SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Callie
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!
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Caileigh
Online
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
You write about yourself but you can't really get to know somebody unless you actually speak to them and see if you click!So really it's simple......if you're interested and want to know more, just ask! A first date is really seeing if you have a connection with the other person. There always has to be some kind of chemistry as well as a flowing conversation. With that being said I guess a good first date would be meeting for a drink or for coffee and seeing where it goes from there.
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Kristia
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I'm an extroverted happy petite woman. I'd like to think I laugh easily and tend to be easy going. I like cooking, taking long drives, cuddling up an watching movies. I'm comfortable in pretty much any setting whether it be a BBQ or dressing up for a social function. I was a tomboy growing up so I love to fish an the outdoors. Okay now with that said. I hate spiders an snakes an I've never shot a gun so no hunting. I have two boys 8 & 10 that I share joint custody of an also have adult children. I wouldn't plan on introducing my younger boys to anyone unless I'm comfortable enough that it's serious. I've not dated since my divorce 4 years ago. I took the time to focus on my kids, myself an my job. I've got no 'ex' drama baggage. He and I focus on what's important the children we share - an their health, happiness an well being. Today I'm at a point in my life I'm ready to share my life with someone. I miss not looking forward to seeing someone special. I miss the nervous / excited butterflies caused by the anticipation of seeing him. The simple act of having someone care an ask about how my day has been. The simple acts of being told that I'm being thought about. Okay now time to address the my deal breakers. I'm not a booty call. If your looking for FWB keep looking. Married an trolling ....keep walking Need a 'rebound' -- no thanks Please note my goal here is to find my special guy. Find a meaningful solid long term relationship Well here's to hoping I didn't turn you off. If you shoot me a chat an i don't answer right away my apology. I just signed up here an didn't realize you need to log out or it looks like your 'online'. I'll try to pay better attention to that. I don't mind chatting - texting then talking on the phone. My goal is if there's an interest we'd meet for the first time within a week. I'm sure not many are on here to just make texting / chat friends I'd never turn down coffee. Open to suggestions... the ones that include meeting in a public place. (Totally not on my to-do list.... to end up chopped up in little pieces and put in Tupperware containers )Too many scary movies? ? Ya think ;-)