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Essence, 44

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About Me

Well what can I say - I am an independant woman who is looking for a man that I don't have to chase. I love the beach and doing anything outdoors. I just like to have fun. I wouldn't say I have "hobbies" I just like to have fun and whatever that intells then I am game. I have lots of other things that I like to do but too many to list here. I like Rock and Roll (Old and New) and I don't listen to lots of Country but it grows on ya so I'm sure I could get used to it. Anyway, that's me. Hope to hear from ya if you're interested.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Callie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!

  • Lieselotte

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    *Understanding *Patience *Honesty *Trust *Devotion *Some Compromises *Fairness *Good Listener *Laughter *Positive Attitude *Sharing *Energetic and Self-Driven *Health Conscious *Romance *Unconditional Love *Loyalty *Kindness *Affection *Maturity *Consideration *Generosity *Learning Together *Respect *Forgiveness ......I prefer someone youthful in his appearance AND heart. :)We don't have to look and feel our age if we eat healthy, stay fit and take care of ourselves. Once two people connect on a deeper level that's the crazy little thing called LOVE.I would rather talk and get to know you a little through the phone before meeting in person.Please keep it real and post RECENT pics.Have a wonderful day! *** A casual meet over coffee or a drink, where we can see if there's a spark in person.

  • Garnett

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a single Mom of two kids 18 and 14. I love being with my kids and Family is very important to me. I love doing all kinds of different things. Love live sporting events and concerts. I also enjoy NASCAR, Football, Basketball, Baseball. I am the type of person who can make the most of any situation and just have fun with things. I enjoy BBQ's and hanging out with friends. Going to dinner and movies but also enjoy staying in.

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