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Ardelle, 44

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About Me

*Please take the time to read my profile so you can see if we may be a potential match BEFORE contacting me. I know what I want and I hope you do, too. Thanks!I am the mother of 2 incredible children. They are my greatest accomplishment and my pride and joy! If you don't want children, we certainly aren't a good match. Not looking for a Dad for them, they have one, but an additional positive, loving and healthy role model, will always do! In return, I am happy to date a man who has children, too. I pose no threat to their mom, just a promise of love and friendship. I am an outgoing spirit, young at heart and full of laughter/fun but I am also a mom, a professional career woman, and a dedicated friend. Simply put, I am looking for the following:*SINGLE (I don't care if that means divorced, widowed, or never married, but single is a must)*HONEST*NORMAL (whatever that means but this can be WAY more challenging than I ever imagined)*A MALE between the ages of ****Educated (College degree...intelligence is attractive)*Laughter, active, healthy, loving, passionate, vulnerable, confident, trusting*Enjoys dancing or having fun at hole in the wall bars *Loves tropical settings/travel*Loves activities in or around the water (boating, skiing, jet skis, swimming, waterfalls)*Spontaneity/Flexibility*Financially and emotionally stable*If you have married and divorced more than once, I'm sorry, but I am not interested.*If and when warranted, A kiss can make or break the deal...must have a SPARK there!!My preferences:*Beach vs Mountain=Beach but definitely appreciate both settings*Chocolate vs Vanilla=Chocolate*Dogs vs Cats=DOGS! *Allergic to cats*Dive bars vs Hot Spots=Dive bars w live music but you'll find me at either*Smoker vs Non-smoker=Non-smoker*Enjoys working out vs Couch Potato=Exercise but not a fanatic and there's nothing wrong with curling up together on the couch...just not ****Football vs Baseball=Football...How 'bout them TEXANS?!?!?!*Tattoos vs No Tattoos=No TattoosAt this point in my life, I know that I can make it on my own. It's a choice to share me/us with someone special. It's a want...not a need. I'm hopeful it will happen one day and I'm ready and awaiting that moment with open arms. Happy Fishing! Doesn't matter what or where as long as it's with the right company! Running in a thunderstorm can be fun, sexy and full of laughter when you're with someone special!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    This tall blonde with grey/blue eyes, enjoys country drives, big fluffy duvets on a rainy morning and the smell of firewood burning.If you do ***that's fine even tho I'm not one to suck it back myself.....and all classic rockI do what I can to stay in shape and try to eat very well/healthy but may slip now and then when it comes Seafood. Here are some scenes I would love to have you by my side sharing the moment:-..love exploring off the beaten path when I travel, prefer memories for 2:) -enjoying authentic cuisine (Cuban,Italian, Jamaican...Irish perhaps) at an outdoor patio with drinks, great music, may the day never end...-us at home....me refilling your drink around the bonfire and passing you an appetizer you and I have prepared earlier, that we've shared with company who've left and it's only you and I enjoying some alone time...:)) at some point I will likely end up sitting on your lap:) not to be confused for a lapdance lol-a lengthy walk, a stop along the way to sit and get cosy with one another, enjoy the moment maybe while the sun sets...-sharing dreams...-sharing and checking off our bucket lists together, smiling, laughing...I'm not looking for perfect, just perfect for me...ps. don't read too much into the chemistry predictor i selected somewhat agree to all questions lol altho I can do ballroom or bluejeans, sandals or stillettos....casual works best for me & laughter is a mustI dunno...naked paintball?;)

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am looking for a relationship. I have learned that people define a relationship differently so I will say a few words to define what I view as a fantastic relationship.Two people who value, respect and appreciate each other. They are honest and say what they think, no guessing games or drama. They have great conversations and yet can enjoy comfortable silence. They still value and spend time with their friends, have their own hobbies and interests and can support each other. They take care of themselves and don't need to be taken care of but still enjoy doing things for each other.A bit about me.I love to learn, read and have great conversations - about almost anything. I am not judgmental or I try my best not to be. I love to walk and explore our city and other places. People fascinate me so I love learning about other cultures and religions. It does not matter to me what race or religion you are, it only matters that we have similar values.I have a grown daughter and I don't want to have anymore children.Anything else, just ask. I do have more pictures to share. Good luck in your search! An opportunity for a great conversation!

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm generally a happy person and feel very grateful for all the blessings in my life, but still looking for the blessing of a good man...I try to appreciate or at least learn from everything life serves up (the bad as well as the good). I am interested in many things, including all sorts of music, yoga, good wine & food, sailing, hiking, reading, museums, beaches, traveling, discussing philosophy/spirituality and I'm always open to new experiences. I have, and appreciate in others, a good sense of humor, an out-of-the-box way of thinking, the ability to have an interesting conversation, a strong sense of integrity and honesty, a certain amount of annoyance with superficiality and people who don't think for themselves. I'm looking for a solid partnership - someone who'll support my growth as a person and let me support theirs. I have a tendency to think too much, so someone who's occasionally silly is probably good for me. Fun is important, as is lots of passion and physical chemistry.I tend to be most attracted to men who are intelligent, confident and well spoken. My ideal match should be similar enough to me so that we can communicate but not so similar that there's no 'fire.' I like a little bit of sparring every now and then, a little bit of wickedness. At the same time, (cliche alert!) we should be able to sit back by the fire on an autumn day and read the Times together pleasantly, too. It's really a matter of balance. Someone who likes to sail would be great. I prefer guys who aren't of small build (and no I'm not referring to THAT), I just like a guy that I feel like a little woman next to, somebody huggable and with whom I can roughhouse every now and then. No atheists/agnostics, please. A first date should be somewhere we can talk (without having to shout) and get to know each other a bit.

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