me and I'm OK with a man who likes to spend romantic evenings in cuddling, watching movies and ordering pizza every once in a while. This is a work in progress as am I. More to come.. PS: I never fit the stereotype of a female police officer some have, and still don't...Never felt like I had to give up my femininity to do the job, and as a matter of fact think it served me well during my time on. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised and maybe intrigued....How the hell did that transition happen?? a story for later.."..I want it to burn my lips and engulf my soul"...WooriI have a new friend here and we were giving each other feedback on our profiles...He said my profile may not interest a man who considers himself a protector or provider and it could be intimidating to others..I hope that isn't the case! I can see how it might be at first glance..but will say while I'm certainly independent, I'm 100% female and have my vulnerable side. I do need a man in that area and one who can stand up to me and put me in my place from time to time :P...and once you get to know me you'll know exactly how to do that. I can be feisty but keeps things exciting. .....Oh and Good Luck with that..lol I'm so joking around here! FYI, nothing personal but I'm not communicating with anyone who hasn't posted a pic of themselves. Not comfortable with that. I'm finding, at least for me, with the volume of people on this site I'm much more likely to respond to an *** especially if you added me to "Wants to meet you" section. Same for men who live out of state, please don't take it personally if I don't respond but I don't do long distant dating. There has to be an initial attraction for me (and I'm sure for you too) before taking the next step. Even though I just recently started dating It's pretty obvious, even with viewing pics, and maybe talking, you still have to meet in person to see if the chemistry's there. I'm just getting comfortable with my new found freedom and I'm not in a hurry or going to rush into another relationship. (Although that is my ultimate goal) With that said I'm sure I'll know, we'll know, if its right..BEST TO BE UP FRONT WITH THE FOLLOWING: If you misrepresent yourself to me in ANY way, physically or about you, I consider that dishonest and will stop any further contact. I've met two men so far that have lied about their age and ***say he was 38 :/ and I don't get it. I know people in their 30's who act like their twice their age and people in their 50's who seem much younger. It's just a number and why start a relationship with that??TY for stopping by! ...MUAHH...Jewells I prefer to go "Dutch" on the first meeting. I'm open to a daytime meeting over coffee, meeting at restaurant for lunch, maybe drinks in the evening, depends on the circumstances.....a place we can talk and get to know each other. Relaxed no pressure. If there's a mutual attraction that's great, if not we got a chance to chat in person.....lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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