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Oretha, 41

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About Me

It is very rare for me to "make the first move." If there is any interest, you'll probably have to message me first.I consider myself very conservative and reserved. I observe and evaulate a situation before I make any decisions.I can be your best friend, something more, or a little of both....you decide which you'd rather. I'm shy at first; its unusual for me to "make the first move." However, once I'm comfortable, the conversation will flow freely.I love to try new things (at least once). I eat almost anything. And I stress almost. Music of choice varies from classical to heavy metal; it just depends on my mood. I can be the most caring person you've ever met. It takes me time to warm up to you, but if you're the right one, you'll understand and be patient with me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    First off...No pics, no convo!! I'm originally from upstate NY. Love TX now. I don't do cold weather at all. I'm a very open and honest person. I have a job that I love. I was active Army for approximately 8 years. I have two beautiful children who I adore. My eldest, my daughter is 19 and is in the Air Force. My son is 18, attending college this fall. I was married for 13 years, then back to back deployments found him falling for his new wife. I have learned to overcome and realize everything happens for a reason.I whole heartedly want to meet the "One", and don't want to play games. I laugh and joke alot, but not about wanting to be someones one and only.If you are uncertain of your wants, needs, and desires please pass me by. If your mother controls your personal life, please keep scrolling! If you want me to have your child, don't have children and undecided about if you may want children in the future...don't even say hello!!! If you're not taller than me....keep going. If you don't have ambition, goals, and drive...keep going. If you are looking for a sugermomma...do not speak. If you don't have your own shiz, keep going. Sorry for the bluntness, just tired of the nonsense. Marriage was inter racial. I don't have problems dating men out of my race.Please do not waste my time with foolishness. Thanks :) Somewhere quiet but public....never know who ya gonna meet on here. Lol

  • Sequoia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello, here's a little bit about myself. I don't want to tell it all, because if I do then there won't be anything else to talk about. I am a caring, funny, witty person. Some say I am too caring, but I don't think a person can ever care too much. Just caring about the right things is what counts. I am a country lady, saying that, I am saying that I can and do clean up pretty well for a dinner date, but really like my flip flops and shorts in the summer, blue jeans and my boots in the winter. I like harley davidsons ( like to ride ). As far as music goes I listen to about all types, depending my mood. I have 2 boys which are grown and out of the home. I would like to meet a man that is down to earth. I feel like I'm an average lady looking for the man I can be comfortable around. I can talk to about anything. In a relationship, I think communication, honesty, trustworhty, loyality, and just being yourself is what makes the relationship. ago due to diabetes, no, I'm not a diabetic.. I lost amy sisiter 10 months ago due to cancer... no, I don't have cancer.. Just lost my other brother 1 month ago, due to acute chronic pancreatis. It's been difficult, considering we had a close family. We all were always there for one another. I am the youngest and now I am the only. I don't know how my Mother has dealt with the losses as well as she has. She is the strongest person I know. Going through all of this, it has changed who I am and what I want in life. It's changed me for the better, not that I was a bad person from the beginning, but the aspect of having my family to not having a family, I want to be happy in life. I put my life on hold when we found out that my sister had cancer so that I could focus on trying to get her well. I understand, that maybe I shouldn't have done that, but I did and don't regret any of it. So, now I'm trying to rebuild my life with someone that can understand me. If you would like to know more send me a messege, otherwise, good luck through this journey. We are only here for a little while. First meet, hmmmm, well I think the first meet should be someplace where we can communicate. I think communication is the key part in getting to know someone. I also think that u have to have some kind of physical attraction. I think I am pretty much open minded.good luck everyone:)

  • Gwendolen

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Recently widowed. Looking to find myself again!! I am 41 and needing some adventure. I was married for 24 years so this is all new!Wanting to find someone to enjoy my time with! I definitely want someone that is family oriented! ! Hate being alone.... def would like someone that is ok with my grandkids! Up for anything really! Family is really important to me so you would have to be open to anything with my family! Love to cook out and just veg at home. Want someone that likes to share their life as well

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