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First off...No pics, no convo!! I'm originally from upstate NY. Love TX now. I don't do cold weather at all. I'm a very open and honest person. I have a job that I love. I was active Army for approximately 8 years. I have two beautiful children who I adore. My eldest, my daughter is 19 and is in the Air Force. My son is 18, attending college this fall. I was married for 13 years, then back to back deployments found him falling for his new wife. I have learned to overcome and realize everything happens for a reason.I whole heartedly want to meet the "One", and don't want to play games. I laugh and joke alot, but not about wanting to be someones one and only.If you are uncertain of your wants, needs, and desires please pass me by. If your mother controls your personal life, please keep scrolling! If you want me to have your child, don't have children and undecided about if you may want children in the future...don't even say hello!!! If you're not taller than me....keep going. If you don't have ambition, goals, and drive...keep going. If you are looking for a sugermomma...do not speak. If you don't have your own shiz, keep going. Sorry for the bluntness, just tired of the nonsense. Marriage was inter racial. I don't have problems dating men out of my race.Please do not waste my time with foolishness. Thanks :) Somewhere quiet but public....never know who ya gonna meet on here. Lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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