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Topsey, 48
United States, Idaho, Meridian

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About Me

I'm a happy, independent, mostly sane-yet silly person and like to think the best of people. I enjoy both a night out on the town or can be content at home snuggling on the sofa with the right person. I choose to have a positive outlook on life and rumor has it that I have a "zesty" personality. To stay fit, I figure skate a few times a week, and hit the gym. Skating is my little escape, so if you don't skate, no worries. When it comes to activities, I'm more about who I'm with, than what I'm doing... meaning that If we're together having fun, it doesn't really matter what the activity is; that being said, I am fond of sporting events, performing arts, hanging downtown in the "berg," comedy clubs, etc. Even though I've been having a passionate love affair with my blue jeans for years, I do enjoy dressing-up girly-style once in a while and can rock a dress and heels. I love spending time with my teenager and her friends- dual purpose of keeping my eyes on them and having fun too, lol. I enjoy animals and volunteer from time-to-time at Pet Pal Animal Shelter in St. Pete. To me, body, mind and spirit chemistry are important to have, before entering into a relationship as well as mutual clear, tactful communication. After the obvious need for mutual attraction and chemistry is fulfilled, you may capture my heart if you are kind, honest, responsible and enjoy physical affection. I'm a recovering serial hugger, but the "right" man will probably send me into a relapse of serial hugging types of activities. I'm most attracted to men that are clean cut, fairly fit, funny, live a healthy lifestyle and that care about others as well as themselves. In addition, because I've been divorced for over 10 years, I'm probably more in alignment with someone whose been divorced for a few years, rather than recently separated. If you think we may "click" after what you've read so far...love to hear from you. Let's *** or talk on the phone and then meet if we're both so inclined:-) **Hate to feel like I need to mention this but evidently I do, lol: If your photos are not you, you have a criminal record longer than my hair, you are not honest or willing to be about your age, or you forgot that you're still married- then we won't be a match. That depends... coffee/light bite to eat, walk on the beach-no pressure; no expectations except that we both look like our photos:-) if we've spoken on the phone and both feel comfortable, a live sporting event, hang-gliding, who knows? We can decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Nascar Collecting
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