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ChandaOffline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
I guess I am running out of Redbox movies. I guess I will eventually have to start going out more. Wearing braces in my forties has not been fun. It is now July ***, and I have about six months left to wear them. I have felt a bit creepy, so I have been hanging out with my dogs at home.I am not sure what the general opinion of my decision to put up a swim suit picture is, although some have told me that it was a poor choice. It is the same type of suit that I wear at our neighborhood pool around my teenage son and his friends. He has never objected. I guess now that I have just turned 47, I feel that some may assume that I am not in good shape, I guess I feel the need to show that I take care of myself. I guess I feel that at this age, I should do what ever feels right to me, and really not be that concerned with the opinions of strangers. I do not typically wear low cut clothing, or dress inappropriately. I do try to behave like a lady.I spent eight years active duty Army, a long time ago. I did my leadership development with the 8th Infantry Division. We used to say, "improvise and overcome". I still hear those words today coming from inside myself. Our military are still very close to my heart. My political views are conservative. Although my teeth weren't terribly crooked, I did want to improve them to a full straight ten tooth smile. I am doing this for me. I am not sure men feel about a woman in clear braces. I do hope that there is someone special out there that can appreciate this journey that I am on. My teeth should be perfect in 18 months. I am a 47 yo, divorced (no baggage), emotionally happy female looking for a great guy to spend time with. I am a ro by nature. I have a great sense of humor. I love a good joke or funny movie. I am a strong lady who handles her own problems, so I don't "need" a man, I just want one. I hope that makes sense. I have one child, an 18 y.o. son. He spends about half of his time at my house. He has a great dad, who is involved in his life and not in mine. I would like to find a guy that makes me feel special. A good sense of humor and a playful personality are major pluses with me. Manners are also a must. If a guy makes me feel special, I enjoy spoiling him back. Chemistry and passion are also very important. I also love to cuddle and snuggle with that special guy. I am very loyal and trustworthy also. I have strong values that some might find old-fashioned, but it is still who I am. I guess I always pride myself on doing the right thing, even when it is difficult. I live a healthy lifestyle which includes eating right, exercising, and not smoking. I hope to find someone that shares that attitude. Additionally, I can't imagine responding to messages from those who do not care enough to post a pic. Does anyone really expect responses to profiles without faces? It is like talking to someone with the door closed. If you are not serious enough to post a pic, why should anyone share their *** go looking for your pic. It really sends the message that you are hiding something or from someone. Also, does "average" body really mean you have a significantly large belly and no muscle mass? Does anyone go to the gym today?? Really??Please realize that just because you post forty something for your age, most people can tell that you are ten years older when you are. Will everyone please stop lying....One last thing....if you don't want to see profiles that have only head shots, or only a baggy shirt, etc, then don't post one yourself. Seeing that you can wear a nice jacket to dinner is great, but some of us want a fitted tee shirt pic, jeans, etc. Pics that show that you are a guy who takes care of himself are nice. Women love hugging guys with nice arms and nice backs. I guess a perfect first date would have to be maybe dinner so that we could get to know each other. Then, at some point, we would be outside under the stars, maybe dancing or having a drink. The cool air is on my skin, and the chemistry is perfect. He holds me close and his lips brush mine. I get that nice tingly feeling and he kisses me again.
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LissetteOffline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
I would describe myself as out-going, very kind & super fun. I'm definitely a feminine women or as some of you may refer to as a "Girlie Girl." I absolutely love fashion & know how to dress for all occasions. The photos I posted are intended to showcase my personality, my various styles & most important, a very happy & super fun person. One thing for sure is that I always want to look my best no matter what the occasion may be & of course, always want to look good for my man. I love to do just about anything for I'm all about having a good time & living life to the fullest. I also like to challenge myself & to be challenged to try new things. I love all kinds of music & absolutely love to dance & will probably sing for you in the car & shower - LOL. I am very goal oriented... I've worked hard my entire life & am very proud & appreciate everything that I have but it means nothing unless it is shared with someone I love. Well, I could go on & on about myself but then there is no mystery for you to unfold. There is so much more to me then what you can see in these photos, therefore if you are attracted to me then contact me & let's begin as friends & see where it may lead us. The worst thing that could possibly happen is that you'll end up with a very fun & loyal friend. What I am looking for... I'm mostly attracted to men my age or older, preferably clean-cut & caucasian/white. Most importantly, I want a man that knows how to treat a lady... a true gentlemen, an active fun guy who is also romantic, a good communicator & he must love to travel.Lastly, please know that I would be willing to date outside my city & eventually relocate when I fall in love again. I thought that I would throw that out there for the guys that are set in their careers & do not want to move but realize that "The One" they are looking for may not live within their desired 30 mile radius from home. SPECIAL REQUEST: Endless *** & chatting online is a waste of time. A few times is okay but I believe the only way to know if there is any real interest & chemistry is to talk on the phone & meet face to face as soon as possible. It's also a good way to wean out all the fakes on this site. Thank you for your understanding & also your consideration. Have a great day! I'm very easy going so we can decide when we talk.
