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Addisyn, 49

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About Me

Well the caption above is about how I feel. I know eveyone on here states no "drama" I would love a man definition of that please! I was also told I started dating to soon! I am a unique individual unlike what some might think! I have 3 kids 2 live with me and one doesn't. I have the normal everyday issues to deal with like evEry other person that has teenagers that live with them. I am tired of getting hurt by men that either can't deal with the fact that when you are with a pretty woman men tend to look or old boyfriends regret not continuing what they once had! That isn't the womans fault. Lack of communication! I want a man that is strong enough to deal with someone that has kids to someone else and isn't insecure because he comes to see his kids. I am secure in what I want! I will always have a rapport with my kids Dad no matter what. No I don't want a relationship with him but I do want him to have one with his kids! No man needs to be confused about that! As far as dating I want a man that is in this for the long haul! I don't feel kids need to meet your boyfriend until you are both sure its going to work! Oh better out this out there. I am an honest person and I guess some guys can't handle that! If a guy calls me I tell you if a guy says something to me I talk about it plz if something bothers you I can't read your mind you need to communicate! And for some reason men don't understand I don't like conflict but I will not be walked on and I will protect my own and will stand my own ground! I have a big heart and I do a lot for others. That's me. I work a lot I am a pediatric nurse and I am a single mother yes I have a lot on my plate but *** being told I started dating to soon how about man up if ya don't like me say so. I will always be busy my job my kids and family BUt I want a man in my life for me not that I need a man to take care of me I don't. Please understand I have time for a relationship! I would like to meet someone that can respect my decisions but if they don't understand why then ask. Everyone has drama if you will. In their own way unless you have no kids and have never loved before oh and have a financial advisor guess maybe you don't. But I do have a positive outlook on life and I want happiness but normalcy and drama are just words that every individual defines different! Any men out there that enjoy motorcycles quads football horses and a woman that is pretty and has a heart did I mention I have a brain? Mental connections make a great relationship physical attraction yep tall dark and handsome hard to resist! First date... Coffee. A beer. A good conversation. ?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm back I tried this one before without a lot of success so gave it up. I decided to give it one more shot. I am a single mother of two great kids who are my pride and joy. I work two jobs one as a Customer Service Rep and the other as a server at a waterfront restaraunt. I have been out of the dating scene for sometime while raising my kids who are know grown. I don't go out a lot since I work a lot and don't do the bar scene anymore. I love the beach and could hang there all day everyday. I enjoy reading and various kinds of music but country is my favorite. If you want to know anymore message me :) Something casual so we can get to know each other.

  • Sabine

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Are you at a point in your life where you are ready to just let loose and have fun? Well so am I!! I want the second half of my life to be amazing!! Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. I believe in karma.. doing nice things for others just because it makes you feel good... having your friends back.... and wine!! Lets not forget the wine !! The rest we can learn as we go. It's all about attitude so please have a good one!!Some things about me:I love people's quirks... that's what makes us interesting!I love the way that fav song can make you feel. Driving with the windows down and the heat on tying to stretch out the summer!I'm addicted to quotes! They are my reminderDoing the right thing.... just becauseCooking for people and seeing them smileWatching moviesCooking... together would be the bestIroning... yea I know it's weird!Soaking up the sun at the beach.. all day longThe way sheets smell when dried outsideCold beer....NapsMy feet in the sandAnything near the waterTime with friendsMaking peanut butter cups!!I'm not afraid to get my hands dirtyI like to be challenged.. I definitely have a wild side!!Affection is a mustCuddling is absolutely necessaryHonesty is a givenCommunication is a top 5My bad list:I love to have multiple projects going at once (I'm trying to stop that!)I snore sometimes,, ahh who am I kidding probably too muchI'm a little stubborn sometimesSomeone I met recently questioned me. (in a good way!) What do I really want in life and in a man and why. It got to me... I didn't know the answer. But then maybe because there isn't one right answer or one thing. Life is complex. Feelings come from many things, not just one experience. And so I learned... it's not black and white. Life is grey… and that's ok! Maybe with a little dash of 50 shades!! HahaWhat do i like in a man, hummm.... the way he treats me, the way he is towards others, humor, affection.... I want someone who knows what he wants and goes after it. When he knows he wants me, to realize hey this is the girl for me.... to grab my hand and walk with me in a way that I will know I'm his and he's mine. I want someone that wants to make time for me in his life, wants to look out for me and be looked after by me as well. It's that simple.... material things are not necessary. Actions speak louder than words.I want a man that can give me a kick in the ass when I need it and a slap on the ass when I want it!!!ps: Photos are required. I have mine posted so its only fair.I'm not perfect, but I think I'm worth it! First dates are awkward.... Lets make the first meeting something simple. Then when we have our real first date we can do something fun! But pay attention, listen and make a serious effort to get to know me. That's how you will win my heart :)

  • Hailie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello,I am a woman that lives simply and values family and friends.I enjoy relaxing with friends and maybe a glass of wine on occasion.I am a professional woman and because of the kind of job I have, do notdate men with felony charges. I know what a strange thing to say, right??Well I believe in being straight up and honest.I do have children but they are grown and do not live with me.UPDATE: I still work FT and also attend college PT in the eveningworking on my BSW. The music I enjoy is anything from jazz to easy listening and I am not a fan of rap or bluegrass.Movies anything but badly made sci-fi and horror.The type of man I am attracted to is a black male that is smart, funny, employed, between ***years of age.He should have his OWN place and I would prefer if he has children, that they are over 18.I am just done with that phase of my life and now looking forward to being a grandmother.I am not the type of woman that owns gowns or has a lot of money to be jetting about. I enjoy good conversation, a nice dinner and yes simple things in life.....I just lack someone to share these things.I have a full-time job and I am off on the weekends.If you are into clubbing, heavy drinking, and head games, I am NOT your type.I hope that covers most everything.Have a great day and much luck to you.PS. Please be within 2.5 hours from zip code ***, and no younger than what I posted in my profile. I have men the ages of my children asking me out and although many women do it, well I don't.If MARRIED, please DO NOT message me. I would enjoy meeting in public for anything from a cup of coffee to a casual meal so we can talk and get to know one another.

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