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Retha, 41

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About Me

I enjoy site-seeing, exploring, gardening, home decorating, cooking, music and art, my animals, and celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient, independent, and honest. I have a good sense of humor and I can be a bit of a ham mixed with a little sarcasm. I love to laugh and spend time with the people who are important to me. My family and friends would probably describe me as kind, loyal, sensitive, a little feisty and passionate...sometimes a little quirky. I am looking for the same in a Man. I am also looking for a man that has eyes for only me. Someone honest, kind and can make me laugh. Someone who sincerely enjoys spending time with me and someone that would enjoy going out to explore and also spending quiet nights at home. If you are looking for the same, let me know and let’s see what happens. Please only contact me if you are around my age, I really enjoy the company of a Man close to my age, 38 is okay...27 is way too young. Older Men with a young attitude are fine too, but please, see # ***I would like to get to know someone that is interested in the same things as I am, same priorities, one of which is a family someday. If you don't see yourself perusing that with the right woman someday, most likely sooner than later, then we will probably not be a match. I am not on here to find a sperm donor or a baby-daddy, but I am well aware of my age and I do want a family someday ...with the right man. A good man.3) Switching careers; I plan on becoming and RN, but I am currently a CNA, I plan on going back to school in the Fall. Coffee, an afternoon date. Maybe a beer, somewhere casual, around happy hour, see if there any chemistry, first. The second date, or the first real date? Maybe a bite to eat somewhere casual, site-see a bit.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nicky

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Fun loving, energetic, family oriented positive person seeking the same :) I enjoy anything water related ( the ocean being my favorite). Taking small weekend trips to wherever and discovering new places is always fun. I like home improvement projects and landscaping in the spring. My kids are grown so now I am taking more time for me and part of that is meeting new people. I think finding the right guy would top things off to an already great life :)

  • Sydni

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I\'m romantic; love walks on the beach, love attending concerts, symphony, movies, drives up the coast. My partner should be confident, but never arrogant or pompous, must be is honest, considerate, generous.

  • Sol

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Updated: July 22,***Its time!! Time to freshen up the profile. I find a lot of guys dont even read the profile so not sure but I will update anyway.Bottom line is I am attracted to Black Men, its not one specific thing its EVERYTHING! Just what Im attracted to :)Ive noticed lately that a lot of guys are really taking the time to write something in their profiles, even if they arent for you after reading some you really walk away feeling as if it touched you in some way. Thats cool especially when majority of the other ones say I dont know what to write or its so hard talking about myself.I read plenty of profiles where men say I like thin or petite women and I dont get angry and send them nasty notes. Its their preference and everyone is entitled to one! My preference is for black men!I miss being in a relationship but I dont miss it enough to just jump into one.!!So if you are sweet, honest, funny, sensual and have a thing for white bbws and are ready to get to know someone and if everything clicks you are ready to get in a relationship then by all means please write me a note :)Somethings that make me melt: a warm smile, bedroom eyes, a sensual touch, ABS, a guy that isnt afraid to express himself.Somethings I cant stand: Liars, Game Players, Puffy BeardsMean what you say and say what you mean.............Be real and Honest 100% of the time and everything will be fine.Oh and Im beginning to think its a sign when a man doesnt have one picture of himself smiling on his profile, either he has really bad teeth or he is mean/ unhappy without any reason to smile.Soooooo if Im your type and you could be my type send me a note and we will find out. If Im not your type then continue to the next profile and I promise I wont take it personal. Ive always said Im not the woman that holds other mens mistakes against every man I meet. Each one is a new experience and I look forward to getting to know someone again. Im trusting to a point but Im not stupid.Now onto my hobbies, they are going to the movies, watching reality tv,NFL FOOTBALL, Fantasy Football, taking pictures, spending time with family.I dont know what makes me unique, Im honest, these days that may actually be unique.Also, Let me say I cant have children but I LOVE KIDS so if you have any thats not a dealbreaker.My taste in music lets see, I like pop, top 40, R & B, some rap.I love playing the music loud while Im driving, singing along and just driving anywhere. I got out of a long relationship in July 09 and just been taking my time getting back out there. Im ready to move on, do you wanna come with me? I loved being in a relationship and I want to get to that point again but I realize I have to date a little to get there and I can say I AM READY!!!!!A guy who will leave a sweet note in your pocket just to remind you he cares or sends you flowers at work for no reason at all. Im not a woman into a lot of material things, its about how we make each other feel. Some FUN facts about me. ##2 I was an Aunt at the age of 9#3 When I was 20 years old I had my foot get caught in an escalator (fortunately it was a happy ending and can be listed here as a FUN FACT!! LOL#4 Got my drivers license when I was 31#5 Love Swedish Fish!! Come on thats FUN :)#6 Once was driving a few co-workers to a charity event and was following another when the car in front of me finally pulled over I realized we had been following the WRONG CAR......Funniest thing ever!#7 Probably seen the movie Pretty Woman at least 20 times!#8 LOVE LOVE LOVE Brian Dawkins!!!!! That man has the heart EVERY Eagles player should have.#9 I love to drive fast!!!!#10 My motto is You can never be too happy!!!Hopefully this list if nothing else made you smile!!My type of Man??? Hmmmm sweet, sensual, fun, honest, caring, appreciates a good woman. I see nothing wrong with first meeting at a neutral location just to see each other face 2 face. Gives each person a chance to make sure we are who we say we are (at least physical appearance wise) and chat and see if you want to move on to that "First Date"First date............Hmmmmm well I always think you cant go wrong with a movie and then getting a bite to eat afterward because incase its awkward you always have the movie to talk about. If things go well then you talk about whatever..........I LOVE TO KISS So if we get to try a kiss or two that would be awesome.A man that has a car and drives would be nice, I have a car and drive but its nice to not have to be the one driving all the time.

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