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LawanaOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I love to spend time with people, family, friends, that I care for. I love to garden, exercise is very important to me and any activity that I can get exercise is something that I will probably enjoy. I love to dance, not a pro but I certainly enjoy it. I love music also and I always have music playing somewhere. I have a grown daughter whom I love very much. I love my job and am making advancements there and that makes me happy.I am looking for someone to date and go and have a good time with. I do not want anything serious but I'm not looking to get laid either, it's not about that kind of fun that I'm looking for. With the right person there is the potential to move beyond dating but please understand that it's important for me to get to know you and you to get to know me before we move beyond just dating. I want to build a friendship and know that we are good there before anything else. If you are looking for something else then you may as well not look in this direction.I've lost a lot of people that I care about this year and so it's been a tough year along with a couple of failed relationships. With that being said, I am wanting to enjoy life and have a good time going to concerts, out to eat, flea markets, museums, traveling, and there are many other things that I enjoy.. I'm very independent, strong willed, strong minded, opinionated, and certainly am not a wall flower. You will always know what I think, what I feel, and if you can't handle that then you will want to NOT contact me. I don't need a man, but want someone to enjoy time with. It will take a strong willed man to be able to handle me so if you are not a strong man, don't bother. It's very important that you also are comfortable in your own skin. I hate it when people try to be something or someone they are not, that pick themselves apart, and simply do not care enough about themselves. If you are not comfy with YOU, how can I be? If you do not care enough about you, how can I? Then of course, there are the ones that go to the extreme opposite and what I am wanting is a well rounded, well balanced personality. Someone that accepts themselves for who they are yet does try to always improve upon that as there is always room for improvement. It's also important that you are NOT defensive about yourself. I hate walking around on egg shells when I speak my mind. I have ideas, opinions, and thoughts that I WILL speak about. It does NOT mean that I'm putting yours down but rather sharing with you and I hope that you do the same. It's a good way to learn about other ways to possibly view something and I am NOT always right and I know it and I like to learn how you view things, who you are, what you truly think and feel about things.It's important that you are mature, that you are stable. I don't want to take care of anyone financially and don't need anyone to do that for me. I am not out to babysit anyone. Hell, I'm almost 51 and people in our age group should be able to take care of themselves at this point. While I know that bad luck happens and some things are out of a person's control, until you have yourself in a better position it is my view point that you are not ready to bring another person into your life as it's setting yourself up for failure for the most part. Yes, I've been through this so I know very well what I'm talking about. Though compassion is a good thing, when used against you..it's not a good thing. I would just rather date someone that has stability and security in their life and are ready to focus on a relationship if the potential is there for that.I am a very bright, kind, considerate, giving person. I am very intelligent, strong willed, motivated, loving, and good, with lots of love and compassion in my heart for all living beings. Do not insult my intelligence for I can spot a fake, a player, a cheater, and a liar a mile away. While I may choose to give you the benefit of the doubt, as soon as I find that I was right to begin with, if I do at first think that you may be any of those things, the relationship will end immediately. As I said, I'm smart, I don't play games so do us both a favor and don't even try. Life is too short, spare us the waste of time.If you are looking for a giving, loving, compassionate person that gives her all to a relationship then send me a message. A pet peeve of mine...why do some of you wear sunglasses in ALL of your pics, even when taken inside? I get the pics taken outside but it still would be nice to see your entire face. I can't see what you really look like and wonder what it is you are hiding. Just a little tip...I personally will not reply to someone that I can't see their entire face in at least one pic.If anything I've written here offends you then we were NOT meant to meet. I'm honest in what I want so less time is wasted. It's doing us both a favor in my opinion. It is not my intention to be offensive, just honest and there is a huge difference. Oh, this is tough as it has to be fine with both people. Meeting somewhere first to see that we like each other, having coffee or a drink. After that dinner and dancing is good. Whatever we both are good with works fine with me.