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Akilah, 46

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Update: As of Monday, September 23...I will be having the first of two foot surgeries. Recovery they say can be up to six months...HELP...I'm going to go stir crazy...can't sit still for that long. Any suggestions for a one legged gimp to do??? LOL. Ok, week one of recovery going well. I have the pain down to a minimum. Bring on those dancing shoes...well at least one of them...Where are the real guys at?? Just looking for HONEST & TRUSTWORTHY...is that asking too much??This is more of a challenge then I thought...but do I love a good challenge. Tending to be a lil more picky the older I get. Not a big fan of winter...but I do survive them. I have raised two grown men the best that I can and they have made me proud, love and take care of my family especially my grandsons. Love spending time with family and friends but looking for someone special to spend some time with.I like taking walks, dancing, comedy, listening to music of all varieties live or not, going to movies or cuddling up at home. Well, I am the type that is up to just about anything or would try anything once. Dancing with the devil by the full moon light or kissing in the rain...I also love to show my guy just how I feel about him, very touchy feely type person. I have a lot of love, honesty, trust and compassion to give the right guy. I love to laugh, a sense of humor is very attractive. Enjoy the little things in life...I am looking to fill a hole in my life and heart...not for someone to take care of me because by now I certainly know how to take care of myself. I can certainly check and change my own oil. Lol. Looking for someone to share all that life has to offer, hold my hand and just enjoy.Put off having my children's books published for too long. One published in a series of seven and counting...new chapter to begin.I am a giver not a taker, a lover not a fighter...and great kisser gets a long way with me.Getting into the health kick...trying to eat healthy and exercise more. Nothing overboard, just trying to be the best me I can be.Feel free to ask me anything, I have nothing to hide. Please not looking for one night stands and distance to me doesn't matter.Lets take a ride on the wild side and see what happens...or any sporting event (whether we are playing or watching) or just sitting and relaxing by a fire.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Luetta

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Just don't want to mislead any major outdoors men. I enjoy the outdoors and outdoor activities...but love the comforts of the city when I'm done. Camping is not a word in my vocabulary. ;-)A little bit about me, eh!"The Girl"... yes, that would be meVivacious and Kind - are the two words my friends would use to describe me. My guy friends had some other good ones but they were more descriptive of my outer shell, shall we say. I am generous and share with those I care about. Talking with my hands, and generally being a touchy feely person, helps me to express myself even better. I'm upbeat and like to encourage others to focus on their greatness. I don't believe in God but do say "oh god" in the heat of some moments. ;pMy sense of humour is improv standup. I find the ridiculous in the mundane, the twist in the serious, saying what most are thinking (that's assuming most are thinking?). Humour connects people. Hopefully, witty intelligent banter turns you on coupled with a great set of... Now back to our regularly scheduled PG profile.Everyday starts with a latte and a walk around the park with my 2 dogs. I participate in many activities & sports, but prefer to do most with someone, especially tennis and pool. Driving balls at the golf range. ;***Rona is one of my fav stores to go shopping at.I am a successfully self employed interior designer/contractor - everyday brings something new and allows me to utilize all my skills and learn new ones. Daily, it's great being around people I respect, appreciate and quite enjoy.Being near water feeds my soul - love to swim, windsurf, boat or just watch the sun dance on the water. In the winter I ski and skate. Travel is a priority for me...it is truly the fruit of my labour.Not a foodie but enjoy soicalizing over a meal prepared by you (I can be your sous chef) or at a restaurant. I can cook, but that's only because I can read a recipe book and follow ***, I think is a good thing! Red wine with a wonderful meal is a special treat.Having a companion to share in the every other day or the extraordinary, would be awesome. Over the years and from being married (divorced for the last 8 years) I have learned the art of compromise, a necessity for the success of any type of relationship!Entertaining and/or socializing with friends is enjoyable but I also like to relax at home or take a blanket down to the beach and soak it all in."The Man"... yes, you thereJust be 100% yourself and happy with the person you are. Be kind, thoughtful, affectionate, somewhat sophisticated, sense of humour, fit, active, independent, curious, intellectually agile and open to meeting someone new. And have the room in your life and heart for a true partner. Note: Shallow or not...my physical type is tall and lean/fit. Note: You enjoy endless hours on the open road on your motorcycle - we will not be a match. "The AGE Factor"My preference - men around my own age. Not a rule, I'm open to whomever a great connection can be made with. Character moulded by depth and experience is very sexy to me. It is not my desire to look like or be 35 years old. Never been the type to get hung up on a number. Life's too short. There's no guessing how well I'm going to age, I'm here, proof positive. At this point in my life I'm comfortable in my own skin, and you should be too. Gentleman's choice: whether it's a walk or a cone at the DQ or a beer at the pub or a coffee at a cafe...it's all about the company we find and keep.My motto: Feel the fear and do it anyways. What's the worst thing that can happen? You actually just meet someone face to face, *** endless *** texts. You meet a new person with their own perspective and you converse. It may not be a love match but it's never a waste of time.

  • Ryana

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello Gents: Alright then a bit about me. I really don't like this part, but here goes nothing. I am finally in a place of peace, I try to see the positive in every situation (never thought I would be able to say that, but it's true!) I have massive amounts of energy, and you won' t find me on the sofa eating Bon-bons on my days off! (okay maybe once in a blue moon:) I take pride in keeping in good shape but I am not obsessive about it. I love anything outdoors, water sports, snow skiing, but I absolutely love to roller blade and very much a enjoy a rigorous hike. I love animals and kids.. When I can find the time I volunteer for the local valley food banks and animal shelters. I enjoy and evening out playing darts, movies, dinning out, or just kicking back at home sharing a good laugh with my better half. One piece of useless information about me is that I can throw a football better than most men, and yes I can catch!Okay the million dollar question Who are you? 2 million dollar question where are you?You are funny, sweet, patient, honest, employed, non-judgmental and you are faithful when in a committed relationship, and you can emotionally check in on occasion. More importantly, you are not afraid to apologize especially when it is for the good of the relationship. You look good, but you smell better. Did I forget to mention you posses all of your teeth! (or at least 95% of them) I am looking for someone who could be "in it" for the possible long haul! Not a one night roll in the rack! If you are just looking for a good time..........Keep on looking, I am not your girl! Please don't waste my time or yours not trying to be rude here, just REAL! My only requests for you are that you are NOT married, or separated, your pictures are relatively recent, and you have not lied about your age. This is a tall order for many of you men out there and I am sure you could same for the women. My pics are recent, I am 48 and I am a no BS type of gal! Well that is all for now, I know you are out there, thanks for stopping by my profile! Celebrate Life!-- Toss the football in a local park or go for a hike. Meet for coffee or a drink, whatever works!

  • Nylah

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Fun would include weekend trips, fishing, camping, playing darts or a game of pool. I love concerts and am a metal head at heart but do enjoy a variety of music oh yeah except Rap don't like Rap. I don't mind a watching a good game of football at home either. Sitting at home is boring and lonely. Life is short and should be filled with friends, family and good times. coffee or a cold beer is good.

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