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Paulita, 49

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About Me

I've recently been given another chance at life after a close call with heaven. I'm looking forward to hopefully meeting and spending the rest of my life with someone who desires the same or similar lifestyle I do. I'm fun loving and outgoing, I'm silly and playful. I would love to find someone sweet and giving, very easy going, selfless and faithful. Life is too precious to sweat the small stuff. My hope is to find someone to eventually share a committed life filled with awesome memories along the way. Lets face it, Dating is stressful as it is, and I.So hope to find someone who is also looking for a eventual long term relationship. I have a 24 year old daughter whom I love and adore. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends, fishing and swimming, or being outside on nice days, playing card games, watching movies, taking walks, snuggling on the couch, traveling, mini-vacations, going out to eat, occasionally going out to see a band and dance, pub or, wineries and motorcycle riding. I think the goal for dating is finding someone who eventually wants a mutual commitment of a relationship.I want to share life with someone who is optimistic about their future and who understands what is really important in life. I enjoy guys who have laid back personality and are hard workers! So...let our first date be what we both choose to get to no each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Estrella

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-67

    I really enjoyed visiting in February. If I were to move elsewhere Texas is where I'd live. Hope to meet someone!

  • Sissie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm really interested in meeting new people and having some fun whether that is spending time at some great venue, being outdoors or going out for a great meal or cooking one. I wouldn't say I'm, on the outset, looking to meet the man of my dreams but I'm open to the possibility if such chemistry exists. I'm not the type of person who likes to project things out into the future and state a goal where relationships are concerned. I think when one does that, they are more likely to set themselves up for failure. I like to take things in stride and real time. If we are meant to be together, then let our relationship take its natural course!I love to dance and my passion is Brazilian dance. I've danced since my early 20's and I find the music and dance invigorating and soulfull. That being said, yes I love Brazilian music and Latin music of all kinds. However, I do not limit my music interests to only Latin, although I prefer to dance to Latin music above all else. My music preferences are vast but my least favorite is Country music, although you could get me to two step if your skills of persuasion are successful and it's that important to you ; )I have various interests of which I don't have time for everything but I do the best I can. I love yoga and have practiced for over 15 years. I love to cook and experiment with various recipes. I enjoy good food, stimulating conversation and I love to be in the company of groups of people. So if we should date, I'm really not one to be a couple solely together all the time. I need the stimulation of the group environment as well. And you better have male friends that you love to hang out with from time to time. I love men who have lots of friends. It seems to me that men who have lots of friends appear to be more social. I don't want to be your sole source of entertainment and I wouldn't expect you to be that for me either. I have tons of girlfriends and male friends and I like it that way. If you are secure with yourself and who you are, you will be comfortable around me.I studied environmental design and architecture in college and changed my major to fine arts. Hopefully, one day this city will find it's way to investing more in an arts culture but time will tell I suppose. For the most part, I get my art "fix" My work incidentally is not involved in the arts but it does require a keen eye. I work as an ophthalmic photography consultant involving studies of the eye using special cameras to photograph various diseases. These studies involve researching the efficacy of new drugs and there effect on positive outcomes. I am working toward building my business to the point that travel will be apart of my work again.I have two children, who are the light of my life, but I'm not looking for you to spend time with us. My children have their father and I want to spend my time apart from them with somebody fun to be with. I love children and if you have children that's great too but I prefer to keep that part of your life and mine separate. If you turn out to be somebody special in my life, I don't object to you meeting my children or me meeting yours because that is part of the process but that is so far off I can't even begin to think about it. I just want to disclose that I have children and that they are an important part of my life and take up 50% of that life. I think this is enough information for now......Let's just put it this way, if you want to be with me, you should be open minded, super fun to hang out with, live an active lifestyle, enjoy life and above all else LAUGH! Sharing a meal is always a great first date!

  • Lawana

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I love to spend time with people, family, friends, that I care for. I love to garden, exercise is very important to me and any activity that I can get exercise is something that I will probably enjoy. I love to dance, not a pro but I certainly enjoy it. I love music also and I always have music playing somewhere. I have a grown daughter whom I love very much. I love my job and am making advancements there and that makes me happy.I am looking for someone to date and go and have a good time with. I do not want anything serious but I'm not looking to get laid either, it's not about that kind of fun that I'm looking for. With the right person there is the potential to move beyond dating but please understand that it's important for me to get to know you and you to get to know me before we move beyond just dating. I want to build a friendship and know that we are good there before anything else. If you are looking for something else then you may as well not look in this direction.I've lost a lot of people that I care about this year and so it's been a tough year along with a couple of failed relationships. With that being said, I am wanting to enjoy life and have a good time going to concerts, out to eat, flea markets, museums, traveling, and there are many other things that I enjoy.. I'm very independent, strong willed, strong minded, opinionated, and certainly am not a wall flower. You will always know what I think, what I feel, and if you can't handle that then you will want to NOT contact me. I don't need a man, but want someone to enjoy time with. It will take a strong willed man to be able to handle me so if you are not a strong man, don't bother. It's very important that you also are comfortable in your own skin. I hate it when people try to be something or someone they are not, that pick themselves apart, and simply do not care enough about themselves. If you are not comfy with YOU, how can I be? If you do not care enough about you, how can I? Then of course, there are the ones that go to the extreme opposite and what I am wanting is a well rounded, well balanced personality. Someone that accepts themselves for who they are yet does try to always improve upon that as there is always room for improvement. It's also important that you are NOT defensive about yourself. I hate walking around on egg shells when I speak my mind. I have ideas, opinions, and thoughts that I WILL speak about. It does NOT mean that I'm putting yours down but rather sharing with you and I hope that you do the same. It's a good way to learn about other ways to possibly view something and I am NOT always right and I know it and I like to learn how you view things, who you are, what you truly think and feel about things.It's important that you are mature, that you are stable. I don't want to take care of anyone financially and don't need anyone to do that for me. I am not out to babysit anyone. Hell, I'm almost 51 and people in our age group should be able to take care of themselves at this point. While I know that bad luck happens and some things are out of a person's control, until you have yourself in a better position it is my view point that you are not ready to bring another person into your life as it's setting yourself up for failure for the most part. Yes, I've been through this so I know very well what I'm talking about. Though compassion is a good thing, when used against you..it's not a good thing. I would just rather date someone that has stability and security in their life and are ready to focus on a relationship if the potential is there for that.I am a very bright, kind, considerate, giving person. I am very intelligent, strong willed, motivated, loving, and good, with lots of love and compassion in my heart for all living beings. Do not insult my intelligence for I can spot a fake, a player, a cheater, and a liar a mile away. While I may choose to give you the benefit of the doubt, as soon as I find that I was right to begin with, if I do at first think that you may be any of those things, the relationship will end immediately. As I said, I'm smart, I don't play games so do us both a favor and don't even try. Life is too short, spare us the waste of time.If you are looking for a giving, loving, compassionate person that gives her all to a relationship then send me a message. A pet peeve of mine...why do some of you wear sunglasses in ALL of your pics, even when taken inside? I get the pics taken outside but it still would be nice to see your entire face. I can't see what you really look like and wonder what it is you are hiding. Just a little tip...I personally will not reply to someone that I can't see their entire face in at least one pic.If anything I've written here offends you then we were NOT meant to meet. I'm honest in what I want so less time is wasted. It's doing us both a favor in my opinion. It is not my intention to be offensive, just honest and there is a huge difference. Oh, this is tough as it has to be fine with both people. Meeting somewhere first to see that we like each other, having coffee or a drink. After that dinner and dancing is good. Whatever we both are good with works fine with me.

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