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CallieOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!
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AlyxOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Hard to do this without tooting your own horn and I'm not that kind of person. I prefer modesty, but let's give it a go....I'm an outgoing individual who loves to talk and has no trouble socializing. I also like taking it easy and relaxing, enjoying the comforting nature of just being together in a quiet place. I don't do the bar scene, never really enjoyed that. I'm very much a doer in that I believe you shouldn't talk about it, just do it. I am unable to relax if something needs doing and I don't like procrastinating. I believe in giving and enjoy doing things for others and surprising them with the unexpected. I believe giving is most important in a loving relationship, as both partners need to give as much as they can to the other. Doing things for the other person shows consideration, selflessness and love. I'm a firm believer in teamwork. I can tackle life's challenges but would prefer doing that together with a co-captain, afterall, we make a stronger team than each alone. Doing things together is fun....anything at all, but I also believe we need some time to ourselves. I'm not attached to anyone at the hip and time apart makes us appreciate our time together even more. We need to learn about eachother, but we can't forget who we are as individuals. We should bring that individuality into the relationship and I look forward to learning all about you and that's an adventure we'll do together. Family and friends are very important to me and sometimes, they are all you have, so go out of your way to help them, let them know how much you appreciate them, and love them. I have 2 great kids that challenge me all the time but they are my strength too. They are with me most of the time and therefore are a big part of my life, but I will still make time for that someone special. I am very expressive with my words and actions, showing my affection in public without concern for who may be watching. I certainly don't mean going overboard, but when I am with someone I love, a long kiss is not taboo and very much welcome. Loving touches and feels are a must all the time! This is really a method of communication and a pillar in a strong relationship. I love holding hands and I am a hopeless romantic.I love to laugh, so a good sense of humour is definitely a requirement. I have no problem laughing at myself, I'm comfortable enough in my own skin. I'm young at heart and believe that age is just a state of mind. I hope to meet someone that sparks my intellect and my heart. There must be mutual respect and mutual interests. Although they say opposites attract, I have to disagree when it comes to relationships...common goals, common interests and common values are very necessary for a successful relationship. I enjoy being active and playing some sports such as volleyball, baseball, basketball. I enjoy staying fit by cycling, spinning and doing weights. I'd like to be physically active with my special someone, allowing us to both keep eachother fit and enjoy the time exercising together. Life is short and we all need to be with someone special. I am looking for my best friend, as the best relationships start off as a friendship...love is strongest when you fall in love with your best friend. 5 IMPORTANT notes:1. I don't respond to profiles that have no photos. Sorry.2. I won't chat with someone unless I've communicated with them previously through messaging. Sorry.3. I read this and believe it's true - Everyone has baggage, the trick is to find that someone special who will help you go through it.M4. I try to reply to everyone, but if I don't, please understand it is because I don't believe we are a match.5. My profile is long as I have spent much time in expressing myself and I take this next step seriously. If you choose to message me, please take some time and effort in doing so....it means a lot."I'm just a girl, looking for a boy to love her." -;Love is....friendship set on fire." - Anonymous
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GabrielaOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I'm an educated woman. I am and have always been very independent, maybe to a fault. I am looking for someone that I can lean on (not financially) when life deals a crappy hand.I have a good sense of humor. Miss laughing with someone til I cry.Family is very important to me. I'm just a simple jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. Country girl at heart.Looking for someone to spend time with and share the simple things that life has to offer. Amazing what a simple phone call can do, just to see how my day is going.My daughter is my world. Now that she is out of the house its pretty quiet around here! :)FYI - If you send me a message and I am not interested, I will let you know. Do not take this to heart. Why bother wasting each other's time if there is nothing there - just being honest!PLEASE NOTE - you must be at least a little close to my age. Yes, yes, I know you're in your early 30's and you could "teach me a few tricks" or "make me more satisfied than an older guy" but I think I'll take my chances and look for someone that I don't have to teach and that has life experience as well as sheet experience. The first date, I imagine, will be typical. A coffee or drink.