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Tonia, 45

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About Me

It's hard to fit me into a category so the best way to describe me is I'M ME. I'm usually quiet when you first meet me unless I'm with people who really know me but once I get comfortable around you anything goes. I can be serious when needed but have been kicked out of a mini-golf course for not acting appropriately (it was a water hazard thing and I wasn't the only one in my group to get wet). I'm not active or serious in any sport but do enjoy myself when playing and feel at home in the water (past lifeguard and swimming *** love the outdoors as well as several indoor activities, mainly whatever I'm in the mood for at the moment. I love trying new things and the bigger the variety the better (so I don't get bored). I'm looking for someone who also has many interests and doesn't attempt to do only what he thinks I might like - how am I going to know you if you don't open up and let me see and who knows, I might find a new interest too. I don't drink but have no problem if you do and have no problem being the designated driver. Alcohol triggers my migraines but I can act stupid without it, and have been accused of being a drunk when around the right people.I'm looking for someone who compliments me, not someone like me. Honesty is very important and it starts from the first message, please have a recent pic if you want to meet so I know who to look for *** making me guess what changes happened over the years. My pics are fairly recent and I'm working on getting new ones to post, what you see is what you get. I'm not the type of person who is impressed with things or how much you spend when taking me out. The best way to win me over is to be yourself and relax, if there's a connection it will last longer without having to work thru false impressions. I've lead a full life with lots of bumps as well as smooth rides, I know you probably have too, but that is what makes us who we are so why hide it. I'm ready to move on and find the next path (or make my own) and am looking for someone to keep me company and maybe add to the adventure.If you are interested in getting to know me leave me a message and more than just a hi, tell me a little about you or ask something about me. Anything we can still talk while doing, after we get to know each other and find out if things click louder and more active dates can be planned.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking for a nice guy to have drinks with... maybe dinner, dancing or movies ..I have lots of friends but you can never have to many...I am a social butterfly...and get along well with many different types of personalities...I love getting out to the lake for swimming and working on my tan...I LOVE FISHING!!! and love to cook...I am a man pleaser!!!!...I have two boys 15 and 10 they are GREAT boys!!!! ...and if you have teeth missing dont bother contacting me i have real issues with that:)

  • Clemmie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am giving this one last try. I've been amazed by how many people build themselves up to be more than what they are. Honesty and trust are important qualities in a relationship, and so far, I have not found that on this site. If you're not into the games and drama, let me know. If you are, keep looking, because that doesn't fly with me. I have a big heart, and am the type that will be there for a friend when called on. I have been through some rough relationships, and am looking for friends and possibly that special someone who can fill the void in my life... If you cannot be true and honest, as I said previously, there is no need to go any further... A first date would have to be somewhere we can talk to get to know each other, then go from there...

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